{"id":122401,"date":"2021-01-08T16:24:38","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:24:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122401"},"modified":"2022-02-21T18:52:04","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T18:52:04","slug":"donna-che-non-ha-bisogno-di-conferme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/donna-che-non-ha-bisogno-di-conferme\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come diventare il tipo di donna che non ha bisogno di conferme"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi preoccupate di ci\u00f2 che gli altri pensano di voi? Prendete a cuore l'opinione degli altri e permettete che controlli la vostra vita e influenzi il vostro umore?<\/p>\n

Yes, I could say that’s wrong. Don’t allow others to have such power over you, or all that BS about how you’re a strong woman on your own and you should smettere di cercare conferme<\/a> from others to start flourishing…<\/p>\n

But no, I’m going to be honest and say that I totally get you.<\/p>\n

I get you because I was once struggling with that same overwhelming constant need for other people’s validation.<\/strong> Non ho mai avuto fiducia in me stessa. Non ho mai creduto di essere intelligente, bella o abbastanza brava, a meno che non me lo dicesse qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

Some people say it’s a habit, but I wouldn’t agree. Habits can be easily broken \u2013 this is something way different and way more difficult to get rid of.<\/em><\/p>\n

I can’t say I freed myself from the shackles of that constant craving for affirmation-validation, but I definitely did find a way to tame it and keep it under control.<\/p>\n

Essere pienamente consapevoli del proprio valore e non aver bisogno di conferme da parte di nessuno \u00e8 sicuramente una delle qualit\u00e0 migliori e pi\u00f9 attraenti che una donna possa avere.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let’s tame our cravings for validation together through some very simple steps.<\/p>\n

Accettarsi cos\u00ec come si \u00e8<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che tutti noi abbiamo dei difetti e delle imperfezioni e nessuno di noi \u00e8 completamente perfetto.<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, molto spesso, i nostri difetti e i nostri lati negativi ci accecano e diventiamo completamente incapaci di vedere l'altro lato di noi, quello migliore e pi\u00f9 luminoso.<\/p>\n

Per essere completamente felici e sentirsi a proprio agio nella propria pelle, \u00e8 necessario accettarsi cos\u00ec come si \u00e8.<\/strong> \u00c8 necessario accettare ogni parte di s\u00e9, per quanto imperfetta possa essere.<\/p>\n

Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You. You. You. Everything in your life should revolve around you, and that’s why your own happiness should be more important to you than anyone else’s.<\/p>\n

Dovete sempre ascoltare il vostro cuore e fare le cose che vi rendono felici. Non potete mai per favore tutte le persone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

There will always be some who will agree with your actions and choices, while on the other hand, there will always be those who’ll condemn them all and make you look bad.<\/p>\n

Per favore, smettetela di scusarvi troppo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Yes, you should be strong enough to accept your mistakes and offer your sincere apologies. However, that doesn’t mean that you should apologize for everything you do.<\/p>\n

You should never apologize for things you don\u2019t consider wrong or for things that were beyond your control.<\/p>\n

Utilizzare dichiarazioni quotidiane di autostima<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

One of the things that really affect your need for other people’s validation is the way you communicate with yourself.<\/p>\n

If you never have positive self-talk, then surely it will make you think bad about yourself, and you will try to find people who’ll give you the affirmation you need.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 180+ Affermazioni quotidiane per le donne pi\u00f9 potenti<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Smettete di cercare di spiegarvi in continuazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You don’t owe anyone explanations about your actions. You’re an independent woman, so start behaving like one.<\/p>\n

Even if you make a mistake sometimes, even if your own choices and actions lead you in the wrong direction, you shouldn’t be sorry for it. If others don’t like it or don’t agree with it, it’s their problem.<\/p>\n

Critiques, along with advice from other people, are always welcomed, but don’t give them the right to interfere too much in your life.<\/p>\n

Your life is yours and only yours. You’re the only one who has the right to control it.<\/strong> Sostenete sempre le vostre parole, le vostre azioni e le vostre scelte, per quanto possano sembrare sbagliate agli altri.<\/p>\n

Aumentare la fiducia in se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Ho imparato che le persone che hanno bisogno di cercare la convalida degli altri per sentirsi bene con se stesse hanno enormi problemi di autostima.<\/p>\n

That’s why you always have to work on yourself. Self-awareness and self-confidence are two very powerful weapons in this fight.<\/em><\/p>\n

That’s why you have to sharpen those tools. You have to build your core confidence if you want to win this battle and become a strong, fearless, and independent woman.<\/p>\n

It’s time to take your eyes off your insecurities<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nessuno di noi \u00e8 immune dalla terribile sensazione di essere a volte insicuro di se stesso.<\/p>\n

It’s good to be aware of some of those not-so-perfect parts of us, but instead of hating yourself because of your insicurezze<\/a> and allowing them to make you a weak person, you should embrace them because, after all, they’re a part of you, too.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it’s necessary to mute the background noise<\/h2>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

There will always be some people who think they know better than you and who’ll want to interfere in your life or try to control it.<\/p>\n

Think of that as unnecessary noise that you need to silence. It’s just their opinion, it doesn’t mean it’s right. Ascoltate il vostro istinto. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ascoltate il vostro cuore e seguite i suoi desideri, a prescindere da tutto.<\/em><\/p>\n

Marciare al ritmo del proprio tamburo<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Choose a path you like and stick to that choice no matter what. Stick to that path you’ve chosen for yourself even if the whole world chooses to go the other way.<\/p>\n

This is a decision that only brave people can make. I want to warn you, it’s not going to be ideal always.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, life will throw many lemons on your path and try to knock you on the floor and defeat you. When that happens, don’t expect others to tell you what you should do with it.<\/p>\n

Quando succede, quando la vita inizia a lanciarvi limoni, raccoglieteli tutti, aggiungeteci un po' di vodka e preparate un cavolo di martini. Godetevi il vostro cocktail con il meraviglioso profumo della vittoria.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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