{"id":126306,"date":"2021-02-22T11:41:45","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T11:41:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126306"},"modified":"2022-02-15T00:40:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T00:40:14","slug":"dovrei-mandargli-un-messaggio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dovrei-mandargli-un-messaggio\/","title":{"rendered":"Dovrei mandargli un messaggio? Imparare quando mandare un messaggio (e quando aspettare)"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019re looking at your phone, scrolling through your feed (or checking out his profile for the thousandth time) while asking yourself this famous question: Dovrei mandargli un messaggio o no<\/a>? <\/p>\n

Dovrei inviargli un semplice \"Ciao\" e aspettare che prenda di nuovo l'iniziativa e mi faccia delle domande significative?<\/em><\/p>\n

What if he doesn\u2019t do that? Should I text him one of those heartfelt texts where I\u2019ll show him the ultimate affection (that is killing me as I\u2019m overthinking all this)? Dovresti mandare un messaggio a un ragazzo per primo<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

Dopo aver soppesato i pro e i contro, si giunge alla seguente conclusione: Forse dovrei aspettare. Ma se non mi scrivesse pi\u00f9? Se si dimenticasse completamente di me? <\/em><\/p>\n

Una cosa \u00e8 certa: It\u2019s so damn hard to be a woman (or to be a human being) in these instant messaging and social media times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se gli mandate un doppio messaggio, potete letteralmente dire addio alla vostra (quasi) storia d'amore. Se lo lasciate aspettare troppo a lungo per la vostra risposta, rischiate che si arrabbi con voi o che si dimentichi di voi e vi cancelli dalla sua vita.<\/p>\n

God forbid if you \u201cSeen\u201d them or if they \u201cSeen\u201d you.<\/p>\n

We live in times when throwing a \u201cSeen\u201d is considered one of the greatest sins<\/strong> quando si tratta di relazioni sentimentali e di comunicazione in generale.<\/p>\n

Ci sono cos\u00ec tante regole, cos\u00ec tante opportunit\u00e0 di sbagliare e cos\u00ec tante riflessioni. Ma una cosa le mette tutte in ombra: imparare a capire quando \u00e8 il momento giusto per mandare un messaggio e quando invece bisogna aspettare.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 vuoi mandargli un messaggio?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Knowing when you should text him and when you shouldn\u2019t is connected with your motives.<\/p>\n

You need to ask yourself why you want to text them in the first place, and there, you\u2019ll find the answer to your question as to whether you should text him or not.<\/p>\n

Do you want to text him because you\u2019re feeling bored and\/or lonely?<\/h3>\n

Gli SMS sono diventati la cura pi\u00f9 popolare per la noia e uno strumento di distrazione per ogni tipo di umore.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with wanting to text someone when you\u2019re feeling bored or lonely, but this depends on your relationship with them.<\/p>\n

Is he your ex that you can\u2019t stop thinking about, so you have an uncontrollable urge to text him?<\/h3>\n

If he\u2019s your ex that you\u2019re thinking about 24\/7 (especially when you\u2019re feeling bored), you shouldn\u2019t mandargli un messaggio durante un periodo di divieto di contatto<\/a> che dovrebbe durare circa 90 giorni dopo una rottura.<\/p>\n

I know what you\u2019re thinking: 90 DAYS, WHAT THE HELL? I\u2019ll die before then.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Well, you might feel extremely tempted to text him, you might experience a couple of breakdowns or eat tons of ice cream while cursing your destiny, but you won\u2019t die for sure. Why?<\/p>\n

Because no one else died because of a No Contact period. Yes, it will be challenging to survive 90 days without texting him, but you\u2019ll make it, and once you get there, you\u2019ll be thankful to yourself for that.<\/p>\n

Also, you\u2019ll have a clearer perspective on things, which will help you decide whether it\u2019s time to move on or reunite with him.<\/p>\n

Ha ignorato il tuo ultimo messaggio e ora vuoi ricordargli di risponderti?<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 davvero complicato e fastidioso (soprattutto fastidioso).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing more painful in the whole wide world than the feeling of expecting him to text you back when deep down in your soul, you know that he won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, continui a sperare che un giorno lui risponda al tuo messaggio ormai dimenticato.
\nYou\u2019ll easily become tempted to remind him to text you back, and to do so, you have to double text him.<\/p>\n

Il doppio sms \u00e8 un'altra zona pericolosa che tutti dovrebbero evitare di frequentare se possibile.<\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s my humble advice to you: Unless you\u2019re REALLY and I mean really worried about their well-being, DON\u2019T double text him<\/strong>. Perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n

a) Perch\u00e9 ha gi\u00e0 letto il vostro testo.<\/p>\n

b) Because, for some reason, he didn\u2019t want to text you back.<\/p>\n

c) Because you\u2019re not desperate.<\/p>\n

d) Because if you do, he\u2019ll think of you as desperate.<\/p>\n

So, unless you suspect that he was prevented from texting you back due to some medical issue or other serious thing, then you shouldn\u2019t text him back.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, he\u2019ll continue taking you for granted by letting you wait for an eternity to text you back. Even worse, he\u2019ll think that you\u2019re okay with it and that you\u2019ll always wait.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 14 cose intelligenti da fare quando lui non risponde ai messaggi per giorni<\/a><\/p>\n

Vuoi mandargli un messaggio perch\u00e9 ti manca GENUINAMENTE e provi ancora qualcosa per lui?<\/h3>\n

Se vi siete lasciati e ti manca davvero e provi ancora qualcosa per lui anche dopo il periodo di non contatto, allora dovresti mandargli un messaggio.<\/p>\n

Perhaps he\u2019s feeling the same way, so if you don\u2019t tell him how you\u2019re feeling, you\u2019ll never know whether you have a chance at reuniting with him.<\/p>\n

Mandategli un messaggio una volta e se vi risponde, congratulazioni. If he doesn\u2019t text you back, then DON\u2019T double text him.<\/strong> Again, you don\u2019t want him to think of you as desperate or that you can\u2019t live your best life without him.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy; trust me on that one. If you place your happiness in someone else\u2019s hands, you\u2019ll never be truly happy (I\u2019ve learned that one the hard way).<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s guilty of doing these things, don\u2019t even bother to text him back!<\/h3>\n

We women are really good at making excuses for our men. We\u2019re so good at it that making excuses for them should be presented to the world as an art in itself or a course that other people can attend.<\/p>\n

If you make an excuse once for your man, it\u2019s not a big deal, but if you continue doing so, it\u2019s time to change the game.<\/p>\n

There are some things that you should never tolerate no matter if you\u2019re dating him or if you\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If he does these things, don\u2019t even bother to text him back<\/a>:<\/p>\n