{"id":12759,"date":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12759"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","slug":"lettera-aperta-la-persona-che-ama-il-prossimo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-aperta-la-persona-che-ama-il-prossimo\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera aperta alla persona che l'ama Il prossimo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro chi la ama dopo,<\/p>\n

Prima di farla innamorare di te, devi sapere alcune cose. E dovete anche essere pronti a fare alcune cose. Dovete anche prepararvi ad alcune cose, perch\u00e9 lei non \u00e8 come gli altri.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not like other girls<\/a> and loving her won\u2019t be like anything you\u2019ve experienced so far. Someone needs to prepare you for this\u2014it might as well be me.<\/p>\n

See, this girl you want, she\u2019s been through a lot in her life. She\u2019s been bruised too many times. She\u2019s been taken for granted. She\u2019s been broken as well.<\/p>\n

Ha continuato a dare il massimo a ogni tentativo successivo, sperando che questa volta le cose prendessero la piega giusta. Ma ogni volta ha sperimentato un nuovo colpo di fulmine.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le persone che avrebbero dovuto amarla l'hanno spezzata. Le persone che avrebbero dovuto essere presenti l'hanno abbandonata. Quelli che avrebbero dovuto esserci hanno scelto di non farlo.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been disappointed one too many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non si \u00e8 mai aspettata dalle persone cose straordinarie. Si aspettava solo le cose che si meritava. Nella sua vita, sperava di ricevere almeno quanto dava. Ma a quanto pare era chiedere troppo.<\/p>\n

One would think that after too many disappointments she\u2019d start losing hope in everything. But she didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

She never allowed herself to change just because some people didn\u2019t bother to love her right. Instead, she always held on the hope that one day, someone will know. I pray you\u2019ll be that someone to her.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s guarded now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Una volta portava il suo cuore sulla manica. Ma il suo passato le ha insegnato a non farlo pi\u00f9. Le ha insegnato che non <\/a>tutti meritano il suo amore<\/a> e che non tutti la ameranno solo perch\u00e9 lei gli ha dato il suo cuore.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, invece di dare il suo cuore a chi lo desiderava, ha deciso di darlo a chi lo merita davvero.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been let down so many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Others made promises that they had no intentions of keeping. They just wanted to use her kindness and made her believe that they\u2019re willing to do everything for her like she was willing to do for them.<\/p>\n

But even that didn\u2019t change her.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non ha mai smesso di essere gentile o amorevole. Non ha mai smesso di essere ci\u00f2 che \u00e8. Ha un cuore pi\u00f9 grande dello spazio a sua disposizione e nulla di ci\u00f2 che le \u00e8 accaduto potrebbe trasformarla in una persona nuova.<\/p>\n

She knew that everything she\u2019s been through in her life was a lesson and she always watches for the signs carefully, trying to read what the universe is trying to teach her.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

She never gave up on love or on loving. She never got tired of the love she felt deep within and she\u2019s been walking on this Earth hoping to find someone who\u2019s going to love her right.<\/p>\n

Ma ha giurato di non dare il suo amore in questo modo. Giur\u00f2 di tenerlo per colui che meritava di riceverlo.<\/p>\n

Ama la destra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In her loving, there is no such thing as half-assed love. Whenever she loves, she gives it all in. She doesn\u2019t hold back and she\u2019s always honest. With her, you\u2019ll always know where you stand.<\/p>\n

Con lei, l'amore assume un significato completamente nuovo e il suo amore vi far\u00e0 sentire come se tutti gli amori precedenti non fossero veri.<\/p>\n

Ma arrivarci con lei \u00e8 difficile.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not going to be easy. You need to understand that you won\u2019t only need to prove your worth, but you\u2019ll also need to fight her past. She\u2019s been through much and she just wants to stop being so naive.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Ha costruito le sue mura in modo che solo coloro che vogliono veramente provare con lei siano in grado di abbatterle.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t afraid of pain or taking another hit for love, but this time it needs to be right. It needs to be amore vero<\/a>. Questa volta deve essere giusto.<\/p>\n

E anche se non sar\u00e0 facile, ne varr\u00e0 la pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me…every day.” -Nicholas Sparks<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Perhaps you\u2019ll need to try harder than you\u2019ve ever tried. Perhaps you\u2019ll want to give up on winning her over at times. But don\u2019t do it. You\u2019ll be glad you stuck by her side later.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Because if you stay and choose to fit, if you choose to be the one to knock her walls down and if you show her you\u2019ll be there even in the darkest days, she\u2019ll also choose to love you.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll choose to let go and to stop seeing you through the prism of those who hurt her before.<\/p>\n

And once she does that, she\u2019ll accept you the way you are. She\u2019ll choose to love you unconditionally and she\u2019ll choose to make you feel like you\u2019re the only man in this world.<\/p>\n

Once she lets go, you\u2019ll see what it means to have a good girl fall for you. You\u2019ll see how it feels to be accepted completely by another human being and you\u2019ll see what it feels to be loved just the way you are. And you\u2019ll never want to lose that.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Whoever loves her next, Before you make her fall for you, you need to know a few things. And you need to be ready to do a few things as well. You also need to prepare yourself for some things since she is not like others. She\u2019s not like other girls and loving her…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}