{"id":124437,"date":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","date_gmt":"2021-01-18T14:35:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124437"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:09:05","slug":"cose-che-le-ragazze-fanno-per-allontanarli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-che-le-ragazze-fanno-per-allontanarli\/","title":{"rendered":"5 uomini rivelano le piccole cose che le ragazze fanno per allontanarli"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se ci penso bene, non ho imparato molto sugli uomini dai miei fidanzati. Un ragazzo con cui esci non sar\u00e0 mai completamente onesto con te.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why Ogni ragazza dovrebbe avere un migliore amico maschio<\/a>. He\u2019s the one who will show you the world from a whole different perspective.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But what if you don\u2019t have guy friends? Well, luckily, you have me.<\/p>\n

L'altro giorno stavo prendendo un caff\u00e8 con alcuni amici. E ho chiesto loro quali sono le piccole cose che le ragazze fanno per allontanarli, senza nemmeno esserne consapevoli.<\/p>\n

Ecco cosa mi hanno detto:<\/p>\n

Essere una regina del dramma<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The number one thing that will make most guys run for their lives is you making a fuss over everything. Of course, you\u2019re allowed to complain about the things bothering you in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you\u2019re both grownups. So, I\u2019m sure you can find a way to sort things out differently.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t achieve anything if you blow things out of proportion and turn every little dispute into a disaster.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me: guys don\u2019t find this behavior charming. Instead, they see you as a spoiled attention-whore.<\/p>\n

Remember: not everything will go your way. Whether you like it or not, if you want to keep a man around, you\u2019ll have to deal with it and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Soffocamento<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re this man\u2019s GF doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve suddenly become the only person in his life.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re head over heels for your boyfriend, and you probably want to spend every second of your day with him, but smothering him is not the way to keep him around.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, tutti i ragazzi vi diranno che soffocare una donna non fa altro che allontanarla, a prescindere da quanto gli piaccia.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini sono molto diversi dalle donne. A il ragazzo potrebbe essere pazzo di te<\/a>ma ha ancora bisogno di spazi personali e di tempo da dedicare a se stesso.<\/p>\n

The last thing he wants is to feel tied down. The moment he notices that you\u2019re trying to ensnare him, he\u2019ll see your behavior as a threat, and he\u2019ll run for his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you want to make any man yours, just let him be. Don\u2019t be too possessive, and he\u2019ll come to you of his own accord.<\/p>\n

Aspettarsi che sia un lettore della mente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As much as we would all like them to be, the truth is that men are not mind-readers. No guy can guess what\u2019s going on in your head, nor can he be familiar with your feelings without you saying a word.<\/p>\n

Tutti loro odiano quando ci si aspetta che siano una specie di maghi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Li allontana quando una ragazza mostra modelli di comportamento passivo-aggressivo e quando li mette a tacere all'improvviso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bisogna capire che la maggior parte degli uomini \u00e8 meno perspicace delle donne. Raramente hanno la capacit\u00e0 di leggere tra le righe.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se volete che il vostro fidanzato vi capisca, verbalizzate i vostri pensieri, sentimenti e atteggiamenti. Siate molto chiari sui vostri standard e precisi sulle vostre aspettative se volete che vengano soddisfatte.<\/p>\n

Condividere i segreti della propria relazione con l'amica del cuore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The next thing on the list of things most guys consider a huge turn off is not respecting his privacy. I\u2019m not talking about snooping around your boyfriend\u2019s phone here (even though this is also a big no).<\/p>\n

Invece, I\u2019m referring to when you share your relationship secrets with your BFF. I know this is your friend, but she is not his person of trust, so this is something every man will hold against you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Look, there is nothing wrong with talking about your relationship. After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you value your best friend\u2019s opinion and that sometimes, you\u2019ll be in need of her advice.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, no guy likes knowing that his girlfriend\u2019s BFF is familiar with all the personal details of his romantic relationship. He won\u2019t be comfortable knowing that this girl is familiar with his bedroom activities, financial records, and deepest emotions.<\/p>\n

Alla ricerca di una costante convalida<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but most guys don\u2019t consider overly insecure girls attractive.<\/p>\n

You can look like a top model and be the smartest woman in the world, but if you don\u2019t have high self-esteem, nobody will even notice you.<\/p>\n

Quando si accorgono che la loro autostima sta per essere distrutta, le ragazze di solito iniziano a chiedere una costante convalida da parte del loro ragazzo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cAm I pretty enough? Am I interesting to be around? Am I girlfriend material? What would you do if I died \u2013 would you get married again, or would you remain single forever?\u201d<\/p>\n

Even though this list sounds immature and unnecessary when you read it all together, this is just the tip of the iceberg. It\u2019s a sign that you don\u2019t see your worth, and before you know it, your BF will follow your lead<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I come to think about it, I didn\u2019t learn a lot about men from my boyfriends. A guy you\u2019re dating will never be completely honest with you. I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll go behind your back or deceive you, but he certainly won\u2019t tell you things that could start a fight. That\u2019s exactly why…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124440,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/5-Men-Reveal-The-Little-Things-Girls-Do-To-Push-Them-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=124437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163631,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124437\/revisions\/163631"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=124437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=124437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=124437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}