{"id":13148,"date":"2020-01-25T09:56:35","date_gmt":"2020-01-25T09:56:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13148"},"modified":"2022-03-23T12:16:35","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T12:16:35","slug":"7-differenze-relazione-tossica-sana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-differenze-relazione-tossica-sana\/","title":{"rendered":"7 differenze tra una relazione tossica e una sana"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you start a romantic relationship, the last thing that is on your mind is if it will turn into a toxic one or if it will remain a healthy one. Some of us don\u2019t even see the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/15-red-flags-screaming-leave-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bandiere rosse<\/a>Quindi pensiamo che si tratti solo di una crisi che passer\u00e0 presto.<\/p>\n<p>Ma alla fine ci facciamo male e questo \u00e8 inevitabile in una relazione tossica. Quindi, se non siete sicuri di ci\u00f2 che dovreste tollerare in una relazione e di ci\u00f2 che dovreste tagliare nel momento stesso in cui lo vedete, ecco alcune cose a cui dovete prestare attenzione.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. Le persone che hanno una relazione sana hanno una grande fiducia reciproca.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>They don&#8217;t\u2019 freak out every time their partner goes out with their companions and they don\u2019t go crazy when someone hits on their partner. They know that their partner chose them and that there is nobody they would rather be with.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>People in toxic relationships check each other\u2019s personal stuff.<\/strong><\/em> They are so obsessed with cheating that they will probably check their partner\u2019s social media sites accounts and texts from their cell phone. The bad thing is that if they continue to act like that, they will soon burn out because that is not a good way to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. Le persone che hanno una relazione sana spingono il proprio partner a essere la versione migliore di se stesso.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>They feel happy when their partners reach their goals and when things go well in their lives. They are not jealous of each other and they are happy with the lives they\u2019ve created for themselves.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Le persone che hanno relazioni tossiche trattengono i loro partner.<\/strong><\/em> They are terrified of the idea that their partners succeed in their lives and that they are stuck somewhere in the middle. That\u2019s why they try to hold them back and to give them <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-seguite-mai-questi-13-esempi-di-cattivi-consigli-relazionali\/\">un cattivo consiglio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. Le persone che hanno una relazione sana hanno il loro tempo libero.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to be stuck with their partners all the time because they cherish the time they spend alone or with their friends and family. They know how that is important and they would never sacrifice it.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Persone in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-motivi-per-cui-e-difficile-allontanarsi-da-una-relazione-tossica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">relazioni tossiche<\/a> sono incollati l'uno all'altro. <\/strong><\/em>They are extremely insecure and they think that if they leave their partners alone that someone will steal them. They have low self-esteem and no matter whether they enjoy themselves in their partner\u2019s company or not, they will still be with them.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. Nelle relazioni sane le persone sono uguali.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-13165 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-504489-1.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo che tiene in braccio una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-504489-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-504489-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-504489-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 significa che entrambi possono fare quello che vogliono, ma allo stesso tempo fare attenzione a non ferire la persona amata. Si rispettano e si trattano come si deve.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>People in toxic relationships don\u2019t have equal status.<\/strong><\/em> Uno dei due \u00e8 sempre dominante e l'altro deve obbedire. Se il ragazzo \u00e8 dominante, la ragazza deve fare tutto ci\u00f2 che lui desidera e deve dimenticare le sue aspirazioni e i suoi desideri.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. Le persone che hanno relazioni sane comunicano apertamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>Even if there are bumps on the road, they try to handle them in a normal and civilized way. They don\u2019t want to fight with each other because they don\u2019t see the point in that so they talk openly about things that they are not comfortable with.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>People in toxic relationships don\u2019t communicate openly.<\/strong> <\/em>A loro piace fare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-trattamento-silenzioso-di-una-persona-la-dice-lunga-sul-suo-carattere\/\">trattamenti silenziosi<\/a> whenever things get bad. That is their way of handling problems. They simply act like children and don\u2019t want to make the first move to actually solve the problem.<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. Le persone che hanno una relazione sana si accettano completamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>Si rifiutano di cambiare l'altro perch\u00e9 si sono innamorati di quelle persone solo per come sono. Quindi sarebbe sbagliato cambiare qualcosa che ti piace davvero, giusto?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Le persone che hanno relazioni tossiche cercano un cambiamento costante.<\/strong><\/em> The truth is that people like this can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/yourtango\/20-things-your-must-accept-for-your-relationship-to-succeed_b_7139644.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">accettare completamente il proprio partner.<\/a> They would prefer it if they could mold them into something they like. They would like it if their partners would behave like puppets and they would be their masters. I probably don\u2019t have to explain why this kind of relationship is sick!<\/p>\n<h1><em><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>7. Le persone che hanno relazioni sane si sostengono a vicenda.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n<p>They think that their partner is their best friend at the same time and they want to be with them whenever they need it. No matter what happens, they will be first to help and to tell them that everything will be okay. They are true friends and they don\u2019t have problems going the extra mile for their loved ones.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Le persone che hanno relazioni tossiche non danno mai sostegno al proprio partner.<\/strong><\/em> A reason for this might be the lack of love and respect, but they still don\u2019t want to break up because they feel much safer when they have someone they can lean on. They think it is better to be in any kind of relationship than being alone. The final result is a person who is unhappy and who lost every hope in eternal love.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you start a romantic relationship, the last thing that is on your mind is if it will turn into a toxic one or if it will remain a healthy one. Some of us don\u2019t even see the red flags, so we think that we just have a crisis that will soon pass. But in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":13164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/uros-jovicic-422016.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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