{"id":13108,"date":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13108"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","slug":"tesoro-non-lasciarti-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tesoro-non-lasciarti-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Tesoro, se non ti lasci andare, ti far\u00e0 solo pi\u00f9 male"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando ci perdiamo nella nostra mente, tendiamo a vedere persone che sono ancora l\u00ec, che non se ne vanno mai, che sono sempre in agguato negli angoli pi\u00f9 bui, che aspettano che li cerchiamo solo per inghiottirci.<\/p>\n

Vanno in giro cercando di tenerci nella loro vita, cercando di dimostrarci che non troveremo mai qualcuno come loro.<\/p>\n

Thank God we won’t.<\/p>\n

A causa di queste persone, dimentichiamo cosa significhi essere felici e cosa sia il vero amore. Dimentichiamo che non c'\u00e8 felicit\u00e0 nella sofferenza e non c'\u00e8 luce nell'abisso nero come la pece delle loro bugie.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sembra strano se lo dico cos\u00ec, lo so. Ma, mia cara, siediti per un po' e lasciaci parlare di lui.<\/p>\n

Vi siete conosciuti, come? \u00c8 entrato nella vostra vita facendo sembrare l'amore senza sforzo e come se nulla potesse mai andare storto tra voi due, perch\u00e9 sembrava pronto a impegnarsi con una persona bella come voi.<\/p>\n

So you went for it. You went all in. You didn’t leave anything for yourself, am I right? Everything that was you, was now his.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Che cosa ha fatto con i pezzi di te che ha tenuto? Si \u00e8 preso cura di voi? Vi ha fatto sentire sicuri e amati<\/a>? No. No, he didn’t.<\/p>\n

He made you cry yourself to sleep at night because you didn’t know where he was for days, just for you to find out that he was with other women, having his fun.<\/p>\n

Lui si stava divertendo mentre voi eravate sdraiati nel vostro letto, devastati e disperati, senza sapere cosa fare con quelle lacrime che continuavano a scorrere.<\/strong> You didn’t know what to do to make it all stop.<\/p>\n

He made you feel like you didn’t deserve the love and affection he gave you at the beginning, although you gave him all of the love you could, you gave him everything he could ever ask for.<\/p>\n

But it still wasn’t enough. There was nothing you could do to make him believe that loving you was the right choice.<\/p>\n

Ma la vera domanda \u00e8: perch\u00e9 ci state provando?<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 stai cercando di convincerlo che amarti sarebbe cos\u00ec bello? No. Smettila subito.<\/p>\n

Le persone della nostra vita che ci apprezzano e ci mostrano rispetto meritano di essere presenti. Non le persone che dobbiamo combattere solo perch\u00e9 vedano che siamo preziosi e premurosi.<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di inseguire qualcuno che continua a scappare da voi.<\/p>\n

Fermatevi. Tornare indietro. Andare via.<\/p>\n

Continuate ad andare avanti nella vostra vita<\/a> on your own two feet and don’t ever look back. I know that leaving will hurt. Trying to forget everything will hurt even more.<\/p>\n

But it can’t compare to the suffering that is going to occur if you stay even a minute longer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn’t deserve you in his life. The miserable life of him chasing other women just so he could satisfy his immature self isn’t something you should be paying attention to right now.<\/p>\n

But rather, pay yourself that attention. Find a way to be the center of your own little universe and stop staying with him, because you know he won’t change.<\/p>\n

He can’t change. He doesn’t want to change.<\/p>\n

He didn’t just break promises, he broke you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi ha distrutto al punto di non sapere che esiste una vita al di fuori della presa di una persona tossica come lui. Vi ha fatto credere che non sarete mai felici senza di lui.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che solo quando lo lascerete, troverete la vera gioia.<\/p>\n

That’s why you need to pack your stuff, take everything you have with you. Raccogliete i vostri pezzi rotti e cominciate ad andare avanti. Se resterete, vi far\u00e0 solo pi\u00f9 male.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Tesoro,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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