{"id":12446,"date":"2020-03-07T14:48:24","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T14:48:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12446"},"modified":"2022-04-28T17:22:49","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T17:22:49","slug":"modi-per-realizzare-i-bisogni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/modi-per-realizzare-i-bisogni\/","title":{"rendered":"14 modi per fargli capire che ha bisogno di te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, a relationship gets to that point where people forget they need to fight for one another because they\u2019re so sure of their feelings towards each other.<\/p>\n<p>We all get used to having someone next to us, like they\u2019re part of us and there\u2019s no way we can lose that part.<\/p>\n<p>Ma <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Have-a-Healthy-Relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">una relazione sana<\/a> richiede che entrambe le parti continuino a provare e a lavorare insieme affinch\u00e9 la relazione abbia successo.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti noi abbiamo bisogno di essere apprezzati e di sentirci amati e desiderati.<\/p>\n<p>Make the guy you adore realize you&#8217;re the one for him &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/56e120csbthv6q26qj0f6ikmav.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">CLICCA QUI<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Sentirsi ignorati, trascurati e non voluti \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 dolorosa da provare in una relazione, soprattutto se teniamo veramente alla nostra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Si dice che la peggiore solitudine sia quella che si prova accanto alla persona che si ama.<\/p>\n<p>E adesso? Vi sentite soli nella vostra relazione?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-114812 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/His-Secret-Obsession-4-7-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1202px) 100vw, 1202px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You found yourself feeling like you\u2019re taken for granted? Or you just entered the relationship and you really want it to work out, to show him that you\u2019re the One for him?<\/p>\n<p>Vi chiedete come fargli capire che ha bisogno di voi?<\/p>\n<p>We gathered games and ways that can make him realize that you\u2019re the one he needs and the one worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p>Ways that will show him that he\u2019s losing you and that it\u2019s time he steps up his game to keep you around.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Show him that you\u2019re more than just a body<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75229 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-happy-couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-typing-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia felice seduta in salotto a scrivere sul computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-happy-couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-typing-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-happy-couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-typing-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-happy-couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-typing-on-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not just someone to keep his bed warm or to help him to get off. You have feelings, you have needs, same as him. Show him that you\u2019re more than just an object in a house.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di rotolarvi nelle lenzuola, ditegli che avete bisogno di parlare dei vostri problemi e delle vostre emozioni.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli che siete migliori amici, amanti e partner per tutta la vita, non solo scopamici.<\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini tendono a dimenticare alcuni benefici dell'avere accanto una donna straordinaria, perch\u00e9 sono talmente presi dal loro stile di vita veloce.<\/p>\n<p>Ma ricordare loro di avere di nuovo queste cose li far\u00e0 sicuramente rallentare un po' e godere del momento.<\/p>\n<p>Sedetevi con lui e chiedetegli di parlarvi, di ascoltarvi. Dimostrategli che vi fa sentire bene e che avete bisogno del suo abbraccio per sentirvi di nuovo cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/380e3wdrm-9u3ye0o42qqlx985.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-114816 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lll-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"933\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lll-5.jpg 933w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lll-5-300x135.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lll-5-768x346.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/lll-5-150x68.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 933px) 100vw, 933px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Digli che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/4-signs-afraid-lonely\/\">ti senti solo<\/a> and taken for granted and that that\u2019s not what love is about. Show him that he can have good times with you, also.<\/p>\n<p>Portategli della birra, mettete il suo film o gioco preferito e guardatelo con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Mettete su una musica che vi ricordi il momento in cui vi siete appena conosciuti e godetevela con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Portatelo a fare un viaggio della memoria che gli ricordi che voi due siete stati prima amici e poi amanti e partner.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordategli la donna di cui si \u00e8 innamorato e il modo in cui vi trattava.