{"id":122241,"date":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:15:46","slug":"donna-smette-di-sostenere-che-non-vali-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/donna-smette-di-sostenere-che-non-vali-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando una donna smette di litigare, vuol dire che non vale pi\u00f9 la pena di litigare"},"content":{"rendered":"

L'altro giorno, mentre ero seduto con alcuni amici maschi, ho posto loro la domanda pi\u00f9 importante: \"Qual \u00e8 la cosa che li infastidisce di pi\u00f9 delle ragazze?\".<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t referring to their incontri che rompono gli schemi<\/a> because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like and are in a relationship with.<\/p>\n

And, they all agreed on one thing: they can\u2019t stand naggy girls.<\/strong> \u00c8 cos\u00ec che classificano le ragazze che mettono in evidenza i loro difetti e li chiamano in causa.<\/p>\n

Before we consider matters any further, let\u2019s get one thing straight: I\u2019m familiar with each one of these guy\u2019s love histories, and I know exactly which of their exes they\u2019re talking about.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re not talking about possessively jealous girls. They\u2019re not talking about women who saw them as not good enough or about women who kept putting them down.<\/p>\n

Invece, queste erano le ragazze che facevano del loro meglio per trasformare i miei amici in uomini migliori. Le ragazze che hanno investito il loro tempo, le loro energie e i loro nervi in ragazzi che non li meritavano.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Erano le donne che lottavano per i loro uomini. Le donne che hanno fatto di tutto per far funzionare le loro relazioni, in un modo o nell'altro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: neither of these relationships was idyllic. There was a lot of arguing, but one thing was for sure: each one of these women wholeheartedly loved my buddies.<\/p>\n

Ma ognuna di queste storie ha avuto un esito simile. Prima o poi, tutte queste ragazze si sono stancate.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Hanno scaricato i miei amici, si sono allontanati da loro e non sono pi\u00f9 tornati indietro. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tutti questi ragazzi hanno finito per avere il cuore spezzato una volta capito cosa avevano perso, ma ovviamente ora fanno tutti finta che una cosa del genere non sia mai successa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, these things do happen. It\u2019s actually a pretty typical scenario.<\/p>\n

A guy meets a girl. They fall in love, but the second he sees that he\u2019s gotten under her skin, he shows his true colors.<\/p>\n

Inizia dandola per scontata<\/a>pensando di non poter fare nulla per farla rinunciare a lui. \u00c8 talmente convinto che questa ragazza sia qui per restare che non si sforza di tenerla al suo fianco.<\/p>\n

Allo stesso tempo, la ragazza \u00e8 l'unica a lottare per questa relazione. Fa di tutto per far funzionare le cose.
\nLo perdona per tutte le stronzate che le fa subire.<\/p>\n

Why? Because she loves him and because she sees something in him \u2013 she sees hope that one day, this man will be her happily ever after.<\/p>\n

The telenovela goes on and on for years. She moves mountains for his sake while he isn\u2019t willing to move a finger for her sake.<\/p>\n

E poi, dopo tutte quelle seconde occasioni, capisce tutto. Finalmente lo capisce: lui non \u00e8 degno, non lo \u00e8 mai stato e non lo sar\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Si rende conto di aver sprecato anni della sua vita per un ragazzo che non le avrebbe mai dato ci\u00f2 di cui ha bisogno. Dopo aver fatto tutto il possibile, si rende conto che \u00e8 stato tutto inutile.<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza vede la verit\u00e0 e rompe questa relazione unilaterale. S\u00ec, ha gi\u00e0 provato a farlo in passato, ma questa volta \u00e8 diverso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This time, it\u2019s not an empty threat. This time, she gives up on him because she realizes he\u2019s no longer worth the fight.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is no more arguing, no more yelling, no more ultimatums, no more begging, no more chasing\u2026 All that is left is il suo silenzio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c8 questo il momento in cui ogni uomo \u00e8 fregato. \u00c8 il segno che ha raggiunto il punto di non ritorno.<\/p>\n

And, this is exactly what happened to most of my male friends. So, if you\u2019re like this, please be different and change your destiny on time.<\/p>\n

If you have a girl who argues with you \u2013 it means that she still has the strength to fight for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It means that you should consider yourself lucky because when she stops trying, you\u2019ll wish for all the nagging and criticism to come back. You\u2019ll wish for her love to come back.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The other day, I was sitting with some of my male friends and I asked them the ultimate question: \u201cWhat is the thing that annoys them most about girls?\u201d I wasn\u2019t referring to their dating dealbreakers because they\u2019re all different \u2013 I was talking about the things that bother them in the women they like…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":122335,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/When-A-Woman-Stops-Arguing-That-Means-Youre-No-Longer-Worth-The-Fight-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}