{"id":12795,"date":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12795"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","slug":"15-caratteristiche-degli-uomini-emotivamente-non-disponibili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-caratteristiche-degli-uomini-emotivamente-non-disponibili\/","title":{"rendered":"15 caratteristiche degli uomini emotivamente non disponibili"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been in a relationship with someone evasive, who constantly makes excuses or simply never talks about their feelings, you know the pain of loving someone emotionally unavailable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alcuni usano le critiche, la manipolazione o la rabbia per creare una distanza tra voi due, che vi porta a essere distrutti, depressi o rifiutati.<\/p>\n

Parliamo spesso di uomini emotivamente non disponibili<\/a>ma purtroppo sempre pi\u00f9 spesso sempre pi\u00f9 donne stanno diventando emotivamente distaccate<\/a>, whether it\u2019s because of a past abusive relationship with their parents, a significant other or a friend.<\/p>\n

There are two types of unavailability\u2014there\u2019s the chronic one and the temporary one.<\/p>\n

L'indisponibilit\u00e0 cronica \u00e8 causata da una malattia mentale, da una dipendenza o da un'infanzia travagliata, mentre quella temporanea deriva dal fatto che qualcosa \u00e8 pi\u00f9 prioritario di una relazione. Potrebbe trattarsi della carriera, della libert\u00e0, dell'istruzione o della salute.<\/p>\n

Alcune persone hanno semplicemente paura di innamorarsi e di essere ferite di nuovo, rendendosi cos\u00ec emotivamente non disponibili.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s almost impossible to tell if it\u2019s something temporary that can be solved with time, or if it\u2019s chronic.<\/p>\n

If you have found yourself in a relationship where you feel like a constant giver, like you\u2019re screaming at the wall and no matter what you do, you just can\u2019t get through, you could be in a relationship con un uomo emotivamente distaccato<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ricordate ancora quando vi siete incontrati, quanto eravate estasiati e quanto credevate che lui potesse davvero diventare l'Unico.<\/p>\n

Ma con il passare del tempo vi siete resi conto che eravate innamorati di un perfetto sconosciuto e che non potevate fare nulla per cambiare la situazione.<\/p>\n

Per aiutarvi a comprendere meglio il problema e le caratteristiche degli uomini emotivamente non disponibili, abbiamo stilato un elenco di quelli pi\u00f9 comuni.<\/p>\n

If you recognize more than three characteristics in this list and you\u2019re hoping to have a stable relationship with the person in mind, maybe it\u2019s better to walk away before it\u2019s too late and you end up broken.<\/p>\n

Pieno di scuse<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi sembra che abbia sempre una scusa perfetta per ogni problema che si presenta.<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s him canceling your date night, him vanishing from the face of the earth or him non \u00e8 pronto a impegnarsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you ask him out, he\u2019s busy. If you want him to talk about your future, he\u2019s so exhausted from a long day at work.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not even sure if he\u2019s shy, uncomfortable or just a dickhead. And that\u2019s the catch; he needs you to stay as long as he wants you around.<\/p>\n

Scarsa comunicazione<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no way that he will tell you something intimate about himself unless he can benefit from it.<\/p>\n

If he tells you some sad story, if he shows you that he\u2019s vulnerable, that\u2019s because he knows he can catch you that way.<\/p>\n

Ma se notate che non si apre mai, che non avete mai avuto un legame profondo o conversazioni profonde che lo seguono, prestate molta attenzione alle sue altre caratteristiche.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe essere timido e non ancora a suo agio nell'aprirsi con voi, ma se il tempo passa e non cambia nulla, avete la vostra risposta.<\/p>\n

Se tende a sparire dopo quello che sembra essere un fine settimana molto intimo, avete la vostra risposta.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are by nature commitment-phobes, so he\u2019s not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship and good communication.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s arrogant<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Pay attention to the way he behaves toward other people when you\u2019re out in public.<\/p>\n