<\/p>\n<p>If he keeps on taking you for granted, maybe it\u2019s time you return him a favor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dimostrategli che vi fidate di lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75231 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-lying-on-bed-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice sdraiata sul letto e che parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-lying-on-bed-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-lying-on-bed-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-lying-on-bed-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei motivi per cui gli uomini si allontanano \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/abbastanza-fiducioso-da-distruggere\/\">mancanza di fiducia<\/a> or feeling that there isn\u2019t any of it in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he feels bad leaving on business trips without you because he\u2019s worried you\u2019re pissed.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he\u2019s not able to enjoy the moment because he sees shadows of jealousy everywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli che ha la vostra fiducia. Dimostrategli che vi fidate di lui con il vostro corpo, con le vostre emozioni, con le vostre paure.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no heavier bond than fear and hope. Sharing your biggest emotions and horrors, alongside love, is something no man could turn his head away from.<\/p>\n<p>Suggest that you two take a weekend away once he\u2019s done with work. Or turn off your mobile phones and enjoy each other and the time you stole for you two.<\/p>\n<p>Trascorrete l'intero fine settimana cucinando insieme, ballando e facendo l'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate le volte in cui passavate ore a parlare a letto? Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che l'avete fatto?<\/p>\n<p>Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che vi siete aperti l'uno con l'altro? Sfruttate il weekend di fuga per aprirvi di nuovo l'uno con l'altro e per rafforzare il legame che condividete.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Make time for each other\u2014not just you for him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75232 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/female-sits-and-painting.jpg\" alt=\"donna siede e dipinge\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/female-sits-and-painting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/female-sits-and-painting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/female-sits-and-painting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Maybe he\u2019s so used to having you around that he forgot that he actually has to make an effort so that things could stay that way.<\/p>\n<p>Next time he calls you, don\u2019t answer. Take up a new hobby, meet new people.<\/p>\n<p>Show him that he now has to fight to spend time with you, that you\u2019re not a puppy who\u2019d answer the second he calls your name.<\/p>\n<p>Siete una persona che ha bisogno di sentirsi desiderata.<\/p>\n<p>Once he shows interest in fighting for you, work slowly on compromising. Sometimes there\u2019s no easy way to show him that he\u2019s losing you.<\/p>\n<p>If he suggests that you two go on a date and you already have something planned, don\u2019t cancel because of him.<\/p>\n<p>Mostrargli che <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/daylle-deanna-schwartz\/if-you-want-a-healthy-relationship_b_4046354.html\" rel=\"noopener\">hai una vita oltre a lui<\/a> e che hai persone a cui tieni nella tua vita, che lui non \u00e8 l'unico.<\/p>\n<p>Suggerite invece di spostare l'appuntamento a un altro giorno o a un paio d'ore dopo.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep on making time for him but he does it only when it\u2019s convenient to him, there is no way he will stop taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mostrare apprezzamento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75235 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"coppia romantica seduta in cucina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/romantic-couple-sitting-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Proprio come voi avete bisogno di sentirvi apprezzati e amati, anche lui ne ha bisogno. Ma invece di fargli i soliti complimenti, questa volta provate a giocare in modo diverso.<\/p>\n<p>Ditegli che non avevate dubbi sul fatto che avrebbe avuto successo con quel progetto al lavoro. Ditegli che vi piace il modo in cui <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2016\/07\/fall-in-love-with-the-guy-who-makes-you-feel-safe\/\" rel=\"noopener\">ti fa sentire al sicuro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him how you can\u2019t wait to have some time alone with him so you can enjoy his great body.<\/p>\n<p>How you need him to be close and to fall asleep in his strong arms because you\u2019re feeling broken.<\/p>\n<p>Show him that he\u2019s appreciated, that there\u2019s more than one reason you decided to give yourself to him.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto ammirate la sua etica lavorativa e la sua mente. Che ti fa sentire bene e che vuoi che entrambi siate felici.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him \u2018thank you\u2019 every once in a while because we get so used to things that people do for us that we start taking them for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he feels like he\u2019s being taken for granted and that\u2019s the reason he\u2019s pulling away?<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli che vedete i suoi sforzi e che li apprezzate.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Uscire senza di lui<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75237 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che cammina sul campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-walking-on-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You used to go out together all the time, but lately you\u2019re spending all your nights at home watching Netflix and sometimes (rarely, really) making love.<\/p>\n<p>If you want more, if you\u2019re not satisfied with that kind of lifestyle, but you\u2019re not ready to openly admit that to him, show him.<\/p>\n<p>Go out without him. You wanted to watch that movie so badly, but he doesn\u2019t feel like it?