{"id":124955,"date":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","date_gmt":"2021-01-22T18:59:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=124955"},"modified":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T21:10:31","slug":"come-sapere-se-il-vostro-ex-tornera-mai-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-sapere-se-il-vostro-ex-tornera-mai-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Come sapere se il vostro ex torner\u00e0 mai (e se dovrebbe)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: <em>Come faccio a sapere se il mio ex mi rivuole?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them and if you\u2019ve successfully moved on. After a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stadi-del-dumper\/\">rottura<\/a>, ci sono due possibili risultati:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) O si va avanti<\/p>\n<p>b) Continuate a pensare di tornare insieme e vi chiedete se loro provano lo stesso sentimento.<\/p>\n<p>Riflettete sulle seguenti domande:<\/p>\n<p><em>What if your ex secretly wants you back but won\u2019t admit it? What if your ex doesn\u2019t want to get back together but keeps sending you mixed signals and giving you hope for some reason?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>What if you don\u2019t want to get back together, but you\u2019re only curious about whether they miss you?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Troppi <em>Cosa succede se,<\/em> I understand completely. Actually, there are so many things you need to think about when it comes to exes. It\u2019s never only one thing like <em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/si-pentira-di-avermi-persa-7-segni-che-lo-fara-come-farglielo-capire\/\">Torneranno<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Le domande pi\u00f9 importanti sono <em>Dovrebbero tornare? E volete davvero tornare insieme?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Provi ancora qualcosa per il tuo ex o ti manca?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124961 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna con sciarpa grigia in piedi vicino al muro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-near-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A un certo punto, inizierete a porvi la seguente domanda: <em>Provo ancora qualcosa per il mio ex o mi manca?<\/em> There\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n<p>After a breakup, it is totally normal to miss the person you\u2019ve been with and created so many memories with.<\/p>\n<p><em>Your first road trip, laughing like careless children, pretending to be foreigners in your own country, kissing passionately during a romantic movie, the feel of their touch\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Queste e tutte le altre cose sono diventate parte di voi.<\/p>\n<p>You have collected these memories in your mind, and it\u2019s not that easy to get rid of them (unless you\u2019re in the <em>Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind<\/em> film, dove riescono a cancellare i ricordi).<\/p>\n<p><strong>La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che non potete controllare quando questi ricordi affiorano e vi ricordano il vostro ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando ci\u00f2 accade, si pu\u00f2 iniziare a pensare di provare ancora qualcosa per loro, anche se non \u00e8 necessariamente vero.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Per evitare che ci\u00f2 accada, dovete concedervi un po' di tempo per guarire ed elaborare tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo tra voi due.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you think about them a lot doesn\u2019t mean that you still have feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, avete tutto il diritto di cominciare a cercare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-che-lex-vuole-tornare-disperatamente\/\">Segni che il tuo ex ti rivuole<\/a>, ma questo non far\u00e0 altro che confonderla ancora di pi\u00f9 se lei stessa non \u00e8 sicura di voler veramente tornare insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Questo ci porta a un'altra domanda:<\/p>\n<h2>Provi ancora qualcosa per loro o sei solo curioso di sapere se loro provano qualcosa per te?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124965 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista che cammina vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-walking-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If I\u2019ve learned something from all my romantic encounters, it\u2019s the following: <strong>La curiosit\u00e0 \u00e8 una cosa complicata.<\/strong> Noi, esseri umani, abbiamo il potere di ingannare noi stessi facendoci credere qualcosa che non \u00e8 vero.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste pensare di provare ancora qualcosa per loro, ma in realt\u00e0 potreste essere solo curiosi di sapere se loro provano qualcosa per voi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In that case, you shouldn\u2019t worry too much about whether your ex will ever come back. <\/strong><strong>Perch\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because it\u2019s time-consuming and since you\u2019re not genuinely interested in getting back together, there are other more important things you should worry about.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di pensare a ci\u00f2 che pensa il vostro ex, dovreste concentrarvi su voi stessi e sul processo di transizione.<\/p>\n<h2>Il vostro ex torner\u00e0 mai?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124967 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta su una panchina che guarda l&#039;acqua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is one of the trickiest questions after a breakup. So, there you are, holding your cell phone and thinking about texting your ex just to ask them how they\u2019ve been doing.<\/p>\n<p>As you\u2019re getting ready to hit the send button, anxious thoughts start to occupy your brain.