{"id":12574,"date":"2020-08-18T08:17:25","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T08:17:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12574"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:49:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:49:44","slug":"il-cambiamento-tardivo-si-stanca-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-cambiamento-tardivo-si-stanca-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 troppo tardi per cambiare una volta che lei si \u00e8 stancata"},"content":{"rendered":"

She promised you that the day she sees you taking her for granted, she\u2019ll walk away. The day she sees you not appreciating her and all the things she does for you, the day she notices you don\u2019t care enough to put as much effort as she does in you two, she\u2019ll walk away<\/a>.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t walk away because of her faded feelings, she\u2019ll walk away once she gets tired.<\/p>\n

She told you too many times that she thinks something changed. She told you too many times how you\u2019re no longer the same person and that she doesn\u2019t see you looking at her the way you did at the beginning.<\/p>\n

She asked what\u2019s wrong, you said everything is alright. But, to her, there wasn\u2019t a single thing that felt right.<\/p>\n

Le ha chiesto cosa pu\u00f2 fare per migliorare le cose. Le ha chiesto se \u00e8 stato qualcosa che lei ha fatto a farle cambiare il suo comportamento.<\/p>\n

She asked you if you still loved her and you answered her with a completely dull face: \u201cOf course I do!\u201d and told her to stop being so clingy and to stop feeling too much. You didn\u2019t even use the word \u2018love\u2019, you just said, \u201cI do\u201d.<\/p>\n

But your \u201cI do\u201d was so empty and loveless.<\/p>\n

She asked you to try to work it out, but you refused by saying there wasn\u2019t anything to fix. You didn\u2019t bother convincing her; you didn\u2019t bother proving her your words.<\/p>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

You just said what you had and walked away. You seemed tired of having someone who\u2019s trying so damn hard for you. You seemed tired of having someone care for you.<\/p>\n

You seemed tired of someone who loves you to the point of forgetting her self-love. Don\u2019t be surprised once si stanca di lottare per te<\/a> invano.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get surprised once she stops fighting for you.<\/p>\n

You probably think you\u2019ll have her forever. You think you\u2019ll always have this woman who loves you unconditionally and who\u2019s there for you no matter what.<\/p>\n

You probably think she will never leave your side because she proved to you so many times that she\u2019s with you for better or for worse. She proved to you that she\u2019s worth it, but you stopped proving to her you\u2019re worth it a long time ago.<\/p>\n

I know that they don\u2019t teach you these things in school, but life should\u2019ve taught you by now never to take love or a person who loves you for granted. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because love is a constant process of showing your emotions and trying\u2014not something you do once and get to keep forever. I pray that you don\u2019t learn this the hard way.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been denying the pain you caused her. She\u2019s been trying so hard to remain strong. She got up every morning and she pushed herself to get through that day with a huge smile on her face.<\/p>\n

And you never tried to look beyond that smile. If you did, you\u2019d see that she\u2019s on the verge of breaking down.<\/p>\n

But she had nobody to tell her it\u2019s okay to not be okay and she felt like there was nobody to catch her once she falls to pieces, so she remained strong on the outside and she kept falling apart on the inside.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, l'unica cosa che le ha insegnato a essere cos\u00ec dannatamente forte sei stato tu. Non aveva altra scelta se non quella di irrobustirsi, visto che tu non eri mai presente alle sue lotte.<\/p>\n

Non siete mai stati presenti per chiarire i suoi dubbi e non siete mai stati presenti per convincerla o per dimostrarle che le cose andranno meglio. Hai continuato a parlare senza avere nulla a sostegno di ci\u00f2 che dicevi.<\/p>\n

E poi sei andato a fare le tue cose, lasciandola sempre da sola.<\/p>\n

Someone needs to give you a heads up. Not because you deserve it, but because she deserves it. You know she\u2019ll get tired of constantly being strong. <\/b><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll get tired of constantly trying and giving you everything without getting anything in return.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll get tired of constantly being disappointed by you. Of constantly being let down by the man who should care for her.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t asking for your money, she\u2019s asking for your emotional support and a shoulder to put her head onto once life gets her tired. The worst thing is that you\u2019re the one reason she feels constantly tired.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 continui a deluderla. Continui a respingerla<\/a> and you keep taking her for granted. You\u2019re leaving her no choice.<\/p>\n

Do you know what happens once a woman gets tired of being disappointed? She doesn\u2019t start hating you. She starts realizing her worth.<\/p>\n

Her heart finally tells her to stop wasting her time and makes her pack her things and leave. And once a woman you disappointed one too many times leaves, it\u2019s forever.<\/p>\n

Once she gets tired of everything, there won\u2019t be a single thing you can do to make her come back to you. There isn\u2019t a thing you can do to make her fall in love with you. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s too late to change once she gets tired, you know?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Once she gets tired, all your efforts will be in vain. Once she gets tired, she\u2019ll stop trying. She won\u2019t be asking so many questions and she won\u2019t be the one offering to do something to make things better.<\/p>\n

She will no longer be feeling too much and she\u2019ll stop holding onto something and someone she should\u2019ve let go a long time ago.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s too late to change once she gets tired. I pray you don\u2019t learn this the hard way.<\/p>\n

\"\u00c8<\/p>\n

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