{"id":12465,"date":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T08:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12465"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:11:23","slug":"assenza-che-hai-insegnato-a-vivere-senza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/assenza-che-hai-insegnato-a-vivere-senza\/","title":{"rendered":"In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te"},"content":{"rendered":"

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

There was once a time when I couldn\u2019t imagine my life senza di te<\/a> in esso. Sei entrata nella mia vita e sei diventata inaspettatamente la persona pi\u00f9 importante per me.<\/p>\n

Sei diventato il mio migliore amico<\/a>La mia roccia, il mio conforto e la mia verit\u00e0 sulla realt\u00e0. Sei stata la mia pi\u00f9 grande cheerleader, dicendo che saresti sempre stata l\u00ec a sostenermi. Hai creduto in me quando nessun altro lo faceva, compreso me stesso.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

I tried not to fall in love with you but I was absolutely powerless to stop. Before I realized the danger zone, I\u2019d fallen so deeply into the ravine of loving you like I\u2019d never loved before.<\/p>\n

Without trying, you had full custody of my heart. Oh, I don\u2019t blame you for the heartbreak I was too blind to see coming. You told me that we were just friends.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You said that you didn\u2019t want a relationship. I just had hope to change your mind and you selfishly encouraged me with my success when you never planned to.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

I told you that I wasn\u2019t perfect. I knew that I would annoy you sometimes. I knew that compared to you, I was a complete mess.<\/p>\n

But I believed that you had allowed your heart to love me in return and that together we\u2019d find a way to make it work. I never could have imagined the havoc that would be thrown our way from every direction.<\/p>\n

Non avrei mai potuto prevedere gli eventi che mi avrebbero trascinato sul fondo. Ma non sembravi mai rinunciare a<\/a> me. Sembrava che tu fossi ancora nel mio angolo, incoraggiandomi ad andare avanti quando volevo solo arrendermi.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Mentre tutti gli altri si giravano e si allontanavano da me, tu eri l\u00ec a dirmi che era un problema loro e non mio.<\/p>\n

Mi hai detto di continuare a fare quello che dovevo fare. Ad ogni delusione da cui mi hai risollevato, mi sono innamorata sempre di pi\u00f9 di te. Mi sono reso conto che il mio cuore era ormai cos\u00ec lontano, ma credevo ancora nei miracoli e nella magia.<\/p>\n

I believed that I was one step closer to being yours as I found a more positive outlook. I believed that the day of \u2018us\u2019 was just around the corner.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te. <\/b>Come avrei dovuto vedere il giorno della tua scomparsa?<\/p>\n

Hai detto che eri la grande spinta di cui avevo bisogno per far muovere le cose per il meglio della mia vita. Hai detto che eri ancora l\u00ec per me e che saresti stato ancora nella mia vita. Sapevi di essere l'unica persona che avevo nella mia vita.<\/p>\n

L'unico a cui potevo chiedere consiglio. L'unico con cui potevo piangere. L'unico su cui potevo contare. Sapevi quanto ti amavo e avevi bisogno che mi ricordassi di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

\"Felice<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

So in the last month I\u2019ve been doing what I could to bring things to a better state. I\u2019ve been working to get my life back on track. I\u2019ve been trying new ideas and I\u2019ve been scared to try some others.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve thought of solutions I hope will accomplish my goals. But I\u2019ve done it alone. You haven\u2019t been here. You have gone days without communicating with me.<\/p>\n

You know that I cannot go anywhere and you haven\u2019t come to see me.<\/p>\n

When I suggested you come and see me, you avoided the subject. You don\u2019t call to see how I\u2019m doing or how my progress is going.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t call to see if I\u2019m OK. You only call to tell me about your problems or to ask my opinion, even though we both know that you won\u2019t take my advice anyway.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quindi ora so che posso vivere senza di te<\/a>. Il mio cuore soffre per i sogni che un tempo avevo per noi. Mi sorprendo a desiderare di raggiungerti e di condividere qualcosa con te.<\/p>\n

But I then remind myself that you aren\u2019t doing the same with me. And if you really wanted to know if I was OK, then you would ask. If I was important to you, then you would make some effort. Instead, you just abandoned me. Just like everyone else.<\/p>\n

You now only see the negative in me and no longer believe in me. I could ask myself why I should try, if no one, not even you, believes in me and sees my potential. I could ask myself that but I won\u2019t. I won\u2019t ask because I know what I hold inside.<\/p>\n

I know my value and importance. I\u2019m just sad that you can\u2019t. I no longer need validation from you because in your absence, you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/p>\n

In your absence you\u2019ve taught me how to live without you.<\/b><\/p>\n

For so long, the only thought that went through my head was the incessant question, \u2018\u2019How do I live without you?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Come faccio a vivere senza la persona che mi ha reso la donna che sono? Come faccio a vivere senza l'unica persona che mi ha plasmato per essere la versione migliore di me stessa?<\/p>\n

Quella che non si \u00e8 mai stancata di migliorarmi e che mi ha sempre coperto le spalle, qualunque cosa accadesse.<\/p>\n

Come ci si abitua a vivere senza una persona che si credeva la propria met\u00e0 migliore?<\/p>\n

It was tough. It took me time, I\u2019m not going to lie. I had to stop myself from wondering why, in order to stay sane. It was a roller coaster of emotions\u2026 but I pulled through.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Now, instead of torturing myself wondering why you\u2019ve abandoned me, I tell myself that if it was destinato ad essere<\/a>, you\u2019d still be here.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

God has a funny way of showing me what\u2019s good for me but I choose to believe that I\u2019m on my way to something more meaningful. Something that is going to come into my life, make me happy, and stick by my side come hell or high water.<\/p>\n

Ho creduto stupidamente che tu fossi la mia anima gemella. L'unica persona al mondo creata per stare al mio fianco e tenermi sempre per mano. Quella senza la quale non avrei mai dovuto vivere. Ma mi sbagliavo.<\/p>\n

Now I see that you came into my life to teach me a lesson. That no matter how much love there is and no matter how deeply connected I felt to you\u2026 if it\u2019s not in the cards for us, it\u2019s not going to last.<\/p>\n

It was a tough pill to swallow but that\u2019s what helped me push forward without looking back every two minutes.<\/p>\n

In tua assenza, mi hai insegnato a vivere senza di te.<\/b><\/p>\n

Oggi accetto quello che \u00e8 successo tra noi. Accetto che quello che c'\u00e8 stato tra noi \u00e8 stato speciale, profondo, profondo e magico e che, finch\u00e9 \u00e8 durato, \u00e8 stato un'ondata sensazionale di sentimenti che ha attraversato il mio corpo e la mia anima.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Non provo pi\u00f9 risentimento e rabbia quando penso a te. Ora mi dispiace solo per come sei.<\/p>\n

See, I\u2019m going to be fine. I\u2019m not going to let this define me, mark me or destroy me.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s going to be rough getting over you with no closure but I\u2019ll be damned if I\u2019m going to let it stop me from living my life.<\/p>\n

You know your reasons for leaving me and you\u2019re the one who needs to live with them. I, on the other hand, have a clear conscience. There is nothing that is troubling me and keeping me from sleeping at night.<\/p>\n

One of these days, I\u2019m going to wake up and you won\u2019t be the first thought that pops into my head. And when that happens, I\u2019m going to know that I\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re no longer somebody whose company I crave, and I\u2019ll finally be free of you.<\/p>\n

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