{"id":120445,"date":"2020-12-21T14:06:48","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T14:06:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=120445"},"modified":"2022-01-06T16:02:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-06T16:02:09","slug":"lo-ami-davvero-per-quello-che-e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lo-ami-davvero-per-quello-che-e\/","title":{"rendered":"Siate sinceri con voi stessi: Lo ami davvero per quello che \u00e8?"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I asked you why are you with him, you would probably answer because you love him, right? But the much better question would be \u2013 why do you love him, and what made you fall in love with him?<\/p>\n

Would you be able to answer that? Would you struggle with the answer or offer me some of those boring, classic explanations…<\/p>\n

Because he’s a good man, because he’s good to me, blah, blah, blah?<\/p>\n

Possiamo apprezzare e persino innamorarci di qualcuno senza motivo, ma ci sono sempre alcune cose che ci fanno rimanere innamorati di quella persona.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love has the power to blind us completely. We’re unable to see that person for who they truly are. We idealize them and make a perfect picture of them in our heads.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, we fall in love with that picture of them we’ve made, not with who they really are.<\/p>\n

State cercando di riempire un vuoto che avete nella vostra vita?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A volte tutti abbiamo la sensazione di avere un vuoto enorme nella nostra vita. Sentiamo che manca qualcuno o qualcosa e purtroppo questo ci porta a prendere decisioni affrettate per riempire quel vuoto.<\/p>\n

One of these decisions is allowing someone to enter your life and becoming infatuated with them. You’re happy because you have someone to spend your time with.<\/p>\n

You’re happy because there’s finally another person on the other side of the bed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you may think you love him, you don’t. You just fell in love with the idea of having someone to finally fill the void in your life and to give you something that was missing for so long.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 15 segni inconfutabili che siete davvero innamorati di lui<\/a><\/p>\n

Lo accettate per quello che \u00e8 veramente?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you’ve been dating him for a while, then you\u2019ve had time to acknowledge his flaws. Do you still accept him with all of his flaws and imperfections?<\/p>\n

Have you ever tried to change those not so perfect parts of him? If you have, I’m sorry, but I have to be honest and tell you there is no true love there.<\/p>\n

Quando si ama sinceramente qualcuno, lo si accetta per tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8.<\/strong> Accettate e apprezzate tutto ci\u00f2 che essi apportano alla relazione.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore<\/a> si tratta di accettare completamente una persona, non di cercare di cambiarla.<\/p>\n

Siete gelosi di altre coppie felici?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you’re a little bit envious of other happy couples around you, then that’s a sign that something is missing in your own relationship.<\/p>\n

You can’t be jealous of other couples if you’re satisfied with your relationship. Well, you can, but that would only mean you’re a deeply insecure and unhappy person.<\/p>\n

La vostra relazione \u00e8 troppo drammatica?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'amore a volte \u00e8 complicato. Le relazioni possono essere impegnative. Sono pienamente d'accordo con tutto questo.<\/p>\n

Non esiste una relazione completamente priva di drammi, ma c'\u00e8 sempre un equilibrio in tutto quando l'amore \u00e8 reale e onesto.<\/p>\n

Se nella vostra relazione ci sono troppi drammi, significa che non c'\u00e8 abbastanza amore. La vostra relazione dovrebbe darvi energia, non prosciugarvi emotivamente ogni giorno.<\/em><\/p>\n

Vi sentite in trappola?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Avete paura di solitudine<\/a>? Don’t be shy to admit it because we all are. God created us as social creatures, and we all crave for someone we’ll be able to walk through life with.<\/p>\n

However, don’t allow that fear to control your feelings. Don’t try to convince yourself you love someone just because you’re afraid to leave them, because you’re scared of being alone.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, if you don’t honestly love them, the relationship will fail. If you allow yourself to be stuck with him, you might miss the right one. You might miss true love.<\/p>\n

Ridurre le aspettative<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I’m serious. Forget all those things you want from your relationship and your boyfriend too.<\/p>\n

Abbassate tutti i vostri aspettative<\/a>anche quelli sani e realistici. Poi, aspettate e vedete cosa succede.<\/p>\n

It’ll allow you to have a more realistic perspective on your relationship. You’ll know exactly where you stand in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You’ll be able to see yourself with that man in the distant future. You’ll finally realize whether you’re in love with him or just the idea you had of him in your mind all this time.<\/p>\n

Cerca di ascoltare il tuo istinto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you can’t get rid of the feeling that something is off, it’s probably because something is indeed wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n

La vostra voce interiore sta solo cercando di avvertirvi e dovreste smettere di cercare di metterla a tacere. Se tutto \u00e8 a posto, dovreste godervi la vostra bolla d'amore senza questi segnali d'allarme e queste voci intorno a voi.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, so often, people do mistake infatuation for love. Don’t let your fears stop you from being honest with yourself.<\/p>\n

Ammettete la verit\u00e0 a voi stessi, perch\u00e9 voi e soprattutto il vostro cuore puro e gentile lo meritate.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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