If he disrespects waiters or anyone he believes he has power over, that\u2019s a sign of pent-up anger that someday he could turn toward you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s cocky and arrogant because he lacks self-esteem. He\u2019s showing himself that he\u2019s better than them, that they serve him, not the other way around.<\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di sentirsi pi\u00f9 potente e pi\u00f9 in controllo di chiunque altro.<\/p>\n

Prima o poi inizier\u00e0 a trattarvi allo stesso modo, a controllarvi e a comportarsi come se vi possedesse.<\/p>\n

Ma nel momento in cui si annoia o nel momento in cui non soddisfate pi\u00f9 i suoi bisogni, si metter\u00e0 alla ricerca di una nuova vittima.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che ci vuole fiducia per essere intimi e impegnati.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s nothing but talk<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Men like this enjoy talking about themselves, about their success and everything they\u2019re proud of (which does not include any personal info).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with being proud of your own work and sharing that with someone you like but pay attention to the way he does it.<\/p>\n

For example, there\u2019s a huge difference between, \u201cThe web app I\u2019ve been working on is now one of the top three apps they\u2019re considering launching next month.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so thrilled and really hope it will work out,\u201d and the other version being, \u201cThey finally realized that I\u2019m the best out there, my app is going to break all the records.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why they even considered the other apps, they\u2019re so bad it hurts my skills just looking at them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ha il bisogno non solo di vantarsi di se stesso, ma anche di prendere in giro gli altri.<\/p>\n

Spesso si vanta di cose materiali, come il suo stipendio, la quantit\u00e0 di denaro che ha speso per le vacanze o per gli alcolici o qualsiasi altra cosa che sia davvero materialista.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his way or no way<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di uomo detesta i compromessi. Crede che la relazione (e il mondo intero) debba ruotare intorno a lui e a nessun altro.<\/p>\n

If he wants to stay home and you really want to go out to dinner somewhere, you\u2019ll stay home.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t even realize that you simply gave in to him, because he\u2019s cos\u00ec bravo a manipolare<\/a> e distorcendo le cose a suo vantaggio, che non avete altra scelta che assecondarlo.<\/p>\n

Once he sees that you\u2019re not easy to manipulate, that you\u2019re as strong as him mentally, don\u2019t think that he will try to fight it.<\/p>\n

He knows that he can find another victim in a matter of days, so he won\u2019t lose anymore precious time on you, because you no longer benefit him that much.<\/p>\n

Your strong-will makes him nervous and that\u2019s not good for him. Remember, this kind of a man only cares about himself.<\/p>\n

Atteggiamento vago<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

Un'altra caratteristica degli uomini emotivamente non disponibili \u00e8 un atteggiamento evasivo.<\/p>\n

Rifugge dal parlare dei suoi sentimenti, pensieri, sogni e progetti.<\/p>\n

Cambier\u00e0 completamente argomento una volta che glielo chiederete, oppure vi dar\u00e0 una risposta poco chiara, qualcosa solo per farvi smettere di insistere.<\/p>\n

Ma fate attenzione a questo segno: molti uomini hanno bisogno di tempo per aprirsi con qualcuno, per sentirsi a proprio agio nel parlare delle loro emozioni con voi, o addirittura per ammettere di averne.<\/p>\n

But if you notice that this pattern keeps repeating, that you keep getting vague answers or not getting answers at all, even if months go by, then you\u2019re dealing with an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

He will also be vague about small things, such as explaining why he canceled your date last minute, why he was one hour late to it or why he doesn\u2019t want to spend time with your friends or sometimes even with you.<\/p>\n

This kind of a man tends to avoid any explanations and conflicts on emotional issues and this is because he doesn\u2019t plan on staying around long enough so they would matter to him.<\/p>\n

Vi vedete solo alle sue condizioni<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

He is only around when he feels like it. You go out when he calls you, and you spend time together when he decides he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n

Si presenta spesso a casa vostra, ma mai quando lo invitate.<\/p>\n

If you initiate a date, he will be busy, he won\u2019t feel like it or he already has some other plans.<\/p>\n

