{"id":12591,"date":"2020-05-18T12:29:28","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T12:29:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12591"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:20:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:20:55","slug":"dire-a-qualcuno-geloso-12-segni-circondati-invidia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dire-a-qualcuno-geloso-12-segni-circondati-invidia\/","title":{"rendered":"Come capire se qualcuno \u00e8 geloso di voi: 12 segni che siete circondati da invidia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you noticed how you are always surrounded by more people when things are going downhill than when you are over the moon from happiness? That’s the perfect way to tell if someone is jealous of you.<\/p>\n

Some people are emotional leeches and they find comfort in your pain. It’s easier for them to stand by your side and support you when your world is falling apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s easier because they find solace in your pain. They compare your life with theirs and they are glad that they are not the only ones who have it rough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s sad but it’s true. There are people out there who find comfort in your pain, who are envious of your success, who are unable to be happy for you when you are doing great because they are unhappy themselves at that moment. We all get a bit jealous at times.<\/p>\n

It’s a human thing. But most of us are more than willing and ready to support our friends regardless of our personal lives.<\/p>\n

It’s not always easy to recognize the symptoms of jealous friends. They become masters in concealing it.<\/p>\n

They might not even be conscious of doing it so they wouldn’t even admit it to themselves.<\/p>\n

1. Danno cattivi consigli<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

It’s not always that they want something bad to happen to you, it’s just that they don’t care about your current troubles. They are there but they are not really listening to you.<\/p>\n

Potrebbero persino arrivare a dirvi qualcosa che vi far\u00e0 dubitare di altre persone o delle vostre decisioni. Non sono interessati ad aggiungere altro alla vostra beatitudine.<\/p>\n

It’s because misery loves company. If they don\u2019t have your best interests at heart, they aren\u2019t your friends.<\/a> Periodo.<\/p>\n

2. Fanno falsi complimenti<\/h2>\n

\"finta<\/p>\n

Potete riconoscere il loro sorriso falso quando vi dicono che qualcosa vi sta bene.<\/p>\n

Si vede che la loro voce cambia tono quando si congratulano con voi.<\/p>\n

They unwillingly give you compliments because they feel they have to so that you and other people around you wouldn’t notice that their compliments aren’t genuine.<\/p>\n

3. Guardano dall'alto in basso i vostri risultati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La cosa che li tormenta di pi\u00f9 \u00e8 quando il successo e la fortuna entrano in questa reazione a catena e iniziano a moltiplicarsi.<\/p>\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, vogliono sentirsi meglio sminuendo i vostri risultati.<\/p>\n

They will say you just got lucky and they won’t admit that you put a lot of hard work and effort in to get where you are.<\/p>\n

4. Impreziosiscono gli insulti con i complimenti<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

Il pi\u00f9 delle volte, ogni complimento che fanno nasconde un insulto. Sono pieni di commenti sarcastici.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t give you compliments to make you feel better, they are aiming for that bitter taste in your mouth after you hear them.<\/p>\n

5. Vi fanno un sorriso falso<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Esagerano nel tentativo di sembrare amichevoli, ma il sorriso sul loro volto \u00e8 cos\u00ec falso che tutti possono vederlo.<\/p>\n

It actually hurts their face to laugh that much but they do it anyway because it\u2019s a way of trying to hide their true feelings.<\/p>\n

6. Enfatizzano eccessivamente i propri risultati<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, ogni piccola vittoria che otterranno per loro stessi sar\u00e0 gonfiata a dismisura e sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 grande di tutte quelle che avete ottenuto finora.<\/p>\n

You both know that’s not true but you are a humble person who doesn’t get anything for self-praise or undervaluing somebody else. So you stay silent and listen to their fairy tales.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong>Segni duri ma veri che l'amicizia \u00e8 tossica<\/p>\n

7. Sono eccessivamente competitivi<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 collegato ai due segni precedenti. Vogliono solo superarvi ogni volta, quindi fanno di tutto per sottovalutarvi.<\/p>\n

If they can’t do anything else, they start picking on your flaws or making them up as they go, simply because they want to feel better and more successful than you.<\/p>\n

8. Si offendono quando si fanno progetti senza di loro<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

God forbid if you make other plans without them, especially with some of your other friends that they don’t seem to click really well with. They will hold a grudge against you for forever if you do this.<\/p>\n

Questo accade per la paura di perdere qualcosa di bello o eccitante che potrebbe accadere mentre loro non sono presenti. Per questo motivo, iniziano a sentirsi come un peso sulle vostre spalle.<\/p>\n

9. Cercano di sabotare le altre relazioni<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

Quando sono con voi, vi racconteranno una versione della storia e, non appena vi allontanerete da loro e sarete con altri amici o conoscenti, vi racconteranno qualcosa che vi far\u00e0 arrabbiare.<\/p>\n

They will put words in your mouth that you never said. They don’t like you having people in your life so they will most probably try to find a way to discredit you.<\/p>\n

10. In genere, parlano alle spalle<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

They won’t hesitate to tell lies and spread rumors about you. Pay close attention if they are spettegolare<\/a> di altre persone davanti a voi, perch\u00e9 molto probabilmente faranno lo stesso con voi quando saranno con altre persone.<\/p>\n

L'aspetto positivo delle voci \u00e8 che scompaiono rapidamente e che trovano la strada per arrivare alle vostre orecchie.<\/p>\n

Una volta appreso questo, saprete chi ha messo in giro queste voci e chi merita di lasciare definitivamente la vostra vita.<\/p>\n

11. They like your face the best when it’s filled with shame<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Ogni storia umiliante o negativa di cui sono a conoscenza sar\u00e0 condivisa tra gli amici comuni.<\/p>\n

They will even say it in front of you and disguise it by saying they didn’t mean to disrespect you (oh but they did) but they found it amusing, something funny to entertain the crowds.<\/p>\n

They just can’t stand to watch you thriving in life so they would say just about anything about you.<\/p>\n

Be careful whom you tell your secrets to. If you don’t want them out in the open, a jealous friend isn’t the right listener.<\/p>\n

12. Non c'\u00e8 niente che li renda pi\u00f9 felici che vedervi fallire.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

They won’t be obvious about it but they will have a little celebratory dance inside when your luck runs out. They have been waiting for that moment for so long.<\/p>\n

Nelle loro piccole menti meschine, questo dimostra che sono migliori di voi. Potrebbero anche trovare gioia nell'avere qualcuno con cui condividere la loro infelicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Don’t let them discourage you. Life is full of ups and downs and you will get back on track anyway.<\/p>\n

Se vi siete mai chiesti come capire se qualcuno \u00e8 geloso, spero che abbiate trovato la risposta in questi segnali. Le persone gelose non hanno posto nella vostra vita. Cercheranno costantemente di ti abbattono.<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n

Prima li taglierete fuori, avrete una vita molto migliore. Vedrete che tutta la tossicit\u00e0 che hanno portato con la loro gelosia lascer\u00e0 la vostra vita e la render\u00e0 migliore.<\/em><\/p>\n

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