{"id":127125,"date":"2021-03-05T11:50:13","date_gmt":"2021-03-05T11:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127125"},"modified":"2022-06-22T23:28:19","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T23:28:19","slug":"mancanza-di-affetto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mancanza-di-affetto\/","title":{"rendered":"Come la mancanza di affetto rovina le relazioni (e come recuperarla)"},"content":{"rendered":"

L'intimit\u00e0 \u00e8 essenziale per ogni relazione sana<\/a>. Nevertheless, it’s nothing uncommon to see couples who struggle with lack of affection in their romances.<\/p>\n

If this is something you’re dealing with, you know how it feels to crave physical intimacy from the person sleeping next to you. Ironic, isn’t it? Well, it’s also devastating and can be disastrous.<\/p>\n

Allora, perch\u00e9 mancanza di affetto<\/a> anche in relazioni apparentemente amorevoli? Che effetto ha su di voi e, soprattutto, che cosa si pu\u00f2 fare?<\/p>\n

Cosa si nasconde dietro la mancanza di affetto e di intimit\u00e0 in una relazione?<\/h2>\n

Quando le coccole, i baci e gli abbracci sono scomparsi dalla vostra storia d'amore? Quando avete smesso di dormire insieme al vostro partner? E soprattutto: perch\u00e9 \u00e8 successo?<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you\u2019re loved in a language that you can\u2019t understand<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: different people need different levels of affection to function. It all actually depends on your love language.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. Well, one of these five linguaggi dell'amore<\/a> \u00e8 tocco fisico<\/a>. These are the people who prefer to use nonverbal communication to express their feelings instead of literally saying “I love you”.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t tell you they care for you right away. They won\u2019t write you love poems or throw you a romantic surprise every now and then.<\/p>\n

Ma sfrutteranno ogni occasione per toccare la persona amata, per tenerle la mano mentre parla, per abbracciarla o per baciarla mentre passa.<\/p>\n

Queste persone hanno l'esigenza di stare costantemente vicino alla persona che amano. Questa vicinanza d\u00e0 loro sicurezza, conforto e soddisfazione.<\/p>\n

Non ci sono problemi quando si trova un partner che ha la stessa voglia di baci, coccole e rapporti sessuali. Ma cosa succede quando due persone che mostrano amore in modi completamente diversi finiscono insieme?<\/p>\n

E se il vostro partner \u00e8 un introverso? E se mostrare affetto fisico significa uscire dalla sua zona di comfort?<\/p>\n

What if your assumption that they don’t love you is misinformation? So, before accusing your partner of indifference, take this possibility into consideration.<\/p>\n

Per cominciare, osservate attentamente il loro comportamento. Esprimono il loro amore per voi attraverso altre lingue?<\/p>\n

Forse preferiscono farvi dei complimenti o comprarvi dei regali. Forse amano trascorrere del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con voi o esprimono il loro amore incondizionato facendovi piccoli favori quotidiani.<\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 il caso, non c'\u00e8 dubbio: voi e il vostro partner don\u2019t speak the same love language<\/a>. Even though this realization alone won\u2019t magically solve your problem, you know what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, it\u2019s a start, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

La distanza peggiore \u00e8 quella emotiva<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le persone che si trovano su lunghezze d'onda simili non hanno problemi mantenere viva una relazione a distanza<\/a> nonostante i chilometri che li separano. Ma che dire di coloro che siedono accanto, ma che non sono mai stati cos\u00ec distanti?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on with you and your significant other. They\u2019re physically present in your life, but the truth is that you can\u2019t seem to genuinely feel their presence.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like the bond you two once had vanished. Someone or something cut the cords, and now, there you are: two strangers who keep waking up next to each other.<\/p>\n

Bene, the lack of physical touch you\u2019re currently struggling with is nothing but a direct consequence of this emotional distance<\/strong>. Nel corso degli anni vi siete allontanati l'uno dall'altro.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 un problema che molte coppie devono affrontare a un certo punto della loro relazione. You don\u2019t know when and how it happened, but you admit that you feel emotionally disconnected from your partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like neither of you is mentally or emotionally present in the relationship. Your thoughts and heart wander elsewhere, as far away as possible from your significant other.<\/p>\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, il solo tentativo di intimit\u00e0 fisica vi disgusta o almeno vi mette a disagio.<\/p>\n

Your SO\u2019s touch used to provide relief after a long day, and now you have a hard time falling asleep next to them, let alone something more.<\/p>\n

For some couples, sadly, this is the end of their romantic relationship. They have stopped loving each other, and this is nothing but a sign that it\u2019s time to part ways.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, alcuni la vedono come una semplice crisi. Decidono di opporsi e di impegnarsi al massimo per ripristinare l'intimit\u00e0 perduta.<\/p>\n

