This is so much more than just labeling things and calling me his girlfriend. Hey, I\u2019m the only one who can change him, the only one who can make him forget about his old ways, and the only one he\u2019d proudly call his wife.<\/p>\n
Quanto \u00e8 romantico? Beh, crescendo ho capito che il romanticismo non ha nulla a che fare con questo epiteto.<\/p>\n
Instead, as perfect as \u201cwifey material\u201d might sound, it\u2019s actually a major red flag, and here is why.<\/p>\n
Ti mette in una scatola.<\/h2>\n
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Chiunque vi dica queste parole vi sta mettendo in una scatola. Guys who display signs of toxic masculinity divide all women in this world into two categories: the ones they\u2019ll have fun with and the ones who will give birth to their children.<\/strong><\/p>\n Frequentano il primo gruppo per anni. Vanno a letto con loro e se ne innamorano.<\/p>\n Ma, quando arriva il momento di sistemarsi, cercano cose diverse. Quindi, quale gruppo \u00e8 migliore?<\/p>\n Beh, nessuno dei due. La cosa migliore \u00e8 stare alla larga dagli uomini che la pensano cos\u00ec. Scappate a gambe levate non appena incontrate un uomo che cerca di mettervi in una scatola.<\/p>\n Questo uomo riduce tutte le altre qualit\u00e0. Valuta tutto il vostro valore in base al vostro potenziale di diventare una buona moglie per lui.<\/p>\n Isn\u2019t that sexist and humiliating?<\/strong><\/p>\n Quando un ragazzo si riferisce a voi come a una moglie, lo vedete come un segno innegabile che vuole trascorrere il resto della sua vita con te<\/a>. After all those wrong choices, you\u2019ve finally found someone who thinks of you as the one.<\/p>\n He dreams of growing old with you, and he couldn\u2019t picture anyone else besides you to be the mother of his children. If you feel the same way about him, what more could a woman want?<\/p>\n Ma le cose sono davvero cos\u00ec luminose e brillanti? Vi siete mai chiesti: \u201cDoes this guy want to marry me or does he just want to get married?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Forse non ve ne rendete conto, ma la differenza tra questi due elementi \u00e8 enorme.<\/strong> You see, it\u2019s one thing if you\u2019re the one who made him think about settling down.<\/p>\n Questo \u00e8 lo scenario perfetto. Ti ha incontrato e ha capito che eri la donna della sua vita.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, what if it went the other way around? What if this man just decided it\u2019s time to get married regardless of who his spouse will be?<\/p>\n Maybe he\u2019s tired of looking for the one or he thinks it\u2019s time to give up on his bachelor life. Maybe he is scared that he\u2019ll be forever alone unless he finds someone to tie the knot with.<\/p>\n So, you\u2019re the first one who came along. You\u2019re suitable and conveniente<\/a>. You meet his standards and that\u2019s why he immediately started telling you that you\u2019re \u201cwifey material\u201d.<\/p>\n I bet you know the drill: you meet a guy who has everything you\u2019ve been looking for in men.<\/p>\n For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve been wasting your time on immature boys who never knew what they wanted, who made you feel unloved, and who were che ti prende per i fondelli<\/a> per anni.<\/p>\n E ora, dopo tutti questi fallimenti, si fa vivo. Vi dedica attenzioni pi\u00f9 che sufficienti, d\u00e0 priorit\u00e0 alla vostra relazione e non ha ripensamenti sul posto che occupate nella sua vita.<\/p>\n But, let\u2019s be honest: in most cases, when a guy is too good to be true \u2013 he probably is. I hate to be the one to break your bubble, but is it possible that this man is actually hiding his true colors?<\/strong><\/p>\n Is it possible that he wants to speed things up for a reason? He wants you to say \u201cI do\u201d before getting to the bottom of his personality or past.<\/p>\n Otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t rush you into anything. I know what you must think now.<\/p>\n He is so sure that you\u2019re his forever person that he doesn\u2019t want to wait a day before making you his forever person.<\/p>\n But, come on, if that were true, then why wouldn\u2019t you wait a bit longer? Time won\u2019t destroy your connection if it is the real deal!<\/p>\n When a man tells you that you\u2019re \u201cwifey material\u201d, you shouldn\u2019t take it as a compliment. I know that you\u2019re flattered at first glance, but trust me, this simple sentence usually hides a lot more.<\/p>\n The truth is that this man doesn\u2019t see you as his equal life partner. He doesn\u2019t see you two conquering the world together and achieving great things.<\/strong><\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t picture you two holding each other\u2019s hands and pushing one another towards success.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instead, when he tells you that you\u2019re \u201cwifey material\u201d, this is the picture he has in mind. He comes home from work shouting \u201cHoney, I\u2019m home\u201d.<\/p>\n You welcome him open-handedly, the entire house smells like cupcakes, and you\u2019re overjoyed that you get to spend the afternoon together.<\/p>\n Of course, after lunch, he lays down on a couch and you give him the most sensual massage ever. You know what I\u2019m talking about \u2013 you saw the 1950s happy family posters.<\/p>\n Sounds idyllic, right? Well, it probably does \u2013 for him.<\/p>\n But, what about you? You\u2019re the moglie sottomessa<\/a> in questa storia, ma non in senso positivo.<\/p>\nHe doesn\u2019t want to marry you \u2013 he just wants to get married.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nVuole accelerare le cose per un motivo.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou\u2019re likely to be submissive.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDov'\u00e8 l'amore?<\/h2>\n
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