If it happens that you need to talk to him about your feelings, that you need him when you\u2019re sad, he won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are takers, not givers. He\u2019s not interested in you, your feelings or anything that can\u2019t benefit him in any way.<\/p>\n

Quando ha bisogno di aiuto, quando ha bisogno del vostro sostegno e del vostro amore, non dubitate che si presenter\u00e0 alla vostra porta.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s the other way around, he will vanish from the face of the earth.<\/p>\n

Puttana dell'attenzione<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He just loves the spotlight. When it comes to him, there\u2019s no such thing as being modest or taking a step back and allowing someone else to be the center of attention.<\/p>\n

To be clear, there\u2019s nothing wrong with being confident and comfortable in certain social situations but his l'ego \u00e8 spesso cos\u00ec grande<\/a> che gli impedisce di essere modesto anche solo per un secondo.<\/p>\n

Mostrer\u00e0 una massiccia arroganza, gelosia, narcisismo e scarsa fiducia in se stesso.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not happy with himself and is constantly looking for validation, he won\u2019t be happy with you either.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that when man a measures his worth by the number of compliments he gets, that\u2019s a sure-fire sign he\u2019s not emotivamente maturo<\/a> and there\u2019s no way he can give you the emotional stability you need.<\/p>\n

Cercher\u00e0 costantemente i vostri difetti e si assicurer\u00e0 che sappiate che li ha trovati.<\/p>\n

Alla fine trover\u00e0 un modo per farvi crollare e togliervi la fiducia in voi stessi e tutto ci\u00f2 che prima amavate di voi stessi diventer\u00e0 una cosa che vi disturba.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, non parler\u00e0 mai di come vi sentite voi, ma considerer\u00e0 solo i suoi desideri.<\/p>\n

Ai suoi occhi, il mondo gira intorno a lui, non a voi o a chiunque altro. Se vedete questo schema nella vostra relazione, in cui lui non mostra interesse per i vostri problemi o sentimenti, il vostro uomo potrebbe essere emotivamente non disponibile.<\/p>\n

Cercatore di perfezione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Cercher\u00e0 un tuo difetto o un difetto caratteriale che possa dargli un motivo per lasciarti e passare alla relazione successiva.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to raise his hopes that you\u2019ll be different than any other of his partners, because he\u2019s trapped in a pit of self-criticism and a fear of commitment that he will only look for an excuse to walk away.<\/p>\n

Anche se vi adattate ai suoi standard di perfezione, la sua ansia crescer\u00e0 perch\u00e9 la paura di essere rifiutato lo spinge a trovare qualsiasi cosa che possa rivoltarsi contro di voi.<\/p>\n

It will be the way you\u2019re being too pushy, too much, too sensitive; eventually, he will turn your own love against you, just so he can escape it.<\/p>\n

Evita di etichettare la vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t even count how many times you\u2019ve asked him at what stage the two of you are, but you never got a clear answer.<\/p>\n

Was it ten times? Twenty? More? He\u2019s avoiding telling you what he thinks and the way he feels because he\u2019s not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to label your relationship because he wants you around as long as it suits him, and the moment he has had enough, that\u2019s the moment he will end it.<\/p>\n

Non importa cosa facciate, quanto vi sforziate o quanto vi preoccupiate per lui, a lui importa solo di se stesso e dei suoi bisogni.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him drag you along, because nothing is going to change. If he hasn\u2019t shown you a single sign that he truly cares about you, besides having you around for sex or boosting his ego, he\u2019s just not worth it.<\/p>\n

Una storia losca<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Una delle caratteristiche principali del uomini emotivamente non disponibili<\/a> \u00e8 la loro storia oscura.<\/p>\n

Potrebbero esserci alcuni traumi ed esperienze nel suo passato che lo hanno reso cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e0 nelle prime settimane di relazione si pu\u00f2 notare questo aspetto, soprattutto quando si parla delle sue relazioni passate.<\/p>\n