Quale sia l'approccio giusto, vi chiederete. Vale la pena salvare una relazione quando si arriva a questo punto?<\/p>\n

Well, nobody can give you the answer to this question \u2013 the choice is always yours.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 10 segni che non si sta impegnando a sufficienza nella vostra relazione<\/a><\/p>\n

Anche i sentimenti pi\u00f9 forti scadono quando vengono ignorati e dati per scontati.<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Un'altra ragione che si nasconde dietro questa situazione nella vostra relazione \u00e8 l'abitudine in cui siete caduti tu e il tuo ragazzo o la tua ragazza.<\/p>\n

You two have been together for ages, and somehow, along the way, both of you stopped nurturing the relationship. It\u2019s like you forgot it needs to be watered and fed as if it were a human being.<\/p>\n

Your love still hasn\u2019t vanished, but it definitely is on the path of destruction. For years, nobody has ever done anything to keep it alive, and now you have to deal with the ruins of what once was great love.<\/p>\n

Suona familiare, vero? Beh, \u00e8 una situazione abbastanza comune nelle coppie di lunga durata che hanno una relazione seria.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Il punto cruciale \u00e8 che avete iniziato a darvi per scontati. La fase del corteggiamento \u00e8 finita da un pezzo, non ci sono pi\u00f9 appuntamenti e non ci si pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 conquistare l'un l'altro.<\/p>\n

Quindi, avete smesso. Avete smesso di fare complimenti, di prestare attenzione e di offrire affetto.<\/p>\n

You got used to this person\u2019s presence and you\u2019re sure they\u2019re not going anywhere, no matter what happens. You\u2019ve lost the desire for someone who is always at your arm\u2019s reach.<\/p>\n

La passione non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9, le farfalle nella pancia si sono addormentate, ma la fame di pelle \u00e8 l\u00ec.<\/p>\n

You and your spouse are no longer lovers or romantic partners. You might be friends or co-parents, but most of all, you are roommates. You don\u2019t live together \u2013 you coexist next to each other.<\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/h4>\n

Cosa \u00e8 successo a tutti quei fuochi d'artificio dell'inizio della vostra storia d'amore? Beh, voi due li avete spenti con forze congiunte.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not here to judge you. Trust me: it happens to the best as well.<\/p>\n

But, now that you\u2019re aware of the problem, it\u2019s time to get into action. Revive the spark in your romance and see it go back to its golden era.<\/p>\n

The person you\u2019re trying to reach is emotionally unavailable at this time. Please try again later<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tutto questo \u00e8 stato un problema fin dall'inizio? \u00c8 possibile che non sia la prima volta che succede? Siete stati cos\u00ec accecati dall'amore da non accorgervene?<\/p>\n

Is it possible that you pretended it didn\u2019t bother you back then? But now, you\u2019ve reached a pointwhere you\u2019ve had enough?<\/p>\n

In that case, you\u2019re dealing with an emotionally unavailable partner con problemi di intimit\u00e0<\/a>. Or, maybe they’re just self-centered to the point where they consciously refuse to love anyone but themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To get one thing straight, they\u2019ve been like this forever, and they\u2019ll probably keep their behavioral patterns for as long as they breathe.<\/p>\n

Ma probabilmente pensavate di poterli cambiare con il tempo. Eravate convinti di avere ci\u00f2 che serviva per aprire il loro cuore all'amore.<\/p>\n

You ignored all the red flags and you thought you’d farli innamorare di voi<\/a>. It\u2019s not like you failed to see that they were incapable of loving \u2013 you just kept your hopes up that things would turn out differently.<\/p>\n

Sognavi di abbattere i loro muri. Desideravi che un giorno ti lasciassero entrare e diventassero pi\u00f9 teneri.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo non \u00e8 mai successo, vero?<\/strong> Sono diventati ancora pi\u00f9 emotivamente indisponibili quando hanno capito che eravate l\u00ec e che non avevate intenzione di lasciarli.<\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/h4>\n

If this is something you can relate to, you don\u2019t have many options left. Whatever happens, you have to forget about il vostro amore che li cambia.<\/a> Se fosse potuto succedere, sarebbe successo fino ad ora. Quando ho capito che he doesn’t love me<\/a> (il mio ex), ho deciso di voltare pagina immediatamente. <\/p>\n

Pertanto, si pu\u00f2 accogliere la situazione o abbandonarla.<\/strong> Potete condannarvi a una vita senza amore accanto a loro o continuare per conto vostro. <\/p>\n

\u00c8 possibile rimanere in questa relazione unilaterale<\/a> oppure si pu\u00f2 andare avanti nella speranza di trovare la persona che si merita.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: in both cases, you\u2019ll break your own heart, but only one option will turn your entire life into a dark tunnel without the light at the end of it.<\/p>\n

