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<\/p>\nNon hai fatto altro che giocare con lei. Non hai fatto altro che giocare a spingere e tirare con lei.<\/p>\n
It was this endless game that only you would probably never get tired of. The only problem is you sucked in a girl who didn\u2019t want to become a part of your game.<\/p>\n
Voleva solo te, ma era impossibile averti senza tutto il bagaglio che ti portavi dietro.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t enter this \u2018relationship\u2019 or whatever you choose to call it now so you\u2019d be able to project your insecurities onto her.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t hop on that ride so you could keep her just close enough to know you existed, but always at arm’s length so she never got too close.<\/p>\n
Whenever you saw things were getting serious, you\u2019d pull back. <\/b><\/p>\n
Non hai mai voluto metterti in gioco. Non avete mai voluto permettere a voi stessi di provare tutto ci\u00f2 che una relazione porta con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n
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It seemed as if you were only there for the good parts and small talk, but once things would get heated, once you actually needed to involve true emotions, you\u2019d bail.<\/p>\n
Hai sempre avuto l'abitudine di sparire nel momento pi\u00f9 inopportuno.<\/p>\n
The moment it appeared to her that you would actually come forward with how you truly felt, she\u2019d end up getting zero response from you in days.<\/p>\n
Come se foste scomparsi dalla faccia della terra.<\/p>\n
Whenever she got tired of your games or waiting for you, you\u2019d pull her back and start it all over again. <\/b><\/p>\n
The moment you saw her doubting you or questioning your \u2018relationship\u2019, you\u2019d pull her back into your little game that usually led her only to a dead end.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d start with your sweet talk once again and you\u2019d start appearing in front of her whenever you had the chance.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019d start doing everything just to make sure she got used to having you around one more time and when things eventually got too heated, you\u2019d once again perform your good old trick called \u2018pull away while you still can\u2019.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d leave her wondering what she did wrong this time.<\/p>\n
Sapevi che non avrebbe mai potuto provarci con qualcun altro mentre tu eri ancora in gioco. <\/b><\/p>\n
Aveva bisogno di una chiusura o di qualcosa che le dicesse che la vostra storia era finita.<\/p>\n
But you never gave her any of that. You got her hooked and that\u2019s how you always wanted to keep her. <\/p>\n
You knew she couldn\u2019t move on until someone said out loud that everything you had was over.<\/p>\n
Ma lei non ha mai potuto essere quella persona, non perch\u00e9 fosse troppo debole, ma perch\u00e9 non sapeva mai qual era la sua posizione nei tuoi confronti.<\/p>\n
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You never had the chance to truly try and that\u2019s what kept her for so long.<\/p>\n
Hai costruito un cliffhanger, una tensione che le diceva che le cose pi\u00f9 grandi erano in arrivo. Ma quei momenti non sono mai arrivati perch\u00e9 non sei mai stato pronto a impegnarti veramente con lei.<\/p>\n
Avevi solo bisogno che lei la pensasse cos\u00ec perch\u00e9 anche tu avevi bisogno di lei.<\/p>\n
Lei era il tuo rifugio sicuro. Era l'unica che c'era sempre per te, qualunque cosa accadesse.<\/p>\n
Sapevi di poter contare su di lei, giorno e notte. Era la tua persona, quella che tutti sperano di trovare nel corso della propria vita.<\/p>\n
Ma tu avevi troppa paura di fare un passo avanti e l'hai trascinata nel vortice della tua tossicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n
You know, you might be the bigger player here, but you\u2019re missing something.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019re missing the fact that as good as you are at this push and pull game, nothing you do will stop her once she decides to cut all strings with you.<\/p>\n
And although this might seem unrealistic to you, she\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n
She\u2019ll see that you\u2019re only a player full of promises you never intend to keep.<\/p>\n
Che resti solo quando le cose non sono serie, ma che scappi ogni volta che i sentimenti veri cominciano a venire a galla.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see she deserves more than you.<\/b><\/p>\n
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She deserves more than a guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants, more than someone who\u2019s afraid of real feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer before she realizes that there will be someone who\u2019ll give her everything she deserves and everything you\u2019ve been unwilling to give her.<\/p>\n
When she realizes there is someone else who\u2019s going to make a true effort and who\u2019s going to be there for her the same as she was for you.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t bother coming back once she realizes you are just an immature boy who’s too scared to commit.<\/p>\n
Because by the time you realize what you\u2019ve pushed away, all your efforts to pull her back will be in vain.<\/p>\n
She will have found someone who\u2019ll appreciate her the way you never knew.<\/p>\n
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