{"id":12778,"date":"2020-05-26T13:47:43","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T13:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12778"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:58","slug":"15-segni-di-una-relazione-queer-platonica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-di-una-relazione-queer-platonica\/","title":{"rendered":"15 segni di una relazione queer-platonica"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA queerplatonic (or quasiplatonic – QPP) relationship is a relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection (platonic) beyond what most people consider friendship.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Summarized, a queerplatonic relationship (QPR) is an intimate and intense relationship that doesn\u2019t have characteristics of either a friendship or a romantic relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c8 uno dei legami pi\u00f9 speciali e forti che si possano sperimentare nel corso della vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Such a relationship is asexual but it also breaks the conventions of \u2018solo amici<\/span><\/a>\u2019 and even if there was the possibility of sensual tension between the two, neither would ever act on it because it just seems wrong.<\/p>\n

Being in a queerplatonic relationship means being with someone who completes you on so many levels (that you didn\u2019t know even existed), which is simply incomparable with what you might have shared so far with your romantic partner in a romantic type of relationship.<\/p>\n

Com'\u00e8 una relazione queerplatonica?<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

There are only a few words which can explain the feeling after you enter a queerplatonic partnership and those are…<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve known each other for years and you can\u2019t imagine your life without your queerplatonic partner!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sono come una sorta di anima gemella per voi, una fiamma gemella asessuata e probabilmente non li guarderete mai in modo passionale perch\u00e9 la vostra relazione \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di questo!<\/p>\n

Both of you have sworn an emotional commitment and platonic love to one another. You’re best friends with non-romantic intentions.<\/p>\n

You understand each other\u2019s fears and emotions and sometimes you know what they are thinking without even asking them. You’ve formed a perfect queerplatonic partnership.<\/p>\n

While to outsiders, a queerplatonic relationship might seem confusing (because people have this tendency to always believe that there\u2019s something more romantic going on), this doesn\u2019t mean that you should immediately give up on this special connection you have with each other.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you choose to take part in romantic or non-romantic relationships, that’s your decision and no one else’s.<\/p>\n

We’re living in the 21st century and every person has the right to make a choice of their own, so why should you make excuses for having an aromantic relationship which is both romantic and aromantic at the same time?<\/p>\n

I know, it sounds pretty confusing but it’s real.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni queerplatoniche dipendono dall'orientamento romantico?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Le relazioni queerplatoniche, note anche come quasiplatoniche, non hanno confini o restrizioni.<\/p>\n

Those kinds of relationships don’t look at sexual orientation and they don’t respect any so-called romantic norms. These relationships are spontaneous and pure-hearted.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa importante \u00e8 la presenza di un legame emotivo e di affetto fisico.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Queerplatonic relationships don’t depend on polygamy or monogamy either, which brings us to the mention of queerplatonic marriage.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether a marriage is in the form of an intimate relationship or it’s an asexual community, these people are perfectly capable to raise children and form a healthy community.<\/p>\n

A healthy marriage doesn’t depend on romantic attraction, cuddling, holding hands or kissing in public.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, il matrimonio si basa sulla fiducia reciproca, sulla comunicazione e sul rispetto. Immaginatevi di essere sposati con una persona che ha tutte le  qualit\u00e0 di un <\/span>migliore amico<\/span>.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Remember that sharing a queerplatonic relationship with someone is a truly rare and amazing thing to experience and if you\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re in one now, check the following 15 signs that your friend or bestie is so much more than that!<\/p>\n

15 definite signs you’re in a queerplatonic relationship<\/em> <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re excited about spending time with them<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t think of a single time you said yes to their plans and didn\u2019t feel like it.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t feel like clubbing, you\u2019re still excited about spending time with them because you just know that your day will get so much better the moment you see them.<\/p>\n

When we talk about queerplatonic relationships, you don’t need romantic love to be able to feel the excitement before meeting the person you like.<\/p>\n

Because of your special bond, you even make sure to make time especially for them and if there isn\u2019t any time, you cancel other plans for them.<\/p>\n

Spesso ci si chiede se sia stato troppo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re together, everything feels so natural and normal.<\/p>\n

 <\/span>Condividete i vostri pensieri pi\u00f9 profondi<\/span><\/a> e paure anche nelle prime fasi dell'amicizia, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 giusto cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

When you’re with your person, you have a feeling that you’ve found a life partner regardless of whether you are a romantic couple or not.<\/p>\n

But once you\u2019re on your own, you wonder if that was a little bit too much to share.<\/p>\n

Ti capiscono quando nessun altro lo fa<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Tra tutti i tipi di relazione, questo \u00e8 quello che ha pi\u00f9 comprensione.<\/p>\n

When everyone else is looking at you like you\u2019re crazy, they seem to get you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so connected that there are no boundaries between the two of you and sometimes it feels like you can read each other\u2019s minds.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no awkward silence \u2013 ever<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you can spend hours talking and the moment you separate, you remember something you forgot to tell them.<\/p>\n

You have so much in common and you share so many things you\u2019re passionate about that you can discuss them for ages.<\/p>\n

And you feel so comfortable with each other that it just feels good to tell them everything that\u2019s on your mind, no matter how stupid, scary or messed up it sounds.<\/p>\n

Il silenzio totale o la mancanza di parole non \u00e8 un problema in questa comunit\u00e0 aromantica perch\u00e9 non si sente mai quel silenzio scomodo.<\/p>\n

It’s impossible to feel it when you’re with someone you’d trust your life with.<\/p>\n

