{"id":127457,"date":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127457"},"modified":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","slug":"il-vero-amore-e-impegnativo-ma-vale-la-pena-lottare-per-esso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-vero-amore-e-impegnativo-ma-vale-la-pena-lottare-per-esso\/","title":{"rendered":"Il vero amore \u00e8 impegnativo, ma vale la pena di lottare e di aspettare"},"content":{"rendered":"

No, il vero amore non busser\u00e0 alla vostra porta nel cuore della notte per svegliarvi da un brutto sogno. Il vero amore<\/a> will also not come to you when you\u2019re unprepared or not ready to experience it.<\/p>\n

When true love comes, chances are you will not recognize it at first. You will think that it\u2019s just another romance that is probably bound to fail in a couple of months. <\/p>\n

A un certo punto penserete di lasciar perdere, e allora scoprirete che per tutto questo tempo si \u00e8 trattato di vero amore.<\/p>\n

Misterioso. Ispirante. Potente. Trasformativo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Il vero amore \u00e8 tutto questo (e molto di pi\u00f9), ed \u00e8 per questo che vale la pena lottare e aspettare.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your past romantic endeavors discourage you!<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ashamed to say how many times I\u2019ve repeated this one sentence to myself: Non incontrer\u00f2 mai quello che fa per me; quel famoso uomo unicorno<\/a> che mi far\u00e0 dimenticare ogni singola storia d'amore del mio passato perch\u00e9, all'improvviso, diventer\u00e0 insignificante.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pensavo che il vero amore esistesse solo nei film romantici sdolcinati creati per far sentire le persone un po' meglio con se stesse e con le loro storie d'amore fallite. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve met men who were legit players, commitment-phobes, indecisive men, you name it. I\u2019ve been taken for granted, I\u2019ve been cheated on, and I\u2019ve been deluso dall'amore<\/b> . <\/p>\n

The last three words of the previous sentence are key. How can you even be disappointed in something that you haven\u2019t even experienced? <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that the main reason why people lose hope in true love is that they compare it to their previous romantic endeavors.<\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me, everything you\u2019ve experienced so far has nothing to do with real love. Don\u2019t allow your past romantic endeavors to influence your perspective on love.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make assumptions about something you have yet to experience. Also, I\u2019m not saying that it will be easy.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore \u00e8 un lavoro duro<\/a>, but it\u2019s TOTALLY worth it!<\/h3>\n

Ero abituata a pensare al concetto di vero amore come a qualcosa che accade all'improvviso, che ti travolge, che guarisce tutte le ferite e che ripristina la fiducia nell'umanit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019ve watched one too many romantic movies with \u201chappily ever afters,\u201d where the representation of love is anything but realistic. <\/p>\n

Now that I can proudly say I\u2019ve experienced (and am still experiencing) the magic of real love, I can tell you one thing: True love is not easy. It is hard work, but it\u2019s totally worth it!<\/b><\/p>\n

There will be times when you will think that there\u2019s no point in pursuing it any longer. You will be challenged in so many ways that you\u2019ll have to pinch yourself to make sure that you\u2019re not in a poorly directed comedy movie.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll go through so many ups and downs, question your beliefs, change your perspective, and so on. Do you know why? <\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 il vero amore fa tutto questo. \u00c8 divino, stimolante ed edificante. Lo sperimentate per un motivo, che va oltre la vostra volont\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 impegnativo di tutti<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