<\/p>\n<p>Go alone, go with your friends, don\u2019t settle for staying home with him.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like clubbing, but he doesn\u2019t? Go girl\u2014you were clubbing long before you met him.<\/p>\n<p>Just show him that you don\u2019t need him to accompany you everywhere; show him <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lettera-donna-indipendente-futuro-marito\/\">la vostra indipendenza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Enjoy your life to the fullest, and keep in mind that you don\u2019t need him to do that.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s amazing if he accompanies you along the way, if he\u2019s next to you when you\u2019re happy, but if he ignores your invitations, make him come to you.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not interested in leaving the house with you but he\u2019s perfectly fine doing that alone with friends, show him that you can play that ,too.<\/p>\n<p>If he still doesn\u2019t respond, that could be a sign that something is up. He\u2019s either under pressure or depressed but doesn\u2019t know how to open up about that. Or he\u2019s seeing someone else.<\/p>\n<p>L'importante \u00e8 che tu sappia che meriti di essere felice, anche se questo significa stare senza di lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mostra la tua sicurezza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75242 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confident-woman-standing-near-street-fence.jpg\" alt=\"donna sicura di s\u00e9 in piedi vicino alla recinzione della strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confident-woman-standing-near-street-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confident-woman-standing-near-street-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/confident-woman-standing-near-street-fence-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Confidence is not something we\u2019re naturally given and it\u2019s usually easier to lose it than to gain it. But if you have it, if you\u2019re working hard to keep it, show it off!<\/p>\n<p>You love how your body looks in that tight dress, but you\u2019re worried <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/dire-a-qualcuno-geloso-12-segni-circondati-invidia\/\">potrebbe essere geloso<\/a>? Wear it, and if he doubts you, if he doesn\u2019t trust you, that\u2019s a totally different problem you have.<\/p>\n<p>But if he\u2019s sure of your love, what could possibly go wrong if you remind him how much of an amazing woman he has beside him?<\/p>\n<p>What could possibly go wrong if you show him that you\u2019re still that strong and independent woman he fell in love with?<\/p>\n<p>You have the opportunity to move forward at work, but you\u2019re worried if he\u2019s going to feel threatened by your salary and success? Darling, if you can handle the challenge that\u2019s in front of you, you can handle him too.<\/p>\n<p>Believe in yourself, trust your gut. If it feels right, do it. He will learn to believe in you, too, and maybe it\u2019ll teach him to believe in himself.<\/p>\n<p>Vedr\u00e0 il modo in cui vi vedete e imparer\u00e0 a innamorarsi di voi a un livello completamente diverso.<\/p>\n<p>If, by any chance he decides that that\u2019s too much for him and he feels threatened, do you really need that kind of negativity in your life?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciate che a volte si prenda cura di se stesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75243 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thinkful-man-sitting-outside.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pensieroso seduto fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thinkful-man-sitting-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thinkful-man-sitting-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thinkful-man-sitting-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t run to his aid if he\u2019s sick or if he\u2019s having problems at work. If he said he can handle it but he only needed to share that with you, let him do it. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-di-immaturita-emotiva-di-un-ragazzo-madre\/\">You\u2019re not his mama<\/a> di stare sempre intorno a lui.<\/p>\n<p>Let him iron his shirts once in a while or tell him you want him to cook you dinner because he\u2019s so good at it. Little accomplishments can go a long way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to remind him that you\u2019re not a dishwasher, cleaning lady and cook made just to serve him.<\/p>\n<p>Tendiamo a fare il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba per compiacere le persone che ci circondano e per rendere felici i nostri uomini.<\/p>\n<p>But along the way, we forget that it\u2019s important that we\u2019re happy, too.<\/p>\n<p>That our happiness is as equally important as anybody else\u2019s. So, why not let him take care of himself sometimes? To take care of you?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important that you show him that you trust him with that, without guilt tripping and anger, because men tend to be sensitive about being called \u2018irresponsible\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to show him that you\u2019re independent, why not give him the same chance?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fate in modo che le persone intorno a lui vi amino<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75244 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Friends-smile-and-sit-in-a-cafe-drink-coffee-and-enjoy-together.jpg\" alt=\"Gli amici sorridono e si siedono in un bar, bevono caff\u00e8 e si divertono insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Friends-smile-and-sit-in-a-cafe-drink-coffee-and-enjoy-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Friends-smile-and-sit-in-a-cafe-drink-coffee-and-enjoy-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Friends-smile-and-sit-in-a-cafe-drink-coffee-and-enjoy-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu e sua madre andate d'accordo e suo padre pensa che tu sia un dono del cielo? Bene, met\u00e0 del lavoro \u00e8 gi\u00e0 fatto.