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really wise to send that text message when you\u2019re not sure what exactly is going on in your ex\u2019s head? Indeed, how do you know if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-modi-efficaci-per-far-si-che-lui-ti-rivoglia-in-poco-tempo\/\">il tuo ex torner\u00e0<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Uno dei pi\u00f9 grandi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/20-segnali-inequivocabili-del-ritorno-del-vostro-ex\/\">segni che il vostro ex torner\u00e0<\/a> is the fact that they\u2019re still making an effort to be a part of your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se fa alcune o tutte le cose seguenti, sappiate che il vostro ex tiene ancora a voi:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Trovare scuse per mettersi in contatto con voi<\/li>\n<li>Mandare frequentemente messaggi (anche durante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-pensa-durante-lassenza-di-contatto-6-pensieri-piu-comuni2\/\">nessun contatto<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Chiamata a raccolta<\/li>\n<li>Chiedere ad amici e parenti di parlare di voi<\/li>\n<li>They aren\u2019t returning your things<\/li>\n<li>Stalking sui social media<\/li>\n<li>Admitting that they\u2019re unhappy after the breakup<\/li>\n<li>Tenendovi aggiornati sui loro sogni, obiettivi e progetti futuri.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real. If they don\u2019t care about you and are not interested in what\u2019s going on in your life, they wouldn\u2019t try so hard to be a part of it still.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t make silly excuses like: <em>Ho bisogno di aiuto per fare la spesa, oppure ho bisogno della vostra assistenza per questo particolare compito.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>They certainly wouldn\u2019t bother to text you or call you frequently because they would be focused on moving on instead of staying connected with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E se continuano a chiedere di te ai tuoi amici e alla tua famiglia, puoi essere certo al cento per cento che provano ancora qualcosa per te.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t bother reaching out to those you\u2019re closest to only to find out a few things about you.<\/p>\n<p>They wouldn\u2019t bother stalking you on social media and following your every move hoping that they will uncover clues you still care about them.<\/p>\n<p>E infine, ma non per questo meno importante, <strong>they wouldn\u2019t waste their time talking to you about their dreams, goals, and future plans because they would be busy living their own life and focusing only on themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if your ex does all or some of these things, you can be sure that they will eventually come back to you, and it\u2019s just a matter of time when.<\/p>\n<h2>Il vostro ex fa finta di avervi dimenticato?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124970 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta al tavolo vicino a una pianta secca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is where things get a little bit complicated, so I need you to focus on the following. If things were that simple, then we wouldn\u2019t be called humans, right?<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing, <strong>ci sono anche <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-evidenti-che-il-tuo-ex-sta-fingendo-di-averti-dimenticato\/\">Segni che il tuo ex sta fingendo di averti dimenticato<\/a>, and it\u2019s not that easy to decipher them. Here are some of them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Continuano a cercare di farti ingelosire<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re trying too hard to prove that they are over you<\/li>\n<li>They can\u2019t keep their eyes off you (they also can\u2019t stop texting you)<\/li>\n<li>Chiedere agli amici comuni di parlare di voi<\/li>\n<li>Stalking sui social media e nella vita reale<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Alcuni di questi segnali sono simili a quelli che indicano che il vostro ex alla fine torner\u00e0, quindi dovete prestare molta attenzione a questi segnali per imparare a individuare la loro reale intenzione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re probably asking yourself the following right now: <em>Perch\u00e9 il mio ex dovrebbe fingere di avermi dimenticato?<\/em> Ecco due possibili ragioni:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>a) Perhaps the reason why they are pretending to be over you is that they think you\u2019re over them, so they believe they don\u2019t have a chance at reuniting with you.<\/p>\n<p>b) pensano che fingendo di averti dimenticato ti faranno tornare a desiderare.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably noticed how complex this whole situation is, and it is never one answer or one reason but a wide array of them.<\/p>\n<p>Sapere qual \u00e8 la cosa giusta da fare \u00e8 una questione di processo e non una decisione immediata.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the last question that you should ask yourself:<\/p>\n<h2>Riunirsi con il proprio ex \u00e8 una buona idea?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124972 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappotto grigio in piedi sulla neve\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/woman-standing-on-snow-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you genuinely still care about them and have feelings for them, then yes, it\u2019s a good idea, BUT (there\u2019s always a but) only if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no point in getting back together, only to realize that you\u2019re the only one who really cares about reuniting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il ricongiungimento con un ex \u00e8 una buona idea se entrambi i partner sono disposti a lavorare insieme per migliorare la loro relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se solo una persona fa tutto il lavoro e si sforza di sistemare le cose, il ricongiungimento non \u00e8 una buona idea.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, se uno dei due partner si \u00e8 reso colpevole di comportamenti abusivi in passato, dovreste pensarci due volte prima di tornare insieme.<\/p>\n<p>L'unico modo per ricongiungersi con successo al proprio partner \u00e8 fare uno sforzo reciproco e lavorare sia su se stessi che sulla propria relazione.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 cos\u00ec che si sa che il ricongiungimento con il proprio ex \u00e8 una buona idea (o una cattiva idea).<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After tons of ice cream, binge-watching of romantic movies, secretly hating couples around you, and contemplating texting your ex, you\u2019ll probably get to the point where you\u2019ll start asking yourself: How do I know if my ex wants me back? Of course, you won\u2019t think about this much if you don\u2019t have feelings for them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-124955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/How-To-Know-If-Your-Ex-Will-Ever-Come-Back-And-If-They-Should-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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