They get you and you\u2019re not afraid to speak your mind because you know they won’t judge you.<\/p>\n

You complete each other\u2019s sentences<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Sometimes it freaks you out and sometimes it just feels amazing to have someone who\u2019s always on the same page with you.<\/p>\n

They know exactly what you mean at all times and you even find yourself finishing each other\u2019s sentences.<\/p>\n

Agli occhi degli estranei, sembra che abbiate sviluppato un linguaggio proprio, perch\u00e9 parlate velocemente e senza ulteriori spiegazioni, perch\u00e9 sapete semplicemente cosa sta pensando l'altro in quel momento.<\/p>\n

Spero che ora capiate che anche l'asessualit\u00e0 e le relazioni platoniche possono creare relazioni significative.<\/p>\n

It’s not all about getting into bed with somene and physical contact.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s slight jealousy when they\u2019re talking about another friend<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing more painful for a queerplatonic relationship than a third person.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il punto pi\u00f9 vulnerabile di ogni relazione, compresa questa.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like you don\u2019t want them to have any other friends besides you, it\u2019s just that you don\u2019t want them to talk about them in front of you.<\/p>\n

Ci si sente speciali e quando si parla di qualcun altro, questa sensazione svanisce per un po'.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t worry, this one goes both ways. They\u2019re geloso quando si parla di qualcun altro<\/span><\/a> anche.<\/p>\n

After all, a small dose of jealousy hasn’t harmed anyone so far.<\/p>\n

Con loro ci si sente completi<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Cerchiamo per tutta la vita qualcuno che ci renda completi, qualcuno che ci faccia sentire l'altra met\u00e0 di noi stessi.<\/p>\n

And you can feel just that with them, in a way you can\u2019t even feel with your own significant other.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not a sign that your relationship with your partner is not good enough or that there\u2019s something wrong with it.<\/p>\n

Consideratela una benedizione perch\u00e9 avete trovato qualcosa che molti di noi stanno ancora cercando.<\/p>\n

Altre persone esprimono i propri sospetti sulla vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

They either tell you that it\u2019s unhealthy to be that close to someone or that there\u2019s something more going on than friendship.<\/p>\n

They may call you out for having a crush on each other or for \u2018hiding your true emotions\u2019.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s because most people don\u2019t understand the kind of bond you share, simply because of its rarity.<\/p>\n

Seguite un consiglio: ignorate quello che vi dicono tutti e seguite il vostro istinto. Se volete le coccole, allora fatele.<\/p>\n

Se volete solo parlare, allora parlate. Fate quello che vi dice il cuore.<\/p>\n

Quando si vede il loro nome sullo schermo, ci si emoziona...<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

You feel like a little schoolgirl when you see that they texted you or they\u2019re calling you.<\/p>\n

You are eager to see what news they have to share with you, whether it\u2019s maybe something new you can do together or something new that happened to them since the last time you talked (and that was like, minutes ago).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you have a crush but then it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

They already know how you feel, so there\u2019s no need for you to explain<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Invece di cercare le parole giuste, il modo migliore per esprimere ci\u00f2 che si prova, loro lo sanno gi\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec bello avere qualcuno che sa come ci si sente, senza nemmeno dire una parola.<\/p>\n

And even when you\u2019re confused and you\u2019re not sure how you feel about something, when they put it into words, it makes sense instantly.<\/p>\n

Everything seems better when you\u2019re with them<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Everything seems less scary and you feel like you can conquer the world when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re down, they pull you up. When you\u2019re happy, they\u2019re happy with you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need expensive restaurants, clubs or pints of ice cream. You don’t need vacations or expensive trips.<\/p>\n

Hai solo bisogno della tua migliore amica per rendere tutto migliore e stare semplicemente al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n

When something happens, they\u2019re the first person who comes to mind<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s a bad or good thing, they\u2019re the first person you think of when something happens to you.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, you just want them nearby to share the news.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019re not there, you\u2019re constantly thinking about how they would have enjoyed it, how you wished they were there.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so close that you simply know how they think and what things they enjoy.<\/p>\n

Soprannomi strani<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Le relazioni queerplatoniche si basano su soprannomi strani che ci si d\u00e0 reciprocamente.<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re still in high school or in your late 40s, it\u2019s a way to tell everyone \u2018we\u2019re together\u2019.<\/p>\n

Those nicknames mean something to both of you but to everyone else they\u2019re just, well, weird.<\/p>\n

For example, you’ve probably called each other a zucchini or a squish. Trust me, it gets even weirder.<\/p>\n

Vi vestite allo stesso modo senza nemmeno provarci<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you read each other\u2019s minds, as you dress alike without even telling each other what you\u2019re going to wear.<\/p>\n

Condividete gli stessi gusti in fatto di vestiti, musica e praticamente tutto il resto, era solo questione di tempo quando avreste iniziato a vestirvi allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n

Vi piacete cos\u00ec tanto che inconsciamente comprate cose che ve lo ricordano, il che porta ad avere un guardaroba quasi identico a quello dell'altro.<\/p>\n

Sanno di cosa avete bisogno anche meglio di voi.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s walking around all day, clubbing all night or simply sharing silence, they know what you need at that moment, even when you don\u2019t know it yourself.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it just feels so good to be in a queerplatonic relationship because you make each other happy so naturally and without any fuss.<\/p>\n

Vi rendete felici a vicenda perch\u00e9 questo rende felice anche voi.<\/p>\n

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