{"id":13122,"date":"2019-01-24T15:15:05","date_gmt":"2019-01-24T15:15:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13122"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:28:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:28:01","slug":"la-parte-peggiore-era-che-il-passato-faceva-ancora-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-parte-peggiore-era-che-il-passato-faceva-ancora-male\/","title":{"rendered":"La parte peggiore \u00e8 che conoscevi il suo passato e l'hai ferita lo stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 stata ferita troppe volte. \u00c8 stata spezzata, manipolata e ammaccata. Ha costruito muri cos\u00ec alti che nemmeno il sole \u00e8 riuscito a penetrare.<\/p>\n<p>Ma in qualche modo l'hai fatto. Hai superato quei muri come se non ci fossero mai stati. Le hai fatto tornare il sorriso sul viso come se non ci fossero mai state lacrime. Le hai mostrato che c'\u00e8 speranza e l'hai spaventata a morte.<\/p>\n<p>Ma si \u00e8 comunque fidata di te. Ha scelto te, ha scelto di combattere per te. E tu l'hai delusa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sapevi che<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/screw-making-think-shes-unlovable-one\/\"> si sentiva non amabile.<\/a><\/strong> And you showed her that she\u2019s not. You showed her that she\u2019s still amazing, that there\u2019s still fire in her eyes and that you want to play with it.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her that she\u2019s worth it and just when she felt like trusting you, you left. You got her hopes high only to let them crash, breaking the silence of her emptied heart once you left.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You knew what she\u2019s been through and you decided to let her go through it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sapeva quanto fosse spaventata.<\/strong> Come tremava la prima volta che siete usciti insieme. Come saltava per l'appartamento, ballava intorno al telefono quando ha ammesso per la prima volta il suo sentimento per te.<\/p>\n<p>Sapevi che aveva paura di guardare il telefono come se fosse una bomba detonata pronta a esplodere e a ucciderla. E cos\u00ec \u00e8 stato. L'hai amata solo finch\u00e9 ti faceva comodo e quando non \u00e8 stato pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec, te ne sei andato come se fossi uscito da un programma televisivo.<\/p>\n<p>Something that occupied you for a while, but you\u2019re bored now. <strong>Sapevi quanto avesse paura e non hai fatto altro che approfondire questa paura.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sapeva quanto dubitasse di se stessa.<\/strong> How much she doubted your love. She believed that no one can love her. She believed that she\u2019s too broken, too bruised, that she\u2019s too much.<\/p>\n<p>And when she found you is just when she realized that you were the missing piece of her. That maybe she\u2019s not too much, others were just too little, you left.<\/p>\n<p>L'hai spezzata ancora una volta, senza darle una spiegazione. Non dandole la possibilit\u00e0 di fare qualcosa per salvare il suo cuore gentile.<strong> You knew, but you just didn\u2019t care.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Conoscevi il suo passato. Sapevi che voleva che tu fossi il suo futuro.<\/strong> And not even that was enough for you to stop it in time\u2014before she fell for you, before she faced her fears to let you in.<\/p>\n<p>Volevi divertirti, volevi avere qualcuno e volevi che quel qualcuno fosse lei. Lei era solo un gioco per te, mentre tu eri molto di pi\u00f9 per lei.<\/p>\n<p>La lasciate fissare lo schermo vuoto. Le permetti di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/signs-he-loves-you-deeply\/\">innamorarsi profondamente e follemente<\/a>solo per annegarla in quell'amore. Le hai fatto credere che anche tu la ami, ma non l'hai mai fatto.<\/p>\n<p>And now you expect that she will be there once you realize what you\u2019ve lost. You expect her to wait for you until you\u2019ve had enough of the single life. You expect her to forgive you after you apologize.<\/p>\n<p>But, honey, no apology can mend a broken heart. No \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019 is stronger than \u2018I\u2019m leaving you\u2019. <strong>Nessuna canzone d'amore \u00e8 pi\u00f9 forte del silenzio in cui l'hai lasciata.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t act <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rania-naim\/2017\/12\/dont-be-surprised-when-she-no-longer-needs-you-you-taught-her-how-to-be-alone\/\" rel=\"noopener\">tutti sorpresi quando non ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di voi<\/a>; you taught her to be alone. Don\u2019t act surprised once she turns cold on you; you froze her to death a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>You were the lesson she will never forget. You taught her to build walls higher than ever before. You taught her to love herself the way you never knew. You taught her to be strong because she\u2019s no longer crying for you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s no longer scared of love\u2014she conquered it. She\u2019s no longer broken\u2014she built herself up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, don\u2019t you dare act surprised once she cuts you off for good. You taught her how to do it.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She\u2019s been hurt one too many times. She\u2019s been broken, manipulated and bruised. She built walls so damn high that not even the sun could shine through. But somehow, you did. You walked passed those walls like they were never there. You put a smile on her face like there were never tears on it&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":13124,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-206557.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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