<\/p>\n<p>Organizzate un weekend di visita ai suoi genitori per ricordargli che vi amano e che pensano che stiate benissimo insieme.<\/p>\n<p>His friends think you are the best woman out there and that he\u2019s seriously lucky to have you? Make sure he remembers that.<\/p>\n<p>Tell them they can watch the game at your place and bring them snacks, but don\u2019t stay too long. Plan yourself <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/marisa-donnelly\/2017\/07\/26-fun-and-easy-ideas-for-your-girls-night-in\/\" rel=\"noopener\">a lady\u2019s night<\/a> e goderne anche.<\/p>\n<p>Show them all that you have a life outside the relationship\u2014that\u2019s something all men admire: women that are not needy and clingy.<\/p>\n<p>If you already have the love of his people but he\u2019s pulling away, there could be something serious going on.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9, davvero, deve essere un tipo speciale di idiota per non vedere da solo quanto sei straordinaria.<\/p>\n<p>If he hasn\u2019t reacted to any of the tactics you have used, then it\u2019s time to sit down and address the issue.<\/p>\n<p>Neither of you is happy and you have to do something about it\u2014together.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Datevi delle priorit\u00e0 e fategli capire perch\u00e9 \u00e8 necessario.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75246 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna guarda pensierosa mentre parla al telefono in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/21-tips-to-release-self-neglect-and-love-yourself-in-action\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Trascurare se stessi<\/a>Non \u00e8 questo il modo di mantenere una relazione, se si vuole che lui sia soddisfatto e felice.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s so used to having you around, so used to you taking care of him, that he has no need to take care of himself or your relationship because he still believes that you will do it.<\/p>\n<p>Show him that you won\u2019t, put yourself first. Instead of going to his parents for the third weekend in a row, go somewhere you always wanted to go, whether alone or with friends.<\/p>\n<p>Stop respecting his wishes if he doesn\u2019t respect yours. If he shows you that he\u2019s hurt, don\u2019t add to the tension.<\/p>\n<p>Calmly try to make him understand that you really need that getaway weekend, that you really need to have some time for yourself and that you really need to feel wanted. And right now, you don\u2019t feel that way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciategli spazio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75248 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-jumping-in-water.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che salta in acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-jumping-in-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-jumping-in-water-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-jumping-in-water-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci sono cose che gli uomini amano fare da soli o con gli amici, come guardare le partite, andare al bar o a pescare (ovvero bere birra e parlare della loro vita di merda).<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that he doesn\u2019t love you or that he doesn\u2019t appreciate your company\u2014it\u2019s just like shopping or spa days for us.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s his time and he wants to enjoy it without worrying whether you\u2019re bored or his friends might say something that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lanno-non-lascera-che-si-faccia-male\/\">farebbe male<\/a> o di turbare l'utente.<\/p>\n<p>As much as you love him and want to spend time with him, it\u2019s important that you give him space to breathe.<\/p>\n<p>Passare ogni singolo minuto del vostro tempo insieme porter\u00e0 entrambi a stufarsi l'uno dell'altro e a inutili discussioni perch\u00e9 nessuno dei due ha avuto il tempo di sfogarsi.<\/p>\n<p>And trust me, that\u2019s time important to you as much as it is to him, which leads us to the next number.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Godersi la vita al di fuori della relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75250 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-friends-having-positive-conversation-at-the-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"amiche felici che conversano positivamente al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-friends-having-positive-conversation-at-the-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-friends-having-positive-conversation-at-the-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-woman-friends-having-positive-conversation-at-the-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important for him to see that you\u2019re not depending on him, that you are perfectly fine on your own.<\/p>\n<p>It will make him curious about your time, the life you\u2019re leading outside the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Take up a new hobby and make new friends who are not connected with your life and who don\u2019t know your partner.<\/p>\n<p>It will be a great opportunity for you to find a way to enjoy yourself more, to talk about things outside the ones you\u2019re always discussing with him and your friends.<\/p>\n<p>Troverete qualcosa di nuovo a cui dedicarvi e che potrebbe risvegliare la passione e accendere il fuoco dentro di voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Niente pi\u00f9 scuse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75251 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-arguing-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/smettere-di-trovare-scuse-uomo-tratta-come-merda\/\">Trovare scuse per lui<\/a>Ogni volta che sbaglia e ogni volta che ti fa del male, non far\u00e0 altro che fargli credere che pu\u00f2 darti per scontata.