Sapere perch\u00e9 e come era single quando vi ha incontrato pu\u00f2 farvi capire la differenza tra il fatto che non sia emotivamente disponibile e che sia semplicemente ferito.<\/p>\n

If his past partner cheated on him, broke him or was the one who abused him and now he\u2019s taking things slowly with you, appreciate that and give him time (but be careful with that one if there are more than three signs on this list that apply to him).<\/p>\n

Ma se scoprite che \u00e8 stato lui a tradirvi, che \u00e8 stato lui a fare tutto questo, fate le valigie e andate via.<\/p>\n

Nessuno dovrebbe essere giudicato in base al proprio passato, ma se ha tradito una volta, pu\u00f2 farlo di nuovo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re looking for an emotionally stable relationship, for someone who is ready to commit, who is not afraid of loving you, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s not the guy for you.<\/p>\n

Il Principe Azzurro<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Look out for the men who are flirting with flattery. He\u2019s not being charming, he\u2019s simply \u2018doing\u2019 it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a well-rehearsed act, a way to seduce you. His focus is on short-term intimacy, because he prefers the chase to the catch.<\/p>\n

He may seem open, vulnerable and revealing, but you\u2019ll soon find yourself knowing basically nothing about him and wondering who the hell you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Se vi mostrate interessati a conoscerlo, cambier\u00e0 argomento con la stessa facilit\u00e0 con cui vi ha sedotto, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un maestro della manipolazione e del controllo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s so afraid of opening up that he will do anything to prevent it. If he runs out of options, he will simply walk away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not interested in getting to know you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un uomo emotivamente non disponibile vede le persone come oggetti e cerca di manipolarle per trarne vantaggio nella vita.<\/p>\n

He will only show interest in the sexual side of the relationship and won\u2019t do anything about getting to know you better.<\/p>\n

He sees everyone as a pawn in their own game, and pawns don\u2019t have faces or feelings for him.<\/p>\n

Parler\u00e0 solo di cose interessanti per lui e, purtroppo, la vostra personalit\u00e0, la vostra storia e il vostro passato non sono tra queste.<\/p>\n

Anche come amico, un uomo emotivamente non disponibile non mostrer\u00e0 alcun interesse per voi e parler\u00e0 solo di cose basilari con voi.<\/p>\n

Disonest\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Vi nasconder\u00e0 semplicemente la verit\u00e0, comprese alcune cose piuttosto importanti.<\/p>\n

Non solo vi nega l'amore, ma vi nega anche informazioni importanti.<\/p>\n

He may think that he\u2019s doing this for your own good, for his good or for whatever reason, thinking that he\u2019s protecting you from the harsh truth but what\u2019s really going on is that he\u2019s afraid of your reaction, of rejection or any potential conflict this could cause.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe nascondere qualcosa di grosso, come un'altra relazione, una malattia o una un passato oscuro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But he could simply be embarrassed by the way he was treated and that he did nothing about, or he could have had a tough upbringing where he was taught that no woman should know any of a man’s business.<\/p>\n

He might not see this as an issue, but you can sure help him with that. With one good ol\u2019 kick in the ass.<\/p>\n

Esplosione sessuale<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Diffidate degli uomini che desiderano una familiarit\u00e0 sessuale subito dopo l'incontro.<\/p>\n

Spesso gli uomini emotivamente indisponibili sono solo alla ricerca di un'altra cosa da conquistare, ma una volta che hanno te e la vostra relazione diventa pi\u00f9 intima, lui se ne andr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

O forse tutto ci\u00f2 che ti d\u00e0 \u00e8 il sesso e l'unica cosa che mostra interesse \u00e8 rotolarsi tra le lenzuola.<\/p>\n

They often do this either because they feel they have nothing else to offer or they\u2019re afraid of getting close to someone.<\/p>\n

Emotional unavailability appears after someone had a traumatic experience with a close person in their life, whether it\u2019s one of their parents or a past partner who was abusive in some kind of way.<\/p>\n

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