Il modo in cui qualcuno vi risponde potrebbe non avere nulla a che fare con voi.<\/h3>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Quando qualcosa non va nella nostra storia d'amore, tendiamo a dare la colpa a noi stessi.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re touch-deprived, you\u2019ll immediately see this as the end of the world. Has the love between you and your partner disappeared?<\/p>\n

Ha la vostra relazione raggiunge la data di scadenza<\/a>? Sono infedeli? Hanno una relazione sentimentale? Non sei pi\u00f9 attraente?<\/p>\n

Ma, have you ever wondered if maybe your partner isn\u2019t affectionate due to some other problem completely unrelated to your relationship? Is it possible that something outside of your romance is going wrong?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adult life does this to people. We\u2019re all busy, running between errands and responsibilities.<\/p>\n

Maybe, your SO is dealing with some mental health issues; maybe they\u2019re depressed or are just going through a stressful period. Either way, it\u2019s more than obvious that they\u2019re bothered with something.<\/p>\n

Therefore, showing you affection simply isn\u2019t the primary thing on their mind right now.<\/p>\n

Come si risolve il problema?<\/h4>\n

Even though this reason seems quite benign, it\u2019s still not the best news in the world. You see, if your partner is going through a rough patch, but you know nothing about it, you still have a problem.<\/p>\n

This time, we\u2019re not talking about touch-deprivation only. It\u2019s clear that you two have some communication issues.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to start working on the cause before dealing with the consequences. Talk to your SO, regain their trust, and make them realize they can tell you everything.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t judge them, but carefully listen to whatever they have to say. Don\u2019t pressure them either unless you want to scare them off.<\/p>\n

Voi due dovreste ricreare l'ambiente sicuro nella relazione.<\/a><\/strong> Nel momento in cui raggiungerete questo difficile obiettivo, la vostra comunicazione migliorer\u00e0 e l'affetto fisico far\u00e0 il suo grande ritorno.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 13 cose da ricordare quando si esce con una persona non affettuosa<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Come pu\u00f2 influire la mancanza di affetto da parte del marito o della moglie?<\/h2>\n

You’re a social being, and whether you’re aware of that or not, you need human touch as you need air to breathe. You especially need it from your partner \u2013 the person you see as your soulmate.<\/p>\n

So, what happens when you’re deprived of physical contact with them? Well, it has to leave some consequences on you, doesn’t it?<\/p>\n

 If stress burned calories, you\u2019d be a supermodel<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Skin hunger and lack of human contact in general lead to stress \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Lonely people are more frequently frustrated and discontent with their lives.<\/p>\n

Quindi, potete solo immaginare cosa pu\u00f2 fare la solitudine quando si \u00e8 fisicamente accanto alla persona amata. Ci rende arrabbiati, infelici e infelici.<\/p>\n

Avete voglia di litigare con chiunque incroci il vostro cammino, avete tolleranza zero verso qualsiasi tipo di disaccordo e potreste letteralmente mordere chiunque usi un tono sbagliato nei vostri confronti, per non parlare di qualcos'altro.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that, in most cases, it takes you awhile to understand what\u2019s going on with you. You see that something is off, but you have a hard time figuring the cause of all of this stress.<\/p>\n

Quindi, invece di lavorare sulla causa, this amount of stress stresses you even more, and before you know it, you\u2019re trapped in an endless, vicious cycle that you see no way out of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your mood shifts dozens of times during the day, your relationships with friends and family get into crises, and you end up in some kind of social isolation because if the truth is told, you’re not good company for anyone.<\/p>\n

Tutta la vostra vita inizia ad andare in frantumi. La cosa pi\u00f9 disastrosa \u00e8 che anche il rapporto con se stessi sembra essere in crisi.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ultimamente non riuscite a sopportare voi stessi. Tutta questa situazione ha avuto un forte impatto sulla sua salute mentale.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You become more and more anxious, and it\u2019s like you fail to see that you\u2019re in desperate need of something so simple as your loved one\u2019s affection. Of course, you\u2019re not getting any, so your condition worsens.<\/p>\n

Please remember one thing: nothing and nobody is worthy of your mental health. Put yourself as a priority and put an effort into making yourself happy if you can\u2019t fix your relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re no longer comfortable in your own skin<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Lack of physical contact in a romantic relationship brings numerous self-esteem problems. It\u2019s actually pretty logical.<\/p>\n

The person you share your life with doesn\u2019t kiss you, doesn\u2019t hold you in their arms, doesn\u2019t hug you, and ultimately, doesn\u2019t sleep with you. So, who could blame you for concluding that they find you repulsive?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that your partner no longer sees you as attractive. The first thing you do is start looking for flaws in your body.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siete ingrassati? O forse avete perso un chilo di troppo? Dovreste fare qualcosa di diverso con i vostri capelli? Andare in palestra vi aiuterebbe? O forse cambiare profumo?<\/p>\n

