{"id":13159,"date":"2020-06-25T10:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-06-25T10:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13159"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:01:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:01:01","slug":"ringraziamento-necessario","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ringraziamento-necessario\/","title":{"rendered":"Grazie per avermi deluso quando avevo pi\u00f9 bisogno di te"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t think I ever believed that I\u2019ll be ringraziandovi per il br<\/a>scuotendomi<\/a> e per essere stata la lezione pi\u00f9 dura che ho imparato.<\/p>\n

But, here I am. Thank you for doing exactly that because I wouldn\u2019t be here if it wasn\u2019t for you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d probably still believe in every word you say. I\u2019d probably still be stuck waiting for you and hoping that you\u2019ll choose me in the end.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d still be waiting for your approval, for your comfort and support. Thanks heavens, I\u2019m not anymore. And thank you for teaching me that.<\/p>\n

Grazie per non essere stato presente quando avevo bisogno che mi abbracciassi.<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 ho imparato a trattenermi.<\/p>\n

Quando gli uragani della vita ha cercato di farmi a pezzi<\/a>Non eri neanche lontanamente in grado di tenermi in posizione.<\/p>\n

I was torn apart between trusting you and hating you. I was torn apart between moving on and hoping you\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

Torn apart between growing up the hard way and still na\u00efvely believing in happy endings.<\/p>\n

E mi sono ritrovata a pezzi, senza nessuno al mio fianco che potesse aiutarmi a raccoglierli. Senza nessuno al mio fianco che tenesse i pezzi che avevo recuperato mentre cercavo quelli ancora perduti.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I did it on my own and for that reason, there\u2019s no way I\u2019ll ever let anyone take them away from me. I still believe in happy endings\u2014it\u2019s just that you\u2019re no longer part of them.<\/p>\n

Grazie per non esserci stati quando avevo bisogno del vostro sostegno.<\/strong> Quando avevo bisogno che mi tenessi la schiena, tu ti tenevi stretta la tua roba pretendendo la mia attenzione.<\/p>\n

Quando avevo bisogno che tu mi spingessi avanti, che mi dimostrassi che credevi in me quando io non credevo pi\u00f9 in me stesso, eri perso nel tuo universo.<\/p>\n

Quando avevo bisogno che tu tirassi fuori il meglio di me, hai cercato il peggio.<\/p>\n

I faced my first failures alone because you couldn\u2019t bear to be surrounded with so much negativity and sadness.<\/p>\n

I drowned in it until I learned how to swim. And now that I\u2019m a bloody shark, I have you to thank for that.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi abbandonato quando avevo bisogno del tuo conforto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

While tears were rolling down my face, you weren\u2019t the one to kiss them away\u2014you were the one who caused them.<\/p>\n

When the sound of my breaking heart deafened me, you weren\u2019t the one holding me\u2014you were wielding the hammer.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Grazie per essere stata la cosa peggiore che mi sia capitata perch\u00e9 dopo ho capito come essere la versione migliore di me.<\/p>\n

Grazie per non aver mai creduto in me. Mi ha spinto ai miei limiti.<\/strong> Quando te ne sei andato, ero infelice.<\/p>\n

When you left, I believed everything you said was true\u2014that I wasn\u2019t good enough, smart enough and abbastanza forte.<\/a><\/p>\n

I believed that if the one who loved me couldn\u2019t see the best in me, how could anyone else see it?<\/p>\n

But the truth is, you never really loved me. You couldn\u2019t see the best in me because you couldn\u2019t see it in yourself.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t love me, because you never learned how to love yourself in the first place.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi fatto dubitare di me stesso, perch\u00e9 non avevo altra scelta se non quella di migliorare il mio gioco. E, dannazione, come l'ho fatto bene.<\/p>\n

Grazie per non avermi mai amato quando ne avevo bisogno.<\/strong> Because, finally I understand that love is not about needing someone. It\u2019s about wanting them to be there.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need you anymore because I have myself. I don\u2019t need your support, your strength, because I have mine.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m stronger than I ever was and I love myself in a way I never thought I\u2019d be able to. And funnily enough, I have you to thank for that.<\/p>\n

Tu mi ha spogliato<\/a> di tutto ci\u00f2 che ero.<\/strong> Mi hai tolto il sorriso.<\/p>\n

Mi hai portato via la luce negli occhi, la mia forza, la mia passione. Non ero niente, un guscio vuoto che viveva alla giornata.<\/p>\n

Mi ci sono voluti mesi, anni per ricostruirmi.<\/p>\n

To fill up that shell with so much love, so much passion and so much fucking badassery that there\u2019s no way anyone can take it from me anymore.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m no longer afraid of life, because I\u2019m living it to the fullest. I\u2019m no longer afraid of love because I conquered it.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not afraid to let anyone in, to let down my walls, because I know better now.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not afraid to love someone because I love myself more.<\/p>\n

\"Grazie<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t think I ever believed that I\u2019ll be thanking you for breaking me and for being the toughest lesson I learned. But, here I am. Thank you for doing exactly that because I wouldn\u2019t be here if it wasn\u2019t for you. I\u2019d probably still believe in every word you say. I\u2019d probably still be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":109178,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Thank-You-For-Letting-Me-Down-When-I-Needed-You-The-Most-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13159\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109178"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}