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<\/p>\nHe always texts me back within a minute. He\u2019s caring, thoughtful, and affectionate. He literally treats me like his queen. Damn, I think I\u2019m truly in love with him. <\/i><\/p>\n
These were my thoughts a few years ago when I was in a romantic relationship. I couldn\u2019t figure out for some time if I truly loved him or if I imagined that I was in love with him, so I made a list of things that I like about him.<\/p>\n
Ho dovuto leggere l'elenco un paio di volte per rendermi conto che all'epoca, ovviamente, non avevo idea di cosa fosse il vero amore. Pensavo che fosse vero amore solo per tutto quello che faceva per me e per il modo in cui mi trattava. Pensavo di essere innamorata di lui solo perch\u00e9 mi faceva sentire cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Ora capisco che non sono mai stata innamorata di lui, ma ero innamorata di come mi faceva sentire quando ero con lui.<\/b><\/p>\n
Does this even make sense to you? I hope it does because it makes perfect sense to me. I also think I\u2019m not the only one who has experienced this fake love filled with euphoria.<\/p>\n
Do you think you\u2019re going through the same thing? How can you know if you\u2019re truly in love with him?<\/p>\n
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Credo che abbiamo un problema collettivo per quanto riguarda la rappresentazione del falso amore e per questo do la colpa ai media. Un tempo credevo che il vero amore fosse esattamente come quello rappresentato nei film.<\/p>\n
L'aspetto \u00e8 simile a questo:<\/p>\n
A man is courting a woman. She\u2019s playing hard to get here and there, he\u2019s trying harder to win her, and after that, there are a couple of plot twists, but nothing serious because their love is stronger than anything in the world. <\/i><\/p>\n
Poi arrivano le scene in cui lui le serve la colazione a letto e le compra dei vestiti eleganti (se ha i soldi per farlo, ovviamente), discutono raramente e l'apice del loro amore sono le cene romantiche con candele profumate e musica rilassante in sottofondo. <\/i><\/p>\n
The funniest of all is the fact that we ALL fall for that every single time. We start imagining how it would feel to be in their place; to experience such a grandiose love, a.k.a., \u201ctrue love\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ma questo amore ha qualcosa a che fare con il vero amore? <\/b><\/p>\n
I don\u2019t think so. Instead of searching for true love in romantic movies, I should have read what William Shakespeare wrote. He wrote that the course of true love never runs smooth, and I think he, himself, had no idea how true this is.<\/p>\n
No, you\u2019re not truly in love with him just because he buys you everything you want, texts you always on time, or fulfils your every wish. Those romantic dinners are only an illusion and not a representation of what love truly is.<\/p>\n
The wise guy I\u2019m texting once said this: Non vi porterei mai al primo appuntamento in un ristorante o in una caffetteria. Questi posti ti vendono l'illusione di quanto ti sentirai bene con quella persona. Naturalmente, tutti si sentono bene quando bevono o mangiano in un ambiente elegante. <\/i><\/p>\n
Allora gli ho chiesto dove mi avrebbe portato per un appuntamento.<\/p>\n
Ha detto: To nature. Nature is the most realistic setting for couples and those who are dating. It can tell you a lot about the other person, whether they are constantly complaining about the heat and other random things or if they know how to enjoy and just be themselves. It doesn\u2019t create an illusion, and it gives you an opportunity to connect in the most intimate way. <\/i><\/p>\n
I was really impressed with his answer and I thought about it a lot. Here\u2019s what I concluded:<\/p>\n
Il vero amore \u00e8 come la natura. \u00c8 imprevedibile, selvaggio e potente. Non si pu\u00f2 definire o controllare. Si pu\u00f2 solo sentirlo, diventare un tutt'uno con esso e goderne.<\/b><\/p>\n
So, how do you know that you\u2019re truly in love with him?<\/p>\n
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Ricordate cosa ho detto all'inizio a proposito della lista di cose che amavo del mio ormai ex ragazzo? Il fatto che abbia fatto una lista di cose che amavo di lui \u00e8 una prova valida del fatto che non sono mai stata veramente innamorata di lui.<\/p>\n
If you \u201clove\u201d your partner just because of the things he does for you and how he makes you feel, then this is one of the <\/b>tell-tale signs it\u2019s not true love<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> No matter how weird it sounds, you know you\u2019re truly in love with someone if you have no idea why you love them in the first place.<\/p>\n You know everything about them from their imperfections and weirdest habits to their amazing romantic skills, yet still, you have no idea why you\u2019re in love with them. This is because love cannot be defined by something the other person does for you.<\/p>\n L'amore \u00e8 un continuo dare e ricevere. <\/b><\/p>\n L'amore \u00e8 discutere e scendere a compromessi.<\/b><\/p>\n L'amore \u00e8 fare errori e non ripeterli pi\u00f9.<\/b><\/p>\n Love is never perfect and it will never be (except in movies). You don\u2019t love someone just because of the things they do for you, but because of who you are and who they are when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n Il vero amore va oltre il materialismo, il piacere, le candele profumate e altre cose. Una delle undeniable signs that you\u2019re truly in love with him <\/a> \u00e8 la capacit\u00e0 di fidarsi di lui e di essere se stessi con lui.<\/p>\n True love is not only sharing happiness with each other, but it\u2019s also wiping each other\u2019s tears. True love is the feeling of empowerment when you fight together against the world\u2019s injustices and help each other cross obstacles.<\/p>\n You know you\u2019re truly in love with him when being in his arms feels like home. When you look him in the eyes and realize his happiness is a reflection of your own.<\/p>\n Yes, it\u2019s nice to be with someone who will do anything for you and who can make you happy in every aspect of your life. But, this is not a measure of true love.<\/p>\nSapete di amare veramente qualcuno se la sua felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante della vostra.<\/h2>\n
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