{"id":12393,"date":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T12:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12393"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:25:27","slug":"non-si-puo-continuare-a-scegliere-qualcuno-che-non-sceglie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-puo-continuare-a-scegliere-qualcuno-che-non-sceglie\/","title":{"rendered":"Non potete continuare a scegliere qualcuno che non sceglie voi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Posso rinfrescarle la memoria?<\/p>\n<p>Era lei a prendersi sempre cura di lui. Sei stata tu a mettere tanto impegno nella vostra relazione. Sei stata tu a sopportare tutte le sue stronzate. Sei stata tu a fare tutto il possibile per farlo funzionare! <strong>But it didn&#8217;t change a thing. I hope he can sleep knowing that.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ho capito, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/there-will-always-be-someone-better\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ci sar\u00e0 sempre qualcuno migliore di noi<\/a>. Someone more intelligent, someone more attractive etc, but no one can love him the way you did. No one can do all the things you&#8217;ve done for him and yet, he still chose someone else.<\/p>\n<p>You wanted to stay, but you couldn&#8217;t see the reason. Because there was no reason besides his lack of effort that made you choose between him and your own happiness. If it comes to these two, always choose yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 un giorno vi guarderete indietro e sorriderete perch\u00e9 saprete di aver schivato un proiettile. Siete sfuggiti a una trappola.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine if you hadn\u2019t found out about her. The same &#8216;her&#8217; who ruined your dreams about forever being with that one person. She destroyed your dreams of loving him until the end of days.<\/p>\n<p>Ed \u00e8 stato lui a frantumare il tuo cuore in piccoli pezzi perch\u00e9 ha preferito lei a te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa nella vasca da bagno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-woman-in-bathtub-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would you even want someone who has to think twice before choosing you? Or the way he did it\u2014he didn&#8217;t think twice, he simply chose her.<\/p>\n<p>Qual \u00e8 stato il tuo primo pensiero? Che non l'avreste pi\u00f9 riavuto indietro, giusto? Ma poi avete iniziato a pensare e il vostro cuore ha avuto un sussulto perch\u00e9 avete capito che lo avreste ripreso, perch\u00e9 lo amavate, perch\u00e9 avete un'anima pura.<\/p>\n<p>But you shouldn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Too often, love is an excuse to put up with someone&#8217;s bullshit, but it&#8217;s much, much more than that. Love is knowing that you are worthy of being someone&#8217;s priority rather than a choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>L'amore \u00e8 sapere di essere abbastanza per qualcuno che ti apprezzer\u00e0 veramente. L'amore \u00e8 la sensazione che si prova quando qualcuno ti abbraccia come se non volesse pi\u00f9 lasciarti andare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Questo \u00e8 il vero significato dell'amore. L'amore vero e autentico non potr\u00e0 mai essere altro che questo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Please remember that she is not easier to love than you are. You will be loved by your soulmate so effortlessly and you need to know that there will be someone who won&#8217;t let go of you, no matter how many women there are in line just to kiss him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94036\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna in bikini che bacia il suo ragazzo sulla spiaggia al tramonto. Bella coppia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Young-woman-in-bikini-kissing-her-boyfriend-on-beach-at-sunset.-Lovely-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There will come someone who won&#8217;t think twice, because his ONLY choice will be you. Not like the man you just saw walking away with someone who he thought to be a better option, but rather a man who won&#8217;t have options, but a priority\u2014which is you.<\/p>\n<p>You are the person he&#8217;s looking forward to meeting, so make space for that man while<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-modi-efficaci-per-lasciar-andare-la-negativita-e-superare-il-passato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Lasciare andare il passato<\/a> ricordi ed esperienze passate.<\/p>\n<p>Per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-accontentatevi-di-un-uomo-che-vi-ha-gia-lasciate-una-volta\/\">l'uomo che ti ha lasciato<\/a> will never be ready for a woman like you are. You are too kind and generous for him. He didn&#8217;t know how to handle you.<\/p>\n<p>He didn&#8217;t think that you were good enough, but you will be more than perfect for someone who knows how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So choose life and love over someone who doesn&#8217;t even know what loving someone like you looks like. And be patient, my dear. Be patient. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Arriver\u00e0 qualcuno che vi far\u00e0 perdere la testa nel momento in cui lo guarderete negli occhi e vedrete l'eternit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94033 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Non potete continuare a scegliere qualcuno che non sceglie voi\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me refresh your memory, may I? You were the one who always cared for him. You were the one putting so much effort into your relationship. You were the one who took all his bullshit. You were the one who did everything you could to make it work! But it didn&#8217;t change a thing&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":94032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Cant-Keep-Choosing-Someone-Who-Doesnt-Choose-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}