{"id":12954,"date":"2019-01-23T09:16:45","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T09:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12954"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:32:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:32:14","slug":"non-rinuncia-a-dare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-rinuncia-a-dare\/","title":{"rendered":"Non sono un'arrendevole, ma mi sto arrendendo con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Questa volta mi dimetto! Mi dimetto da tutto ci\u00f2 che voi rappresentate. Lascio il tuo quasi amore<\/a>, your messages that don\u2019t mean anything, your hugs and kisses that are fake. I have been fighting this battle for too long but I can\u2019t do this anymore.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be brave for the both of us. I can\u2019t love for both of us and I can\u2019t be the only one trying.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sono stanca dei tuoi segnali contrastanti. Sono stanca delle notti insonni ad aspettare che tu torni a casa. Sono stanca di perdere la mia pace interiore a causa tua. Sono stanca di metterti sempre al primo posto e di non ricevere mai l'amore che merito.<\/p>\n

Non sono il tipo di persona che di solito si arrende, ma questa volta mi arrendo con te. Rinuncio a noi.<\/strong><\/em> Rinuncio all'amore che c'era una volta, se mai si pu\u00f2 chiamare amore.<\/p>\n

Sono stanca che tu non mi faccia diventare la tua priorit\u00e0. Sono stanca che tu non mi metta al primo posto e che pensi che io vada bene solo per un certo periodo di tempo, ma non per sempre.<\/p>\n

I am tired of you thinking that I am not a perfect woman and most of all, I am tired of your attempts to change me. Can\u2019t you see that I am not ready to change?<\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see that I am not a hot mess but a beautiful disaster? And for your information, I will remain like this for as long as I want to.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to listen to my friends telling me that I am making a huge errore scegliendo voi.<\/a> I don\u2019t want them to tell me that they saw you with another woman even though you told me that you were working overtime.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want them to tell me anymore what kind of a man you are and that I had just made a chaos out of my life with you.<\/p>\n

Sono stanca delle loro storie che dicono che stare con te \u00e8 solo una perdita di tempo e che io merito molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che tu puoi darmi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that I am tired? Don\u2019t you see that my heart doesn\u2019t beat stronger when you are around anymore? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that your hugs and kisses don\u2019t mean anything to me?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t feel love anymore. What I feel now is indifference and I must admit that it hurts.<\/p>\n

It hurts to spend so much time with someone thinking that he is the man of your dreams but in the end, when you can\u2019t move from under his claws, realizing that all that he sold you in the name of love, was anything but that.<\/p>\n

Mi rifiuto di credere di essere difficile da amare. So di essere la donna pi\u00f9 facile da amare, ma solo se ho accanto l'uomo giusto.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

I refuse to change for a man who never made me feel good enough. I don\u2019t want to change for someone who always thought that I was not worthy and the one who would always hit on other girls just to have someone in case he lost me.<\/p>\n

It really doesn\u2019t make any sense to combattere per l'amore che solo uno di noi prova.<\/a><\/strong><\/em> Ho smesso di lottare per l'uomo che mi ignora ogni volta che gli mostro il mio amore.<\/p>\n

That is not what I deserve. I deserve so much more than that and I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve ever again.<\/p>\n

One of the worst parts of this relationship was holding onto something that I couldn\u2019t hold onto anymore.<\/p>\n

E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che con te pensavo di aver vinto la lotteria, ma la dolorosa verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ho toccato il fondo.<\/p>\n

And if I hadn\u2019t,maybe I would still be out there, fighting for you and the remains of our love.<\/p>\n

Ma ora, pi\u00f9 che mai, sono sicura di aver preso la decisione giusta nel lasciarti andare. Mi sto finalmente liberando da quel fardello che ho portato sulle mie spalle per cos\u00ec tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Questa volta mi arrendo con te perch\u00e9 tu ti sei arreso con me molto tempo fa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This time I quit! I quit everything that you represent. I quit your almost love, your messages that don\u2019t mean anything, your hugs and kisses that are fake. I have been fighting this battle for too long but I can\u2019t do this anymore. I can\u2019t be brave for the both of us. I can\u2019t love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":12980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/etienne-boulanger-305128.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12954"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12954\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}