Is cheating a decision made in a split second or a process that consists of many underlying issues in a relationship? What exactly happens in a cheater\u2019s mind?<\/em><\/p>\n I\u2019m not one of those people who take sides and blame one party for being bad or glorify the other for being victims.<\/p>\n I believe that there\u2019s a reason for every action, and yes, cheating sucks and cannot be justified no matter how sorry the person is (if they\u2019re sorry at all).<\/p>\n Ci sono molte ragioni per cui qualcuno decide di tradire il proprio partner.<\/p>\n They might be bored with their current relationship, want attention, or not know what they want (that\u2019s the most confusing reason of all).<\/p>\n Qualunque sia il motivo, una cosa \u00e8 certa: People usually decide to cheat on their partner because they crave something that\u2019s missing in their current relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n Potrebbe trattarsi di qualsiasi cosa (mancanza di impegno, attenzione, affetto, spontaneit\u00e0, ecc.).<\/p>\n The biggest mistake of cheating individuals is refusing to talk to their partner about how they could improve their relationship (there\u2019s a reason for that too).<\/p>\n The main reason they \u201crefuse\u201d to talk to their partner about what\u2019s missing in their relationship is that they\u2019re not even aware of it (that something\u2019s missing) until they find it in another person.<\/p>\n This may sound like a vicious cycle, but it is nothing that can\u2019t be solved with regular open and honest communication, which is the basis of every healthy and happy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n To help you better understand what\u2019s really going on inside a cheating person\u2019s head and the whole process of it, here are some interesting I FATTI sull'imbroglio e<\/strong> Le cose che tutti i partner che tradiscono hanno in comune<\/b><\/a>:<\/p>\n \u2022 Every cheater is overly protective of their cell phone<\/p>\n \u2022 Men cheat more than women (sorry guys)<\/p>\n \u2022 (Most) cheaters feel insecure in their current relationship<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating partners tend to flirt with everyone around them<\/p>\n \u2022 A lack of intimacy is the first segno che il vostro partner potrebbe tradirvi<\/a> su di te<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating partners don\u2019t think the affair partner is \u2018better\u2019 but instead \u2018different\u2019 than their current partner<\/p>\n \u2022 Narcissistic individuals are more likely to cheat<\/p>\n \u2022 Criticizing you is their way of trying to draw attention away from their bad behavior<\/p>\n \u2022 Cheating happens mostly when drunk<\/p>\n \u2022 Unhappy marriages and relationships lead to cheating<\/p>\n Di tutti i fatti sopra citati su partner traditori<\/a>Ho l'urgenza di richiamare l'attenzione su questo: Cheating partners don\u2019t think the affair partner is \u2018better\u2019 than their current partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 la cosa che pensa la maggior parte dei partner che sono stati traditi.<\/p>\n Perdono la fiducia in se stessi e si convincono che il partner pensa di non essere all'altezza e che il partner della relazione \u00e8 migliore di loro in ogni aspetto.<\/p>\n This is not true at all. Cheating partners don\u2019t think that their affair partner is better than you, but they see them as different from you.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n So che questo non \u00e8 molto confortante, ma saperlo \u00e8 sicuramente utile per la vostra autostima.<\/p>\n Potrebbero tradirvi, ma non lasciate che distruggano la vostra fiducia.<\/p>\n The basis of understanding a cheater\u2019s nature is knowing their coping mechanisms after their sinful act.<\/p>\n Lo scaricabarile \u00e8 sicuramente il loro gioco preferito.<\/p>\n Rarely will you see a cheater admitting that they\u2019ve made a mistake (if it can even be called so) and that they\u2019re sorry for it.