You start comparing yourself to all other men and women \u2013 especially to those near your SO. You picture your partner admiring everyone\u2019s looks and then realizing that you are the worst choice they could have ever made.<\/p>\n

Non solo: vi paragonate anche alla persona che eravate all'inizio della vostra storia d'amore. Dopotutto, \u00e8 di questa persona che il vostro coniuge si \u00e8 innamorato, quindi la via per il suo cuore \u00e8 tornare a essere quello di prima.<\/p>\n

Il problema pi\u00f9 grande \u00e8 che questi problemi di autostima rimangono anche se la relazione si interrompe. Diventano un fardello pesante che vi portate dietro in tutte le vostre storie d'amore future.<\/p>\n

Si creano problemi che ci accompagnano per un lungo periodo. Quando si inizia a sentirsi a disagio nella propria pelle, l'immagine del proprio corpo cambia per sempre.<\/p>\n

It takes you a long time to understand that you\u2019re gorgeous just the way you are, and it takes you a long time to accettare le proprie imperfezioni.<\/a><\/p>\n

But, it takes you the longest time to realize that your physical appearance had nothing to do with touch deprivation. When you\u2019re in a healthy relationship, your loved one will love you back no matter how you look \u2013 that\u2019s the whole point.<\/p>\n

Loneliness is not a lack of company \u2013 it\u2019s a lack of purpose<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

University of Arizona Professor, Kory Floyd, says: “Touch, in particular, is so important, not only to relationships, human connection, and human attachment, but also to our health and well-being, both physically and mentally.”<\/p>\n

Therefore, it’s Non sorprende che la mancanza di intimit\u00e0 e la privazione del contatto causino una carenza di ossitocina, l'ormone dell'amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Consequently, depression starts to crawl into your world. Even though you\u2019re not physically and technically alone, you\u2019re very much lonely.<\/p>\n

You have a romantic partner, but most of the time, you feel like you\u2019re single. You feel unloved and unwanted, which can\u2019t be pleasing for anyone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that your relationship is the only thing falling apart here \u2013 your entire life is. You think that all of your efforts are in vain and like you have lost all purpose in this world.<\/p>\n

Cosa si pu\u00f2 fare?<\/h3>\n

Well, you haven\u2019t! Even if the person next to you has stopped loving you, you must never stop loving yourself.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re lonely. Yes, it sucks. But, hey, you still have yourself, and who can be more important than that?<\/p>\n

Come salvare una relazione priva di affetto?<\/h2>\n

La notizia migliore \u00e8 che non tutto \u00e8 perduto. Una relazione priva di tatto pu\u00f2 essere salvata, ed ecco come fare.<\/p>\n

If love isn\u2019t given freely to you, it isn\u2019t worth having<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'errore numero uno che le persone commettono nelle relazioni prive di affetto \u00e8 implorando attenzione.<\/a> Iniziano inseguire l'amore<\/a> nel disperato tentativo di catturarlo.<\/p>\n

There is nothing unusual about this. You get scared that you\u2019re losing the person you love, and you want to hold them next to you as tightly as possible.<\/p>\n

Ma, l'amore che insegui vale la pena di essere vissuto? Secondo tutti consigli sulle relazioni<\/a>, it definitely isn’t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying that you should sit arms crossed and not move a finger. Don\u2019t let pride ruin your love.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, don\u2019t forget about your dignity either. It\u2019s one thing to ask your partner to talk about your problem, but begging them down on your knees is something completely different.<\/p>\n

Guarda, you can\u2019t force anyone to be affectionate the same way you can\u2019t force anyone to love you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can do your best to find a compromise regarding this issue, and you can be open about what\u2019s bothering you and hope for the best. Everything else is pretty much outside of your reach.<\/p>\n

Non ha senso restituire il favore<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Another thing you shouldn\u2019t be doing is getting even. I know that you want to boost your ego by giving your partner a taste of their own medicine, but trust me: it\u2019s not the way to go. Besides being immature, it won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

You know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. Your SO was depriving you of physical affection for awhile, so now that they are trying to get closer to you, you\u2019re not letting them in.<\/p>\n

You avoid their cuddles, kisses, and hugs despite the skin hunger that’s overwhelming you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re actually punishing them for their behavior. This is your revenge \u2013 you don\u2019t plan on running to them every time they remember to show affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though I get your point of view, the better choice is to let them slide this time. If you don\u2019t, then the abyss between you two will only become deeper.<\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Lack of affection in a relationship is a big deal \u2013 don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Nevertheless, it’s crucial to understand that the lack of physical contact is actually, in most cases, just a consequence of a deeper problem.<\/p>\n

But, the good news is that things don’t have to always remain like this. This problem can be solved and your relationship can be saved.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 solo una condizione: sia voi che il vostro partner dovete unire le forze per sistemare le cose.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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