{"id":12529,"date":"2018-01-17T12:15:54","date_gmt":"2018-01-17T12:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12529"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:06:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:06:08","slug":"9-modi-efficaci-per-catturare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-modi-efficaci-per-catturare\/","title":{"rendered":"9 modi efficaci per catturarlo e trattenerlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I can\u2019t even count how many times I have heard the question: \u201cHow can I catturarlo e tenerlo<\/a>?\u201d And I can\u2019t count how many times I have given different answers to that question because no relationship is the same. But men are not some alien creatures and certainly, we don\u2019t need to crack codes to understand them. Yes, they tend to hide emotions. Yes, they tend to play tough guys. But still, they\u2019re humans just like us. They need to sentirsi amati<\/a>, appreciated and respected just like we do. There\u2019s no secret code to catch them (they\u2019re not Pok\u00e9mons, sadly), but there are certain ways that could ease this struggle for you.<\/p>\n

1. Mostrare interesse<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Show interest in him, in his hobbies and his emotions. Let\u2019s be honest\u2014if you\u2019re trying to build something more than a hookup with the guy, then playing an ice queen will do you no good. Show him that you\u2019re interested in him. Show him that you want to share something more, that you want to do things with him. But keep in mind, if he shows no interest in you, your dreams and life, move on. Don\u2019t ever settle for someone<\/a> who put himself first right at the beginning\u2014he will not change. It\u2019s better to leave before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t run after him<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Don\u2019t drown him in phone calls and messages, surprise visits and other stuff that we tend to do when we fall in love. If you\u2019re sure that he\u2019s enjoying it, go for it! But unfortunately, all those things boost his ego and men tend to make fun of those things. Don\u2019t give him the opportunity to do that to you, and well, try not to scare him off. Take it easy, give it time. If it\u2019s the right thing, you won\u2019t have to push it.<\/p>\n

3. Mantenere una mente aperta<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Don\u2019t say \u2018no\u2019 to things just because they might look scary or nasty to you. Give them a chance, if you still don\u2019t like it\u2014quit. But keep an open mind to his date night ideas, to the activities he enjoys or the past he suffered. It\u2019s important that he doesn\u2019t feel judged by your side because we don\u2019t choose our destiny and we can\u2019t choose our family. It\u2019s easy to catch him, but to keep him requires a little bit more understanding and an open mind.<\/p>\n

4. Mostrare apprezzamento<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

If he worked hard to make you dinner, thank him. If he came to you right after work, help him relax. Let\u2019s be honest\u2014we all love when we feel appreciated, when someone sees our effort and hard work. Do the same for him. Show him that you respect his work, that you see his effort. But, once again, if he\u2019s not doing the same for you\u2014leave. You deserve to be respected and appreciated just as him. You deserve to be his first priority, just like you made him yours. Demand respect as much as you give it to him. It\u2019s all about being equal. If he\u2019s not ready to do that, he doesn\u2019t deserve you anyway.<\/p>\n

5. Essere diretti<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You know what you want and need, but are you afraid to tell him? Don\u2019t be. Men are so lost sometimes in the desire to please us that they do everything wrong. Or maybe he\u2019s not experienced so much, so he simply doesn\u2019t know. Tell him what you want. You want to be with him? You need a massage? You want to go out with him? You want respect? Earn it, ask for it. Don\u2019t be ashamed of your needs and emotions, because sooner or later, you will end up unhappy and he won\u2019t know what to do about it when it becomes too late.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t bring him down<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

This one really goes both ways. Don\u2019t undermine his success, his efforts and confidence. Don\u2019t shut down his dreams just because you think they\u2019re stupid. He risked so much by telling you them in the first place because not every man is ready to share his dreams with someone he still hasn\u2019t completely met. Don\u2019t make fun of his flaws and for heaven\u2019s sake, don\u2019t laugh at his willy doo (that\u2019s something they hardly recover from, and yes, it happens). BUT, if he isn\u2019t following these same rules, cut it. If at any point you feel like you\u2019re not enough because of something he did or said, cut it. If there is even a slightest possibility that he made you doubt yourself and your awesomeness, cut it.<\/p>\n

7. Prendere l'iniziativa<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s the 21st century. Is there any particular reason why men should still be making the first move? Why should it always be them who should initiate dates and love-making? You really want to see some movie? Ask him to keep you company. You really feel like rocking the bedroom? Well, that\u2019s an offer he can\u2019t refuse. It\u2019s important that he sees you want to spend time with him, that you want him. We all want to feel wanted, why not do the same for him? But remember that you\u2019re not supposed to be the only one taking the initiative. Don\u2019t trap yourself in una relazione unilaterale<\/a>\u2014no man is worth it.<\/p>\n

8. Rimanere fedeli a se stessi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

While some men really enjoy when a woman follows their lead, when a woman makes them the priority and changes herself for them, trust me\u2014those are not men you want to date. Those are men who will suck you dry and simply move on to the next victim. Always, and I mean always, remember that you should be your own priority. That no matter what, you should rimanere fedeli a se stessi<\/a>. Yes, there are compromises and certain sacrifices for a relationship, but parts of you should never be. Your friends, your dreams, emotions, needs and beliefs should never be compromised. Once he sees that you\u2019re strong, he will either move on from you (because he can\u2019t manipulate you) or he will be left in awe of you. It\u2019s a win, either way.<\/p>\n

9. Rispettare se stessi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Ognuno di questi consigli si concludeva con il messaggio che dovevate fare per voi stesse. Che nessun uomo vale le vostre lacrime e il vostro dolore, il fatto che vi perdiate. Don\u2019t let him keep you around<\/a> as a safety net or booty call if you want more than that. Darling, you deserve someone to make you their world. You deserve to feel like the only woman alive, like you\u2019re the only thing he sees when you enter the room. Don\u2019t ever settle to be someone\u2019s almost girlfriend because is there any sadder word than \u2018almost\u2019 to describe love? Don\u2019t ever settle to be half loved because you\u2019re too fierce for that. Respect yourself, know your worth and know when to walk away.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I can\u2019t even count how many times I have heard the question: \u201cHow can I catch him and keep him?\u201d And I can\u2019t count how many times I have given different answers to that question because no relationship is the same. But men are not some alien creatures and certainly, we don\u2019t need to crack…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":12532,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/parker-whitson-514275.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","parent":29643,"count":161,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29647,"category_count":161,"category_description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","cat_name":"seducing men","category_nicename":"seducing-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12529","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12529"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12529\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12532"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}