<\/p>\n<p>Stop tolerating his shitty behavior if there is any, because it won\u2019t get any better if you pretend that it\u2019s not there.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli che anche voi avete dei sentimenti e che deve impegnarsi di pi\u00f9 con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Se siete arrabbiate perch\u00e9 non vi aiuta in casa o con i bambini, diteglielo.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re upset about him taking your efforts for granted, tell him. He won\u2019t remember it himself, until it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<p>Tutte vogliamo rendere felici i nostri uomini e spesso perdoniamo troppe cose per amore.<\/p>\n<p>But remember that it\u2019s okay to love yourself, too. That it\u2019s okay to leave if it becomes too much.<\/p>\n<p>That it\u2019s more than okay to demand the respect you deserve. It will either make him give it to you and appreciate you much more thus making him want to be around you more, or he will snap and leave.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, it\u2019s a happy ending. You will get the man you deserve or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lascia-un-uomo-che-non-ti-merita\/\">get rid of the one you don\u2019t<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mostrare iniziativa in camera da letto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75253 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/A-beautiful-smiling-girl-lying-in-bed-in-night-dress-and-holding-phone-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"Una bella ragazza sorridente sdraiata a letto in abito da notte e con il telefono in mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/A-beautiful-smiling-girl-lying-in-bed-in-night-dress-and-holding-phone-in-her-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/A-beautiful-smiling-girl-lying-in-bed-in-night-dress-and-holding-phone-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/A-beautiful-smiling-girl-lying-in-bed-in-night-dress-and-holding-phone-in-her-hand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-telltale-signs-sexually-attracted\/\">Il sesso \u00e8 importante<\/a>\u2014not as important like the rest of the things on the list, but it still is.<\/p>\n<p>Siate seducenti e fatelo impazzire, stuzzicatelo e fatelo ritornare per avere di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been doing it the same way for months now, switch it up. Get on top and show him who is the boss. Get him on the edge and get off until he begs for you to come back.<\/p>\n<p>Or completely deny him the act itself, but send him texts so dirty that he will lose his mind. Seduce him and play him until he can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Show him what he\u2019s really missing out on, and trust me, he will definitely put some effort in keeping you satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>Play different games with him, such as leaving clothes from the doorway to the bedroom so he knows what\u2019s waiting for him once he enters the room.<\/p>\n<p>Or leave him a note that you\u2019re hiding somewhere naked and he gets to do with you what he wants, once he finds you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ai-ragazzi-piace-quando-gli-mandi-delle-foto-di-te-stessa\/\">Inviategli delle foto<\/a> of lingerie and ask him for his opinion on which one you should wear when he gets home, and once he does\u2014wear none of it.<\/p>\n<p>Stuzzicatelo in pubblico, flirtate con lui con messaggi durante cene di lavoro o riunioni di famiglia.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli che lo volete in quel momento e sfidatelo a prendervi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t let him always have things his way<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75254 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-holding-man-on-tie.jpg\" alt=\"donna che tiene un uomo sulla cravatta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-holding-man-on-tie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-holding-man-on-tie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-holding-man-on-tie-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is not the 16th century anymore. We fought hard to accomplish the things we have today and, damn, we\u2019re still fighting like crazy.<\/p>\n<p>The time when a man\u2019s word was the ultimate law in a relationship is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>Show him that you\u2019re having none of it. He wants you to go to the game with him, but you don\u2019t feel like it?<\/p>\n<p>Se inizia a pretendere che voi andiate e cerca di fare pressione su di voi per farvi cedere, fermatevi immediatamente.<\/p>\n<p>Avete la vostra volont\u00e0 e le vostre esigenze. Digli dove lo vuoi.<\/p>\n<p>If you want him to help with the kids, tell him. If you want him under you in bed, push him. He\u2019s not that special to always have things his way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-75226 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/14-Ways-To-Make-Him-Realize-He-Needs-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"14 modi per fargli capire che ha bisogno di te \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/14-Ways-To-Make-Him-Realize-He-Needs-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/14-Ways-To-Make-Him-Realize-He-Needs-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/14-Ways-To-Make-Him-Realize-He-Needs-You-Pinterest.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, a relationship gets to that point where people forget they need to fight for one another because they\u2019re so sure of their feelings towards each other. We all get used to having someone next to us, like they\u2019re part of us and there\u2019s no way we can lose that part. But a healthy relationship&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":75230,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/14-Ways-To-Make-Him-Realize-He-Needs-You-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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