<\/p>\n Di solito, continuano a essere infedeli per tutto il tempo in cui voi non ne sapete nulla.<\/p>\n Once you confront them about their cheating nature, they enter blame-shifting mode, or they pretend that nothing is going on and you\u2019re just being paranoid.<\/strong><\/p>\n This can be really confusing and frustrating, but that\u2019s just how their mind operates when you start suspecting that they\u2019re doing something behind your back or when you have proof of them being unfaithful.<\/p>\n Instead of admitting that they\u2019re guilty of cheating, they will focus on finding ways to make you feel at fault instead.<\/p>\n Lo fanno per evitare di essere al centro dell'attenzione. Vogliono disperatamente che l'attenzione si concentri su di voi invece che su di loro.<\/p>\n Ecco alcuni Le cose frustranti che i traditori dicono quando vengono affrontati<\/b><\/a>, accompagnata dai miei umili commenti tra le parentesi:<\/strong><\/p>\n \"You don\u2019t trust me!<\/em>\u201d (Hell, no.)<\/p>\n \"\u00c8 stato solo un caso isolato.<\/em>\u201d (Yeah, sure.)<\/p>\n \"It didn\u2019t mean anything to me.<\/em>\u201d (That still doesn\u2019t change the fact that you\u2019re a cheater.)<\/p>\n \"It\u2019s not what it looks like.<\/em>\u201d (I\u2019m pretty sure that all these calls and texts are not from your grandma and that constantly staying late at work is not a pure coincidence.)<\/p>\n \"I\u2019m not happy anymore.<\/em>\u201d (Well, you could have said that earlier.)<\/p>\n \"I did it because we weren\u2019t having enough sex.<\/em>\u201d (Well, you could have addressed the issue earlier.)<\/p>\n \"Lui\/lei ci ha provato con me!<\/em>\u201d (A stranger on the street also came on to me, but that didn\u2019t mean I needed to follow them into their apartment.)<\/p>\n \"\u00c8 successo molto tempo fa. Ora le cose sono diverse.<\/em>\u201d (Even if it happened five years ago, it still doesn\u2019t change the fact that you\u2019re a cheater.)<\/p>\n \"I didn\u2019t want to hurt you.<\/em>\u201d (Too late for that now, wouldn\u2019t you agree?)<\/p>\n Un altro gioco preferito dagli imbroglioni \u00e8 quello di fare la vittima.<\/p>\n It\u2019s when they are so desperate to present themselves as poor creatures who didn\u2019t know what they were doing or who were bewitched by their affair partner.<\/p>\n Affrontare un traditore che fa la vittima pu\u00f2 essere impegnativo, ma come per ogni altra cosa, \u00e8 qualcosa che si pu\u00f2 dominare.<\/p>\n Ecco i migliori modi per affrontare un traditore che fa la vittima<\/b><\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Make sure they know that nothing justifies cheating.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just because they were feeling bored at the time doesn\u2019t mean that cheating was the right option.<\/p>\n Or just because they were lacking something in your relationship doesn\u2019t mean it was okay to cheat on you.<\/p>\n Nulla giustifica l'imbroglio, perch\u00e9 ci sono molti modi diversi dall'imbroglio per affrontare i problemi.<\/p>\n \u2022 Tell them how you feel about this whole thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n Often cheaters don\u2019t even know how you\u2019re feeling about the whole thing until you tell them.<\/p>\n Quindi, fategli sapere come vi ha fatto sentire il loro tradimento.<\/p>\n \u2022 Ask them how they would feel if you were the one cheating on them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Per aiutarli a capire le conseguenze delle loro azioni, presentate al vostro partner traditore un'inversione di ruolo.<\/p>\n Chiedete loro come si sentirebbero se fossero nei vostri panni. La loro risposta potrebbe sorprendervi.<\/p>\n \u2022 Let them see the evidence (if you have any).<\/strong><\/p>\n The moment they are faced with evidence, cheaters automatically stop playing the victim because there\u2019s nothing they can do or lie about to justify their behavior.<\/p>\n I call this \u2018the priceless moment of truth.\u2019<\/p>\nLa mente di un traditore<\/h2>\n
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