A molti di voi sembrer\u00e0 un po' contraddittorio, ma vi assicuro che \u00e8 la verit\u00e0. Una volta sperimentato l'amore incondizionato con la persona giusta per voi, attraverserete una serie di ostacoli e di sfide sia a livello personale che nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Prima di spiegarvi perch\u00e9, permettetemi di farvi un esempio. Pensate a Elizabeth Bennet e Mr. Darcy in <\/b>Orgoglio e pregiudizio<\/i><\/b>, Allie e Noah di <\/b>Il taccuino<\/i><\/b>,<\/b> o Peeta e Katniss di <\/b>Hunger Games.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Anche se ho detto che i film romantici non hanno nulla a che fare con le vere rappresentazioni dell'amore reale, alcuni lo fanno (in una certa misura, ovviamente). Tutti i film citati hanno avuto importanti colpi di scena e gli amanti sono stati sottoposti a molte sfide.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, non sarebbe realistico affermare che ogni singolo grande l'amore nel mondo reale \u00e8 una sfida in pi\u00f9<\/a>. Alcuni sono pi\u00f9 impegnativi, altri meno. La domanda \u00e8: Perch\u00e9? <\/b><\/p>\n

Ci sono due ragioni principali per cui questo amore \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 impegnativo di tutti:<\/p>\n

Questi legami profondi sono pieni di emozioni intense<\/h3>\n

Il vero amore \u00e8 estremamente passionale in ogni aspetto e senso del suo significato. Quando ci si lega a un'altra persona a un livello cos\u00ec profondo, si iniziano a provare emozioni intense. <\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa che anche le cose pi\u00f9 insignificanti possono trasformarsi in fiamme ardenti. Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 ci si preoccupa troppo. Sentite troppo intensamente. <\/p>\n

True love is the most challenging of all because it\u2019s addictive, intense, and also demanding. <\/b> Pi\u00f9 si impara a conoscersi, pi\u00f9 si diventa legati. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s so easy to get addicted to this euphoric feeling of something bigger than you. Something too divine and impossible to be described with words. <\/p>\n

Il ruolo della vostra anima gemella \u00e8 quello di aiutarvi a crescere<\/h3>\n

True love happens for a reason. There\u2019s a reason why you met that one special person at that one period in your life. Your soulmate\u2019s entrance into your life was not random. It happened because you\u2019re ready to grow, and they are there to help you with that.<\/p>\n

Your soulmate\u2019s role is to push you to your limits, challenge your perspectives, improve your way of thinking, and help you become who you\u2019re meant to be. <\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why true love is worth fighting for<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quando si sperimenta il vero amore, si entra in contatto con il proprio vero s\u00e9.<\/h2>\n

\"Primo<\/p>\n

Sarete sfidati e provocati per un motivo. Se dovessi scegliere il miglior sinonimo di vero amore, sarebbe EVOLUZIONE.<\/p>\n

Of course, love is not only about that. It consists of all those cozy moments we\u2019ve dreamed of experiencing with our loved one such as:<\/p>\n

 Looking deeply into their eyes and knowing what they\u2019re thinking even without asking them.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Pillow fights in the morning because someone has to get up first, and you don\u2019t want to be that person.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Conversazioni profonde e significative che invocheranno Aristotele, che si \u00e8 nascosto dentro di voi per tutto questo tempo.  <\/i><\/p>\n

Long cuddling sessions, heartfelt romantic gifts, you name it\u2026 <\/i><\/p>\n

Il vero amore \u00e8 tutto questo (e molto di pi\u00f9), ed \u00e8 per questo che vale la pena lottare e aspettare! <\/p>\n

It is about YOU and THEM getting in touch with your true selves. It\u2019s about motivating each other to do your best every day, sharing your deepest thoughts, contradicting each other, laughing together…<\/p>\n

True love is worth fighting and waiting for because it\u2019s the only way to experience true happiness. <\/b><\/p>\n

If you haven\u2019t experienced such divine love yet, let these in attesa di citazioni d'amore <\/a> vi dar\u00e0 una sbirciatina alla complessit\u00e0 e alla bellezza del vero amore: <\/p>\n

\u201cThe course of true love never did run smooth.\u201d \u2013 William Shakespeare <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cYou must learn to wait for the fulfillment of your visions.\u201d \u2013 Lailah Gifty Akita <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cLove is everything it\u2019s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.\u201d \u2013 Erica Jong <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWe must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.\u201d \u2013 Joseph Campbell <\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWhatever we are waiting for \u2014 peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance \u2014 it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.\u201d \u2013 Sarah Ban Breathnach <\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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