{"id":125972,"date":"2021-02-04T22:25:21","date_gmt":"2021-02-04T22:25:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=125972"},"modified":"2022-05-11T20:09:41","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T20:09:41","slug":"la-tua-cotta-ti-ricambia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-tua-cotta-ti-ricambia\/","title":{"rendered":"La vostra cotta vi piace? Ecco come saperlo con certezza!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>They like me back. They don\u2019t like me back. Hmm\u2026 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-piaccio-alla-mia-cotta-ecco-come-saperlo-con-certezza\/\">piaccio alla mia cotta<\/a> indietro?<\/em> Vi suona familiare? Che razza di domanda \u00e8 questa, vero?<\/p>\n<p>Passiamo met\u00e0 della nostra vita a chiederci se un altro essere umano per cui abbiamo una cotta ci ricambi o meno.<\/p>\n<p>When we really like someone, we can\u2019t help ourselves but think about them almost 24\/7. You scroll through their profile in hope that you\u2019ll learn something new about them.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, you realize that you already visited their profile 27,940 times so far, and you know all their posts and every single detail on their pictures by heart. (It would be funny if it wasn\u2019t true.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>One of my friends has gone one step further and literally \u201cinvented\u201d a method for attracting your crush.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>She would open the chat window of her crush and just stare at it and imagine that he\u2019s texting her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Credeva che visualizzare le cose (la legge dell'attrazione) l'avrebbe aiutata ad attrarre la sua cotta e a far s\u00ec che lui le mandasse un messaggio.<\/p>\n<p>Again, it would be funny if it wasn\u2019t true because that ACTUALLY happened.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say how speechless I was when I realized that her method is actually working and it\u2019s not some random method that she came up with due to being desperate and crazy about her crush. (Okay, maybe it is, but still, it seems like it\u2019s working, so I dare you to try it for yourself, too.)<\/p>\n<p>Ma, prima di farlo, sarebbe opportuno <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/domande-da-fare-a-una-ragazza-per-capire-se-le-piaci\/\">Scoprire se la tua cotta ti ricambia<\/a> (o meno).<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure whether they like you back, then staring at a blank chat window would just be a waste of time, right? Right.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>They like me back. They don\u2019t like me back\u2026<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Come capire se la tua cotta ti ricambia?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125979 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che guardano il telefono mentre sono in piedi sulla strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-standing-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-capire-se-la-tua-cotta-ti-ricambia\/\">Come si fa a capire se la tua cotta ti ricambia?<\/a>? Il modo pi\u00f9 semplice per sapere se piaci o meno alla tua cotta \u00e8 semplicemente chiederglielo, giusto?<\/p>\n<p>I understand that I should have put in brackets next to the previous sentence&#8230; something like (reserved only for the bravest ones).<\/p>\n<p>Chiedere direttamente se piacciamo o meno alla nostra cotta \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 coraggiose che si possano fare nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s not fool ourselves. Doing this is TOTALLY out of the question, so we need to find some other safe and less embarrassing alternative.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Il modo migliore e pi\u00f9 sicuro per capire se piaci alla tua cotta \u00e8 prestare attenzione al suo linguaggio del corpo e al suo comportamento generale.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When we really like someone, we\u2019re mostly paying attention to our accelerated heart rate, whether we\u2019re blushing or have sweaty hands, and we get extra careful about not saying anything stupid in front of them.<\/p>\n<p>Having a crush on someone can be really exhausting, wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n<p>Prestando tanta attenzione a non metterci in imbarazzo davanti a loro, dimentichiamo di osservare il loro comportamento e il linguaggio del corpo.<\/p>\n<p>So, next time you\u2019re talking to your crush or being near them, pay attention to the following signs that mean your crush likes you back:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>La vostra cotta diventa nervosa con voi<\/li>\n<li>They can\u2019t help themselves but smile whenever they look at you<\/li>\n<li>Le loro sopracciglia si alzano<\/li>\n<li>Vi chiedono un parere<\/li>\n<li>Condividono con voi i loro segreti<\/li>\n<li>They\u2019re interested in your love life and in your life in general<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You know that your crush likes you back if they constantly initiate contact with you and find excuses only to be near you. If you know your crush\u2019s friends, pay attention to their behavior as well.<\/p>\n<p>Se piaci alla tua cotta, i suoi amici cominceranno a prenderti in giro e a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ci-comportiamo-come-una-coppia-ma-non-siamo-ufficiali\/\">comportatevi come se foste una coppia<\/a> (mi \u00e8 successo pi\u00f9 volte).<\/p>\n<p>A dire il vero, odio quando succede, perch\u00e9 mi imbarazzo ancora di pi\u00f9 di prima.<\/p>\n<p>Quando gli altri iniziano a prendervi in giro perch\u00e9 vi piace qualcuno, non avete altra scelta che ammetterlo o fare finta di niente (lo stesso vale per la vostra cotta, ammesso che vi piaccia).<\/p>\n<p>Vorrei anche aggiungere un segno spesso trascurato: il vostro intuito. Ogni volta che mi sentivo confusa nei confronti di qualcuno, si scopriva che avevo ragione perch\u00e9 quel ragazzo provava sentimenti contrastanti per me.