Ora la situazione \u00e8 ancora peggiore perch\u00e9 avete tonnellate di messaggi senza risposta e lui potrebbe iniziare a pensare che siete una donna disperata e assillante, o Dio solo sa cosa.<\/strong> (Dio, odio gli uomini e i pensieri eccessivi).<\/p>\n L'unica cosa che ti viene in mente \u00e8: Perch\u00e9 mai ha smesso di mandarmi messaggi all'improvviso, mentre tra noi andava tutto bene? Che cosa \u00e8 successo? Cosa \u00e8 cambiato? <\/em>Ho fatto qualcosa di sbagliato per farlo scappare da me o ci sono altre ragioni legittime per il suo essere improvvisamente distante<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n So many questions, but not a single answer to alleviate your worried mind. If it means anything to you, I\u2019ve been through the same situation multiple times so far, and here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned from it.<\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 probabilmente la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile da accettare.<\/p>\n When a guy you really like and have great chemistry with all of a sudden stops answering your texts, you can\u2019t help yourself but think that you\u2019re the one to blame for it.<\/p>\n Lasciate che vi dica una cosa.<\/p>\n In the majority of cases, this has nothing to do with you. No, he didn\u2019t stop texting you because you annoyed him with your texts or said something inappropriate that made him mad.<\/strong><\/p>\n He didn\u2019t stop texting you because he wants you to suffer for some reason. There are so many factors that influence someone\u2019s decision to become distant.<\/p>\n Perhaps he\u2019s busy at the moment and forgot to tell you that.<\/p>\n Maybe he thinks by telling you that he\u2019s busy, you\u2019ll think that he\u2019s just playing with you, and that\u2019s the reason why he decided to stop texting you at the moment without telling you why.<\/p>\n Scrolling through your chat to figure out what you\u2019ve done wrong WON\u2019T help. It will only make you feel even more confused.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can only guess what\u2019s going on in his mind, and jumping to conclusions is out of the question.<\/p>\n Voglio che tu sappia che perdere tempo a capire perch\u00e9 ha smesso di mandarti messaggi all'improvviso non \u00e8 una soluzione al tuo problema.<\/p>\n Naturalmente, sarebbe dieci volte pi\u00f9 facile per voi se sapeste esattamente perch\u00e9 ha smesso di mandarti messaggi<\/a>ma non si pu\u00f2 mai saperlo con certezza finch\u00e9 non ve lo dice lui.<\/p>\n Quindi, fino a quando non vi dir\u00e0 che cosa sta succedendo esattamente nella sua testa, ecco alcune possibili soluzioni motivi per cui ha smesso di mandarti messaggi all'improvviso<\/a> (but don\u2019t jump to conclusions yet):<\/strong><\/p>\n The last time a guy I\u2019ve been texting with for a long time stopped texting me suddenly is because he was too busy at the moment. Yup.<\/p>\n Ho passato settimane a preoccuparmi di cosa gli fosse successo e del perch\u00e9 avesse improvvisamente deciso di cancellarmi dalla sua vita.<\/p>\n After some time, he told me that he wanted to focus on his studies, so he didn\u2019t text anyone, not only me. SERIOUSLY?<\/p>\n The one thing I still don\u2019t understand is why he didn\u2019t tell me that? I\u2019m definitely not one of those people who would still continue texting him even if he specifically told me that he doesn\u2019t have time for it.<\/p>\n Why don\u2019t guys just say what they REALLY mean and how they really FEEL for once in their life?<\/strong><\/p>\n Is it really easier to ignore someone and risk losing them from your life than to tell them that you\u2019re just too busy to text them right now?<\/strong><\/p>\n I guess we\u2019ll never know the right answer to this question. (Okay, now give me some time to come to my senses because the recollection of this event has really pissed me off.)<\/p>\n The second and the third reasons are pretty much obvious, so I won\u2019t even comment on them (I don\u2019t want to risk another virtual breakdown).<\/p>\n But, I have the urge to say something about the last one. If you\u2019re always the first one to text him, this is a huge red flag.<\/p>\n Uno dei pi\u00f9 grandi motivi per cui non ti scrive mai per primo (ma risponde sempre quando gli mandi un messaggio)<\/a> \u00e8 dovuto al suo scarso impegno.<\/p>\n If a guy can\u2019t EVER find time to text you first, you should refrain from initiating texting for some time to see if anything changes.<\/p>\n In realt\u00e0, questo \u00e8 uno dei migliori things to do when he doesn\u2019t text back<\/a> for days as well, not only when he doesn\u2019t text first.<\/p>\n So, as you\u2019re sitting next to your cellphone and expecting him to text you back any second or minute, you might be wondering what exactly to do in this situation.<\/p>\n To spare you the trouble, here\u2019s one thing that you should NEVER do: DON\u2019T TEXT HIM<\/strong><\/a> IN QUALSIASI CIRCOSTANZA.<\/p>\n Many girls (including my past self) think that by double texting a guy, you\u2019ll remind him that you\u2019re still alive and that you\u2019re still waiting for his reply (I love the fact that this sentence even rhymes).<\/p>\n No, you won\u2019t remind him to text you back, and he will be even more reluctant to reply to you. Why? Because, in a way, you\u2019re forcing him to do so.<\/p>\nWhen he stops texting you suddenly, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve done something wrong.<\/h2>\n
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What to do when he doesn\u2019t text back for days?<\/h2>\n
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