{"id":127205,"date":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127205"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","slug":"fare-una-mossa-con-una-ragazza-nel-modo-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fare-una-mossa-con-una-ragazza-nel-modo-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"Se vuoi fare una mossa con una ragazza, devi farlo nel modo giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t like playing games? Maybe women like simple men. There\u2019s no way I\u2019ll ever make a move on this girl if I continue complicating things.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Raise your hand if you\u2019ve ever been in this situation. (And I thought so.) I bet millions of men experience such overthinking on a daily basis (especially those who are shy by nature).<\/p>\n<p>Prima di scrivere qualsiasi altra cosa, ho una domanda da farle: <strong>Cosa ne pensate di una ragazza che fa la prima mossa?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m a girl myself, I have no problems making the first move if I really like the guy and notice that he\u2019s a little bit reserved or shy. I mean, we live in the 21st century when gender stereotyping shouldn\u2019t even exist!<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re a guy lucky enough to run into a girl like me who doesn\u2019t have a problem with making the first move, then congratulations! But, if you\u2019re not, learning <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-fare-una-mossa-con-una-ragazza-e-farla-tua\/\">come provarci con una ragazza<\/a> il modo giusto \u00e8 l'unico modo!<\/p>\n<h2>Come si fa a capire se vuole che tu faccia una mossa?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127208 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna che si guardano mentre sono in piedi al bancone del bar\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before you decide to approach a girl and impress her with your skills, it\u2019s advisable that you first learn if she wants you to make a move at all.<\/p>\n<p>Le ragazze sono esseri complessi. A volte, possono inviarvi tonnellate di segnali contrastanti e lasciarvi totalmente confusi nel migliore dei casi.<\/p>\n<p>We certainly don\u2019t want that to happen. So, what do you need to do to find out if that one girl actually wants you to approach her?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 necessario prestare attenzione a questi aspetti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-sottili-segnali-che-vogliono-far-muovere\/\">segnali sottili che indicano che lei vuole che tu faccia una mossa<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She\u2019s approachable, warm, and open to you.<\/li>\n<li>Ci sono molti tocchi sottili.<\/li>\n<li>Mantiene un contatto visivo profondo.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If she feels relaxed and has that \u2018happy vibe\u2019 when in your company, this is a great sign. If she\u2019s a little bit flirty with her words and overall behavior, know that she\u2019s totally interested in you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A girl who doesn\u2019t want you to make a move will act like it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ignorer\u00e0 i vostri messaggi (la maggior parte delle volte) o si impegner\u00e0 al minimo per rispondervi. Sicuramente non sar\u00e0 interessata a conoscervi meglio, quindi non vi far\u00e0 domande.<\/p>\n<p>These are the things that you need to pay attention to, so make sure to take note. Observe her body language, texting patterns, and all those little things that can say a lot about her intentions, and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n<h2>Fare una mossa con una ragazza non \u00e8 fisica quantistica, ma \u00e8 necessario imparare le basi!<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127209 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano bevendo vino su un tetto\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ho la strana sensazione che ai media piaccia far sembrare complessi certi argomenti solo per confondere i lettori.<\/p>\n<p>They even go one step further and invent new terms that don\u2019t even exist, only to make you feel incapable and dependent on their virtual help.<\/p>\n<p>This article is not about that. It\u2019s not about representing \u2018making the first move\u2019 as something complicated or \u201cunreachable\u201d to regular guys out there.<\/p>\n<p>Dal mio punto di vista femminile, posso dirvi una cosa: <strong>Provarci con una ragazza \u00e8 davvero molto semplice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And if it is not simple, then she\u2019s not worthy of you approaching her. Yup, I just said that, and I\u2019m really proud of that new hypothesis of mine.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che potete approcciare con successo qualsiasi donna l\u00e0 fuori, sia nella vita reale che virtualmente, e tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 una cosa: la FIDUCIA (e una connessione a Internet, ovviamente, se scegliete quest'ultima).<\/p>\n<p>Now, what does it mean to be confident? No, it doesn\u2019t mean having a perfect body, trendy hairstyle, and a six-figure salary. You can be confident even if you\u2019re broke, have a dad bod, and no hair at all.<\/p>\n<p>Questi sono solo fattori esterni che possono aiutare, ma non sono cruciali quando si tratta di attrarre le donne. Quindi, la cosa su cui dovete concentrarvi \u00e8..:<\/p>\n<h2>Cosa trovano di attraente le donne in lei?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127210 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"Donna sorridente che guarda un uomo mentre sono seduti insieme in un ristorante\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Qual \u00e8 la cosa (o le cose) che le donne potrebbero trovare attraente in voi? Quali sono i vostri hobby (se ne avete), i vostri interessi, i tratti della vostra personalit\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>What are the things that you can offer to her that would add value to her life? (and I don\u2019t mean only financially).