{"id":122900,"date":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","date_gmt":"2021-01-08T16:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=122900"},"modified":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T13:05:17","slug":"come-il-phubbing-rovina-la-vostra-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-il-phubbing-rovina-la-vostra-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come il phubbing rovina la vostra relazione (non si tratta di se, ma di quando)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qual \u00e8 il vostro modo di rilassarvi dopo una dura giornata di lavoro? Vi accoccolate davanti al caminetto con la persona amata o vi piace bere la vostra bevanda preferita mentre vi rilassate?<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, in questi tempi moderni, sono sempre di pi\u00f9 le persone che scelgono la seconda opzione.<\/p>\n

Phubbing has become a real problem, and it’s one of the most common causes of weakening the emotional closeness between people.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All of those virtual things aren’t and should never be more important than the real world. All those people you communicate with online should never be more important than your loved one, not even those you communicate with on a daily basis.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know it’s nice to escape sometimes from our slightly boring and often cruel everyday lives in that ideal, virtual world.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, prestare maggiore attenzione al cellulare e scegliere costantemente quella scatoletta di vetro al posto della persona che amate avr\u00e0 conseguenze enormi sulla vostra relazione. A volte pu\u00f2 addirittura danneggiarla in modo irreparabile.<\/p>\n

You’ll grow apart<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Se permettete allo smartphone di distogliere l'attenzione dal vostro partner, vi staccherete emotivamente da lui.<\/p>\n

If you choose to share exciting news with your Facebook audience instead of your partner, that means you’re choosing your virtual life over them.<\/p>\n

You won’t be spending quality time together anymore, and it will lead to you eventually growing apart.<\/p>\n

Il vostro legame emotivo si indebolir\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If your partner is talking to you about their day or their work and they’re getting half of your attention while you’re scrolling on your phone, they will feel like you aren’t listening to them at all or that you don\u2019t care about the things that are important to them.<\/p>\n

Eventually, they’ll also stop communicating with you. And honestly, non c'\u00e8 relazione sana<\/a> senza una buona comunicazione.<\/em> The bond between you will weaken, and you’ll become completely emotionally disconnected.<\/p>\n

Sorgeranno problemi di fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll definitely cause problemi di fiducia<\/a>. Il vostro partner inizier\u00e0 a chiedersi se c'\u00e8 qualcun altro nella vostra vita e se questa persona \u00e8 il motivo per cui prestate pi\u00f9 attenzione al telefono che a loro.<\/p>\n

Honestly, everyone would find it a little bit suspicious. When you truly love someone, you’ll never allow them to feel neglected, especially not over something so unimportant as that glass box.<\/p>\n

You’ll both feel lonely<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Anche se passate tutti i giorni insieme, anche se vivete insieme, prestare pi\u00f9 attenzione al vostro smartphone che al vostro partner vi far\u00e0 sentire entrambi soli nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

La distanza tra di voi crescer\u00e0 ogni giorno che passa e questo sar\u00e0 l'inizio di una relazione tossica<\/a>. Purtroppo pu\u00f2 anche indurre il partner a cercare conforto in un'altra persona.<\/p>\n

They’ll get bored of you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Well, let’s admit it, there’s nothing worse than talking to a person who is just pretending to listen to you while they’re actually giving all their attention to their phone.<\/p>\n

Ora immaginate di avere una relazione con questo tipo di persona. Possono davvero frustrarvi e, anzi, il loro comportamento pu\u00f2 annoiarvi a morte.<\/em><\/p>\n

Anche la vostra vita intima ne risentir\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It’ll also leave dire consequences on your intimate life. At first, your partner was happy and satisfied because your bedroom was the only place where they could steal your attention away from your phone.<\/p>\n

But in the end, that will also change. At first, you’ll be only allontanarsi<\/a> emotivamente, ma in seguito apparir\u00e0 anche una distanza fisica tra di voi.<\/p>\n

Diventer\u00e0 la causa principale di tutti i vostri litigi.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Your partner will feel neglected and even rejected all the time. They won’t be able to accept the fact you’re giving more attention to your phone than you are to them, and it will make them doubt your fidelity.<\/p>\n

They’ll start snooping through your phone, and they’ll follow every step you take. Then you won’t be okay with their behavior, and there it is, each day more and more disagreements and problems will arise.<\/p>\n

Le emozioni negative saranno elevate<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I know this may sound a little bit funny, but your partner will actually be jealous of your phone. They’ll also feel angry, hurt, and upset.<\/p>\n

I mean, who wouldn’t? After all, they’re being replaced with a simple glass box.<\/p>\n

Il punto cruciale \u00e8 che: Prima o poi roviner\u00e0 la vostra relazione.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you don’t realize your problem in time, your relationship may not be salvageable. Your behavior may make your partner leave you once and for all.<\/p>\n

A nessuno piace sentirsi trascurato, soprattutto da qualcuno che amiamo e a cui teniamo sinceramente.<\/strong>. Don’t allow your smartphone to ruin the closeness between you and your loved one.<\/p>\n

Prima di iniziare a lavorare per sistemare e salvare la vostra relazione, dovete prima ammettere e venire a patti con il fatto che avete un problema.<\/p>\n

Also, get ready because it might be a bumpy ride, but if you truly love your partner, you’ll know that keeping them by your side is worth everything.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What is your way of relaxing after a hard day at work? Is it snuggling in front of the fireplace with your loved one, or do you like to drink your favorite beverage while phubbing? Unfortunately, in these modern times, there are more and more people who are choosing the latter option. Phubbing has become…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":122903,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-122900","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/This-Is-How-Phubbing-Ruins-Your-Relationship-Its-Not-If-But-When-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=122900"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/122900\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=122900"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=122900"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=122900"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}