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che ho pensato che la mia cotta mi ricambiasse, si \u00e8 rivelato vero.<\/p>\n<p>Se solo prestate attenzione al vostro intuito, esso pu\u00f2 dirvi molto su ogni cosa senza che dobbiate pensarci troppo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L'intuizione ci dice ci\u00f2 che la nostra anima sa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The thing with human beings is that we often ignore what our body and mind are telling us if we\u2019re not satisfied with their messages.<\/p>\n<p>You might not be very good at deciphering all those signs your crush likes you, and that\u2019s where your intuition comes to the rescue.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to that little voice inside your head telling you whether they like you or not and you\u2019ll know the truth.<\/p>\n<h2>Cosa fare se la tua cotta ti ricambia?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125980 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che sorridono mentre bevono un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se avete appena scoperto di piacere alla vostra cotta (o se lo scoprirete in futuro), congratulazioni! La parte peggiore \u00e8 ormai alle spalle.<\/p>\n<p>Ora che sapete di essere ricambiati, potete continuare a vivere la vostra vita migliore o non fare nulla e aspettare che alla fine esprimano i loro sentimenti per voi. SCHERZAVO.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What I\u2019ve learned from past experiences is that doing nothing about your crush is the biggest mistake you can ever make in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Immaginate che sia voi che la vostra cotta vi piacciate, ma che entrambi siate troppo ansiosi di ammetterlo.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you have to be the first one to make a move, and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that. As a matter of fact, if you know your crush likes you back, there\u2019s nothing you should be afraid of, right?<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll just let them know that you\u2019re on the same page, which is GREAT.<\/p>\n<p>Senza ulteriori indugi, ecco alcuni ottimi consigli tratti dall'elenco di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/quando-la-tua-cotta-ti-ricambia\/\">cose da fare quando la tua cotta ti ricambia<\/a>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Dite loro che vi piacciono il prima possibile<\/li>\n<li>Siate flirtanti con loro<\/li>\n<li>Siate fiduciosi<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u201cIn the end, we only regret the chances we didn\u2019t take, the relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-125981 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront.jpg\" alt=\"uomo felice in camicia blu e donna seduti vicino alla vetrina del negozio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/couple-sitting-near-storefront-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Exactly. So, the most important thing to do ASAP is to tell your crush that you like them back. If you wait too long, they might think that you\u2019re not interested.<\/p>\n<p>If you wait too long to tell them how you feel, you might regret the chance you didn\u2019t take. Trust me, you don\u2019t want that to happen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, dimenticate tutti quei consigli insensati che vi dicono di fare i difficili, di ignorare la vostra cotta per catturare la sua attenzione e simili.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se fate una di queste cose, non farete altro che renderli ancora pi\u00f9 confusi.<\/p>\n<p><em>How in the world can your crush know that you like them if you\u2019re ignoring them? How in the world will you ever be together if both of you are unwilling to make the first move?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A volte dovete essere voi a trovare il coraggio di avvicinare quella persona speciale che vi piace davvero.<\/p>\n<p>Questo articolo non parla di tutti quei giochi subdoli che vi dicono di fare con la vostra cotta per farvi piacere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s about observing your crush\u2019s behavior and having an active role in your own life!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo articolo non riguarda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/per-convincere-la-tua-cotta-a-ricambiare-il-tuo-apprezzamento\/\">come convincere la tua cotta a ricambiare il tuo interesse<\/a> vestendo per fare colpo o facendo tutte quelle cose che gi\u00e0 sapete fare.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about reminding you of the importance of acting before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about helping you to gather the courage and show your crush how much you like them. It\u2019s about acting and not pretending that you\u2019re not interested only to make them interested and similar.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about being who you are and doing what you believe in. So, if you really like them, then there\u2019s nothing you should be afraid of, and by expressing your feelings, you\u2019ve got nothing to lose.<\/p>\n<p>O vi accorgerete di essere ricambiati e inizierete la tanto attesa relazione sentimentale con loro, oppure continuerete a vivere la vostra vita migliore sapendo che tutto accade per un motivo e aspettando la persona che \u00e8 destinata a voi. In entrambi i casi, vincerete.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They like me back. They don\u2019t like me back. Hmm\u2026 does my crush like me back? Sounds familiar? What kind of a question is this, right? We spend half of our lives wondering whether another human being we have a crush on likes us back or not. When we really like someone, we can\u2019t help&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":125978,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Does-Your-Crush-Like-You-Back-This-Is-How-Youll-Know-For-Sure-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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