<\/p>\n<p>Like every human being on the planet, your set of skills and personality traits are unique. There isn\u2019t another you out there. So, what you need to do is CONVINCE that one girl you like that you are exactly what she needs in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si tratta di fare la prima mossa, consideratela come una pubblicit\u00e0. Siete sia l'inserzionista che il prodotto che volete vendere. In pratica, state vendendo voi stessi (per quanto possa sembrare strano).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, come si fa a vendere se stessi senza essere troppo ovvi, sgarbati o invadenti?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, dovete tenere presente che la cosa principale che una donna vuole in un uomo \u00e8 che sia DIVERSO dagli altri. Pensate di poterlo essere o di dimostrarglielo? Scommetto di s\u00ec!<\/p>\n<p>Se volete fare un'ottima prima impressione e conquistare quella ragazza, fate come segue:<\/p>\n<h3>Intrigarla<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127211 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che usa il suo smartphone mentre \u00e8 sdraiata sul divano\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re planning on approaching her in the virtual world, then you need to make sure that your profile looks intriguing enough for her to decide to text you back.<\/p>\n<p>To save you the trouble, I\u2019ll tell you what kind of profiles DON\u2019T look interesting at all:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Avere una foto profilo della propria auto.<\/strong> (Yes, we understand that you\u2019re a car lover, but you don\u2019t have to display it everywhere.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Avere foto ripetitive di se stessi.<\/strong> (Se bere con i tuoi amici \u00e8 l'unica cosa che fai, quanto sei interessante?).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Esagerare con le foto della palestra.<\/strong> (Yes, it\u2019s good to know that you take good care of your physical appearance, but what about your personality?)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If I don\u2019t stop myself right here, I\u2019m afraid I never will. So, what you need to pay attention to, both virtually and in the real world is: Don\u2019t be boring or predictable.<\/p>\n<p>Intrigatela comportandovi da veri gentiluomini o mostrandovi interessati a varie cose e non solo a bere birra con gli amici. In altre parole:<\/p>\n<h3>DON\u2019T be generic<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127213 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria che ascolta un uomo mentre si trovano insieme all&#039;aperto\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be one of those guys who sends something like this every single time: <em>Ehi, come stai? Cosa stai facendo?<\/em> These sentences scream BORING (especially if you\u2019re overusing them).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s say that you\u2019re approaching a girl on the street.<\/strong> Cosa le direbbe? <em>Come stai?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s not a bad idea for starters, but you would have much bigger chances of impressing her if you said something like: <em>Dove ha comprato quel braccialetto?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re really interested in her bracelet or not. What matters is that you\u2019ve noticed it!<\/p>\n<p>You can pretend that you\u2019re thinking about buying the same bracelet for your mother, sister, or best friend for their birthday, and that\u2019s the reason why you\u2019re asking her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate cosa abbiamo detto a proposito della pubblicit\u00e0? <strong>In questo modo, vi vendete indirettamente. Catturate la sua attenzione, le mostrate quanto siete premurosi e la impressionate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dopo la faccenda del braccialetto, potete chiederle se vuole andare a bere qualcosa o qualcosa di simile. Non sapr\u00e0 mai che questo era il vostro obiettivo principale. Gli approcci indiretti di solito sono<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-chiedere-a-una-ragazza-di-essere-la-tua-fidanzata\/\"> I modi migliori per chiedere a una ragazza di uscire.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Cercate di essere misteriosi<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127214 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna che parlano in un bar mentre bevono un caff\u00e8\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t tell her everything about yourself too soon. Leave her guessing. Don\u2019t be an open book. Instead, focus on listening to her more because, let\u2019s be honest, women LOVE to talk a lot (except me).<\/p>\n<p>You can certainly not go wrong by letting her talk, but don\u2019t be passive either. Ask her some sub-questions, make her laugh.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fatela sentire bene!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let her know that you want to get to know her better. Don\u2019t be one of those low-effort guys waiting for a girl to do everything. Take the initiative, roll up your sleeves, and win her!<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cLife is a game board. Time is your opponent. If you procrastinate, you will lose the game. You must make a move to be victorious.\u201d \u2013 Napoleon Hill<\/h2>\n<p>So, what are you waiting for? Now that you know the basics of making a move like a boss don\u2019t wait any longer.<\/p>\n<p>Siate diversi. Siate fiduciosi. Siate vittoriosi!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":127207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Make-A-Move-On-A-Girl-You-Need-To-Do-It-The-RIGHT-Way-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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