{"id":13062,"date":"2020-09-13T08:41:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T08:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13062"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:05:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:05:28","slug":"si-e-capito-che-amare-significava-lasciarsi-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/si-e-capito-che-amare-significava-lasciarsi-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"A colei che ha capito che amare se stessa significava lasciarlo andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s hard, I understand. Letting go of someone you love, letting go of someone you want to spend your life with. But you had to do it. To save yourself, to save your sanity and heart, you had to. Because his love was tossico.<\/a><\/p>\n

Il suo amore era un veleno che ti stava lentamente uccidendo dall'interno. Il suo amore era un acido che stava sciogliendo le pareti della tua anima, fino a farti perdere completamente. Per amare te stessa, dovevi lasciarlo andare.<\/p>\n

Il suo amore vi \u00e8 costato il vostro valore.<\/strong> His words, his toxic behavior took away the smile off your face. His darkness took away the spark from your eyes\u2014that beautiful spark you had.<\/p>\n

The life in you, the passion of your soul. His unfaithful behavior cost you your sleep. You started doubting yourself, started thinking you\u2019re not enough.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not good enough, worthy enough. Oh, but you are, darling. You are more than enough and that\u2019s what frightened him. He\u2019s not worthy of you, so he destroyed you instead.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t ready to face the love, so he turned it against you. He used your love to break you, but not anymore. This time, you\u2019re giving your love to yourself. This time your love is going to heal you.<\/p>\n

His love cost you your confidence. His words still sting. They still burn under your skin. His words about how you\u2019re not pretty enough, how that woman over there is hot, how this woman over here is perfect.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ma non tu. Non sei mai stata tu. Non sei mai stata quella perfetta, non sei mai stata quella bella. Era cos\u00ec insicuro che ti ha manipolato facendoti credere di essere un dono del cielo.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019re blessed to have him. But, darling, it\u2019s other way around. He should be thanking heaven and all the gods that you came into his life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not you who\u2019s not good enough\u2014it\u2019s him who is too blind to see past his insecurities and fears. It\u2019s not you who is unlovable\u2014it\u2019s him who is incapable of loving.<\/p>\n

Il suo amore vi \u00e8 costato i vostri sogni.<\/strong> You can still hear his laugh, his voice telling you you\u2019re not capable enough of making your dreams come true.<\/p>\n

His voice demanding that you give up on them, so you can accompany him while he makes his come true. His voice making you doubt your abilities, making you think that you\u2019ll never make it. But who says you won\u2019t?<\/p>\n

Who gets to decide that you\u2019re not good enough? Who gets to decide that you\u2019re not strong enough? It\u2019s you, and you only.<\/p>\n

Il suo amore le \u00e8 costato la sanit\u00e0 mentale.<\/strong> His manipulations, guilt tripping and poison beautifully wrapped up in sweet words made you think that it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

That he really loves you, that you\u2019re to blame. That he\u2019s the One<\/a>, and you should try harder. That he\u2019s faithful and you should work harder to earn his trust.<\/p>\n

Love, no matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you love him, it\u2019ll never be enough. But you see that now. That\u2019s why you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n

Vedete che non siete mai stati voi. You see that it was his past that defined him and there\u2019s no reason it should define you too.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Capite che l'amore non \u00e8 cos\u00ec, anche se lui ha fatto di tutto per farvelo credere. Capite finalmente il vostro valore, dopo che lui ha cercato in tutti i modi di portarvelo via.<\/p>\n

E tu finalmente si \u00e8 reso conto che amare<\/a> se stessi significava lasciarlo andare.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s hard, I understand. Letting go of someone you love, letting go of someone you want to spend your life with. But you had to do it. To save yourself, to save your sanity and heart, you had to. Because his love was toxic. His love was poison that was slowly killing you from the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117522,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13062","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/To-The-One-Who-Realized-Loving-Herself-Meant-Letting-Him-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13062","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13062"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13062\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}