{"id":126319,"date":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","date_gmt":"2021-05-17T19:12:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=126319"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:26:21","slug":"non-hai-bisogno-di-un-uomo-per-essere-felice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-hai-bisogno-di-un-uomo-per-essere-felice\/","title":{"rendered":"Signore, ecco perch\u00e9 non avete bisogno di un uomo per essere felici"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t need a man to be happy<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n

How many times have you heard this clich\u00e9?
\nHo scommesso una volta di troppo, proprio come ho fatto io.<\/p>\n

Ma quanti di voi hanno effettivamente messo in pratica questa filosofia nella propria vita?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Scommetto che non siete in molti, proprio come il mio passato.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly intriguing about us women (and people in general) being convinced that we need to have someone in our lives to be truly happy or fit into societal norms.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something truly wrong about this worn-out sequence: Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma davvero? Da quando questa \u00e8 la ricetta che ognuno di noi deve seguire per evitare di essere ostracizzato dalla societ\u00e0?<\/p>\n

So, if you manage to finish school and find a job but have no partner yet, society and the media will make you feel like you\u2019re doing something wrong, and you\u2019ll NEVER be truly happy.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s time to put an end to this lie and manipulation because we don\u2019t need a partner to be happy, and we don\u2019t need to appease society to feel worthy.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to experience true happiness because you\u2019re the creator of your own!<\/p>\n

Essere single pu\u00f2 essere eccitante come avere una relazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Farfalle nello stomaco, contare i secondi prima di vedere la persona amata, coccolarsi, ridere, avere un partner nel crimine, un confidente e un amico tutto in uno.<\/em> sono le cose che rendono la nostra vita divertente ed emozionante.<\/p>\n

Now let\u2019s be honest. No matter how fulfilling and entertaining relationships can be, they also come with a HUGE burden.<\/p>\n

All those overthinking sessions about whether you should text them first (or not), whether you should introduce them to your friends and family, the inevitable arguments, compromising (even when you don\u2019t feel like it), finding a balance between fare di tutto per loro e non essere dati per scontati.<\/strong>e l'elenco continua.<\/p>\n

Tutte queste cose possono rendere la vostra vita frustrante e, in alcuni casi, un vero inferno.<\/p>\n

So, NO, you don\u2019t need to be in a relationship to be happy (especially not a toxic one) because essere single<\/a> pu\u00f2 essere eccitante quanto avere un partner!<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re single, you have all the time in the world to prioritize your own happiness before someone else\u2019s<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Potrete scegliere le vostre attivit\u00e0, il cibo, i film e tutte le altre cose su cui di solito si scende a compromessi con il partner.<\/p>\n

You get to live your best life without needing to worry about whether you\u2019re texting him too much, whether he\u2019s not giving you enough attention, or if you should be suspicious of his loyalty.<\/p>\n

You get to spoil yourself the way you deserve, spend more time with your friends and family, so you don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own!<\/strong><\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize that putting my happiness in someone else\u2019s hands is the wrong thing to do.<\/p>\n

Per met\u00e0 della mia vita ho pensato che l'unico modo per raggiungere la vera felicit\u00e0 fosse trovare il partner perfetto per me.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019ve learned two lessons the hard way:<\/p>\n

1. The perfect partner doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. L'unico modo per essere veramente felici \u00e8 imparare ad amare se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you love yourself, you don\u2019t look for that one missing piece in someone else. When you love yourself, you don\u2019t need validation from others. You don\u2019t need a man to make you feel worthy or loved.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about establishing a relationship you\u2019ll value your whole life. It\u2019s about accepting yourself for who you are with all those imperfections, quirks, weaknesses, and weird habits.<\/p>\n

Loving yourself is about knowing that you\u2019re the creator of your own happiness<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ricordate che siete venuti al mondo da soli. Trovare un partner \u00e8 una scelta, ma innamorarsi di se stessi \u00e8 una necessit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s interesting how society (particularly the media) prioritizes relationships before self-love.<\/p>\n

Since when did finding a partner become an alternative for getting in touch with your true self? How is it possible to love someone else if you\u2019re not in love with yourself?<\/p>\n

Uno dei motivi principali per cui i media ci costringono a credere che abbiamo bisogno di un partner per essere felici \u00e8 perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per venderci qualcosa.<\/p>\n

Da \u201ctechniques and magical recipes for dealing with commitment phobes\u201d <\/strong><\/em>a \u201cthe most expensive makeup that will make you beautiful\u201d<\/strong><\/em> and help you find a long-awaited \u201cperfect\u201d partner.<\/p>\n

Vi convincono che avete bisogno di qualcuno nella vostra vita solo per diventare schiavi della loro propaganda.<\/p>\n

Half of those terms like \u201ccommitment-phobes,\u201d \u201calmost relationships,\u201d and similar don\u2019t even exist in the real world, but that\u2019s an article for another day.<\/p>\n

Secondo me, la sequenza logora di cui abbiamo parlato all'inizio dovrebbe essere riformulata in questo modo:<\/p>\n

Finish school \u2013 Find a job \u2013 Innamoratevi di voi stessi<\/strong> \u2013 Find a partner \u2013 Get married \u2013 Have kids.
\n(Of course, some of us don\u2019t want to get married, have kids, finish school, or have a job, which is more than okay.)<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t love yourself, you\u2019ll spend your whole life feeling like something is missing. Perhaps you already have a few failed relationships, and you blame yourself for it.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa che dovresti rimproverarti \u00e8 di non averti dato abbastanza amore e attenzione.<\/p>\n

\u201cLove yourself first because that\u2019s who you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yup. Relationships come and go, but the relationship you have with yourself is for life. You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you can be perfectly happy on your own only if you want to.<\/p>\n

Ricorda:<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single than to be in a crappy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not happy, give yourself permission to leave<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amare se stessi \u00e8 la chiave della vera felicit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to live your life without a man<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love yourself because, at the end of the day, the only person you have is yourself. You don\u2019t need a man to remind you of that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy because you\u2019ve already got plenty of motivi per essere felici in questo momento, qualunque cosa accada<\/a>:<\/p>\n