We just need to know why something happens, but the problem comes when this one person who is able to give you an explanation doesn\u2019t actually want to talk to you.<\/p>\n
So, what do you do when your ex won\u2019t talk to you?<\/strong><\/p>\n When your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, it\u2019s time for you to start realizing certain things.<\/p>\n Firstly, you\u2019re going after someone who thinks you don\u2019t deserve a simple explanation.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re going after someone who wants you to be the last one to let go so that he could be able to say he was the one who cared less. Obviously, that\u2019s something he\u2019s proud of.<\/p>\n Secondly, you\u2019ll be clinging to your past if you continue to seek closure from a person who actually isn\u2019t willing to give you any.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ll appear as a crazy girl who\u2019s desperately wanting to hear from her ex-boyfriend. You\u2019ll appear as a girl who comes up with all kinds of excuses just to talk to her ex.<\/p>\n You’ll obsess over whether he’s just pretending to be over you<\/a>.<\/p>\n Infine, bisogna smettere di cercare la chiusura nei posti sbagliati.<\/strong> La vostra pace \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante del bisogno di sentire cosa \u00e8 andato storto da qualcuno che vi ha abbandonato.<\/p>\n Da qualcuno che non ha avuto la decenza di lottare e di impegnarsi a sufficienza per quest'unica persona che lo amava davvero.<\/p>\n Remember, you\u2019re the only one who needs closure. So if you\u2019re the only one who needs it, then you\u2019re only who can give you it.<\/strong><\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to say is that you\u2019ll need to be the one to close the doors on a failed relationship. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but because the doors otherwise simply lead nowhere.<\/p>\n Even if you deserve an explanation, this doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re actually going to get one. The worst thing you can do is let the unfinished stories of the past stop you from living your life.<\/p>\n La cosa peggiore che possiate fare \u00e8 lasciare che il passato interferisca con il vostro futuro.<\/p>\n La miglior vendetta \u00e8 andare avanti, superarla e continuare ad avere successo. Non date mai a qualcuno la soddisfazione di vedervi soffrire.<\/strong><\/p>\n Looking for closure from a person who doesn\u2019t want to talk to you is a joke. The only apology you need is the one you owe yourself for staying as long as you did.<\/p>\n L'unica conversazione che dovete fare \u00e8 con voi stessi e l'unica persona che dovete rivedere \u00e8 quella nello specchio.<\/p>\n No one likes to be ignored, and no one likes to not get answers to their questions. But what you have to learn is that any answer you are so desperate to get won\u2019t change anything, and it may or may not be the truth anyway.<\/p>\n La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che se non ci si lascia andare, se non si perdonare se stessi<\/a>Se non perdonate la situazione e se non vi rendete conto che la situazione \u00e8 finita, non potete andare avanti.<\/p>\n Alla fine della giornata, ricordate ci\u00f2 che vi meritate e che di solito le cose che finiscono non sono mai state destinate a finire.<\/p>\n Correlato: 98 Le migliori ultime parole da dire a un ex (indipendentemente dalla situazione)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Always know that you deserve much more than a man who doesn\u2019t pick up the phone when you call.<\/p>\n You deserve a man who\u2019ll respect your feelings even when your story comes to an end.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t deserve someone who\u2019ll you\u2019ll need to chase<\/a> so if he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you need, let him go.<\/p>\n Trovate ci\u00f2 che vi serve altrove, trovate la vostra chiusura in voi stessi.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need him to give you closure so that you\u2019d be able to validate your relationship.<\/p>\n What happened was real, you should be able to realize this at least based on the pain you\u2019re feeling now.<\/p>\n Quello che \u00e8 successo \u00e8 scritto sul tuo cuore e nessuna ultima parola di un uomo potr\u00e0 cambiarlo.<\/p>\n Correlato: Come vendicarsi del proprio ex: 12 modi comprovati per farlo<\/a><\/p>\n When you think about it, you\u2019ll see that the person you want to be with has a completely different personality to the one you\u2019ve been with. And this should help you to get your closure.<\/p>\n Because you\u2019ll see that not only will you not be wanting a new start with the person who already hurt you once, but that you should be the one cutting all the strings.<\/p>\n La parte pi\u00f9 difficile \u00e8 perdonarlo<\/a> for all the pain you\u2019ve been through. But sometimes that\u2019s the only thing that will help you move on.<\/p>\n Forgive him for treating you the way he did. Forgive yourself for how long you\u2019ve been holding onto something that was just breaking you. But don\u2019t ever forget.<\/p>\n Keep what you\u2019ve been through at the back of your mind so you have something to remind you about the hell you\u2019ve been through once he reaches out to you again.<\/p>\n E come sapere se davvero cercher\u00e0 di tornare nella vostra vita? Beh, perch\u00e9 lo fanno sempre.<\/p>\n![\"bella](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-brunette-touching-her-hair-closed-eyes.jpg\")
<\/p>\n1. Riconoscere che si \u00e8 fatto tutto il possibile<\/h2>\n
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What\u2019s done is done. If your ex doesn\u2019t want to talk to you, then stop chasing after him. Stop wanting him to do anything. Remember that you did all you could but even that wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n2. Pensate a ci\u00f2 che vi meritate<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Dimenticare la sua convalida<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Pensate al tipo di persona con cui volete stare.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Perdonare se stessi e perdonare lui<\/h2>\n
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