And you need to read it. You need to read it because there are some things I need to tell you since you obviously aren\u2019t willing to accept them on your own.<\/p>\n
Quindi, ancora oggi vi svegliate di notte e vi chiedete: cos'\u00e8 che fate di sbagliato? Cos'\u00e8 che fa s\u00ec che gli altri vi feriscano o si allontanino da voi come se non significaste nulla per loro?<\/p>\n
Why can\u2019t you make them stay? You still wonder how come out of all people in your life, you\u2019re only one that is never good enough?<\/p>\n
I need you to stop doing this to yourself. I need you to stop being so mean to yourself and I need you to stop blaming yourself for everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n
Life is full of ups and downs and shit happens to everyone, but what determines you is how you deal with it. And frankly speaking, you should stop beating yourself up for the things you couldn\u2019t and can\u2019t change.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not true that you could\u2019ve done things differently. It\u2019s not true that you could\u2019ve been a better person or that you should’ve sacrificed yourself more.<\/p>\n
Avete gi\u00e0 dato il meglio di voi agli altri e loro lo hanno dato per scontato. Hanno usato la vostra gentilezza<\/a> quando ne avevano bisogno e, una volta guariti, ti hanno lasciato.<\/p>\n But leaving is something that runs through their veins and nothing you did was going to make them stay. They didn\u2019t enter your life to stay forever; they came because God sent them to teach you a lesson.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time for you to understand what that lesson was.<\/p>\n Okay, friends that should\u2019ve stuck around left. The boy who should\u2019ve seen you and should\u2019ve stayed, didn\u2019t. Someone told you how you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t reach the expectations others have for you. So what? None of this means that something is wrong with you. It\u2019s just that you had that bad luck to meet too many toxic people in your life.<\/p>\n But there isn\u2019t anything wrong with you. And you need to stick this in your head once and forever.<\/p>\n Vi prego di smettere di pensare troppo, di riproporre scenari fallimentari, di alimentare il dubbio su voi stessi e di vedere il buono in tutti tranne che in voi stessi. Vi meritate di pi\u00f9. <\/i><\/p>\n Smettere di colpevolizzarsi e di rievocare vecchi ricordi dolorosi. Smettete di rimproverarvi per le cose che sono successe in passato.<\/p>\n Stop blaming yourself for the things you\u2019re not guilty of. And most importantly, stop tearing your self-esteem down.<\/p>\n![\"una](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-disappointed-woman.jpg\")
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