{"id":13008,"date":"2020-08-23T12:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T12:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13008"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:53:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:53:21","slug":"lei-e-abbastanza-tu-hai-solo-paura-di-impegnarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lei-e-abbastanza-tu-hai-solo-paura-di-impegnarti\/","title":{"rendered":"Lei \u00e8 sufficiente, tu hai solo paura di impegnarti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non vedi quanto si sta impegnando?<\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see you\u2019re all that she ever hoped for?<\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see she\u2019s trying so hard just for you?<\/p>\n

Qualsiasi uomo sano di mente la sceglierebbe senza bisogno di pensarci due volte. Eppure eccoti qui, a lasciartela sfuggire.<\/p>\n

She knows she isn\u2019t perfect<\/a>, but she\u2019s trying.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She\u2019s trying to be good for you with every atom of her body, with her whole heart and her soul.<\/p>\n

She is restless and no matter how hard she hits your walls and bounces back, she\u2019ll always choose to try one more time.<\/p>\n

E un altro ancora. E un altro ancora, finch\u00e9 non ci riuscir\u00e0.<\/p>\n

The truth is she\u2019s more than enough. <\/strong><\/p>\n

She\u2019s more enough than any other before. And probably more than any other who might come after her. <\/strong><\/p>\n

But you\u2019re too much of an idiot to be able to acknowledge it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t you dare tell her or anyone else how she\u2019s not good enough. Don\u2019t you dare tear her self-confidence down because of your inner demons or your insecurities.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your fear of commitment make you lose a good girl. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow it to be something you\u2019ll regret the most when you look at your past.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She just wants someone who loves her enough to match her efforts. And that\u2019s it. Things are so simple with her. Why can\u2019t things be simple with you too?<\/p>\n

She fell for you hard and she\u2019s unable to hide it. Not that she\u2019d want to anyway.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s the type of girl who wears her heart on her sleeve and she isn\u2019t ashamed of it. She wasn\u2019t ashamed of falling for you.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t ashamed of loving you. But she will be ashamed of giving you her everything if you turn out to be worthy of nothing.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When on one hand she\u2019s trying her best to be enough for you, even though she\u2019d probably be more than enough for anyone else, you are out there fighting for a Guinness World Record in coming up with excuses. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that she\u2019s not worthy of you, you\u2019re not worthy of her<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I pray you don\u2019t mess up to the point where there is no going back. To the point where she doesn\u2019t stop looking at you the way she does.<\/p>\n

Quando smette di parlare di voi con ammirazione.<\/p>\n

Dove smette di visitare i vostri profili sui social media.<\/p>\n

Where her eyes don\u2019t light up when you enter the room anymore.<\/p>\n

Quando smetter\u00e0 di avere le farfalle nello stomaco al solo pensiero di te. Perch\u00e9 quando smetter\u00e0 con tutto questo, l'hai persa per sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid to let everything go. You\u2019re afraid you\u2019ll be missing out on too much if you commit to a single person.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared<\/a> delle aspettative e degli sforzi che si devono compiere in una relazione.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier that way, isn\u2019t it? To not commit, to not tie yourself to a single person, to not have anyone who expects anything from you.<\/p>\n

To wander from one person to another without ever making your heart fall for someone completely because you\u2019re scared someone might break it.<\/p>\n

But all this leads you to waking up in a cold bed, to feel lonely even in the most crowded room, to feel cold on the inside even if it\u2019s 100 degrees outside.<\/p>\n

Even though you don\u2019t see this now, it\u2019s the truth.<\/p>\n

If you continue seeing only her mistakes, she\u2019ll get tired. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you continue seeing her as someone who can\u2019t do anything right, or if you keep focusing on her imperfections, eventually she\u2019ll see herself as someone who\u2019s isn\u2019t good enough for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And she\u2019ll leave.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t leave because she doesn\u2019t want to be with you. She\u2019ll leave because you\u2019ll convince her with your behavior that she isn\u2019t good enough for you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll leave because she\u2019ll think in doing so, she\u2019s making a spot in your life for someone who\u2019s worthy of your love.<\/p>\n

Prima di rovinare la vita di entrambi, prima di spezzarla, fermatevi un attimo a pensare.<\/p>\n

Pensate a chi ha lottato per voi tutto il tempo. Pensate a chi vi \u00e8 stato vicino ogni volta che ne avete avuto bisogno. Pensa a chi ti conosce meglio di quanto tu conosca te stesso. Tutte le strade portano a lei.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just too damn blind to see it now.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019ll open your eyes eventually. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Eventually, you\u2019ll see her worth and how she was a one of a kind girl. I just hope it won\u2019t be too late.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because if you let her go, if you convince her she isn\u2019t good enough, she\u2019ll bear that cross as long as she lives.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll walk through her life thinking there is something wrong with her when in fact you only needed to bring up her flaws so you could have some kind of excuse to not commit to her.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In reality, she is perfect, but it\u2019s easier for you to mess her up than it is to stand up and face your demons.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t project your insecurities onto her.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t bring her down so that you would be able to keep yourself on the surface. She deserves more than that.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t ready, lasciarla andare<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Thank her for everything and set her on her way. Don\u2019t keep her at arm\u2019s length because that\u2019s killing her.<\/p>\n

Let her be happy with someone who\u2019ll know she\u2019s perfect the way she is, who won\u2019t see her as if she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

Let her find her own happiness if you aren\u2019t ready to choose her. Because there will be someone who\u2019ll appreciate her efforts and who\u2019ll be able to make her a priority.<\/p>\n

She wants it to be you, but truth be told, it doesn\u2019t have to be you. Sometimes God gives us the biggest gifts by not accepting our prayers.<\/p>\n

\"Lei<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Can\u2019t you see how hard she\u2019s trying? Can\u2019t you see you\u2019re all that she ever hoped for? Can\u2019t you see she\u2019s trying so hard just for you? Any sane man would choose her without needing to think about it twice. And yet here you are, letting her slip away. She knows she isn\u2019t perfect, but…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":110417,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13008","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Shes-Enough-Youre-Just-Scared-To-Commit-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13008","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13008"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13008\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}