{"id":133417,"date":"2021-08-23T13:54:47","date_gmt":"2021-08-23T13:54:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=133417"},"modified":"2022-05-24T09:15:06","modified_gmt":"2022-05-24T09:15:06","slug":"citazioni-sul-lutto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/citazioni-sul-lutto\/","title":{"rendered":"100 citazioni sulla perdita e sul lutto per guidarvi verso la guarigione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perdita di una persona cara<\/a> e dover andare avanti con la propria vita senza di loro \u00e8 una delle esperienze pi\u00f9 dolorose. Purtroppo \u00e8 un'esperienza che tutti dobbiamo affrontare prima o poi nella nostra vita.<\/p>\n

Non si pu\u00f2 fare nulla per evitare la perdita o cambiare il passato. Ma dovete trovare un modo per affrontarlo.<\/p>\n

Dovete imparare che il dolore e la tristezza fanno parte della vita. Che c'\u00e8 sempre una speranza, per quanto lontana possa sembrare la luce alla fine del tunnel.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che dovete capire che migliorerete. Non oggi e probabilmente non domani, ma un giorno, guarirete.<\/a><\/p>\n

This is why these grief quotes are here: to teach you all of these things. Read them to understand that you’re not alone in your pain!<\/strong><\/p>\n

25 citazioni ispirate sul dolore<\/h2>\n

The following quotes will help you realize that you’re not alone in your suffering, even though it might seem that way right now. Everyone has experienced similar pain, and here is what some intelligent people had to say about it.<\/p>\n

Once you read these quotes, you’ll get the impression that your best friend is talking to you \u2013 that’s how well each one of them will read your mind.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cWe were promised sufferings. They were part of the program. We were even told, \u2018Blessed are they that mourn,\u2019 and I accept it. I\u2019ve got nothing that I hadn\u2019t bargained for. Of course, it is different when the thing happens to oneself, not to others, and in reality, not imagination.\u201d \u2014 C.S. Lewis<\/p>\n

2. \u201cGod gave us memory so that we might have roses in December.\u201d \u2014 J.M. Barrie<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. \u201cThe reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not \u2018get over\u2019 la perdita di una persona cara<\/a>; you will learn to live with it. You will heal, and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again, but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.\u201d \u2014 Elisabeth Kubler-Ross<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWe bereaved are not alone. We belong to the largest company in all the world \u2014 the company of those who have known suffering.\u201d \u2013 Helen Keller<\/p>\n

5. \u201cDeep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.\u201d \u2014 Elizabeth Gilbert<\/p>\n

6. \u201cEvery man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not, and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.\u201d \u2015 Henry Wadsworth Longfellow<\/p>\n

7. \u201cAnd when people try to minimize your pain, they are doing you a disservice. And when you try to minimize your own pain, you\u2019re doing yourself a disservice. Don\u2019t do that. The truth is that it hurts because it\u2019s real. It hurts because it mattered. And that\u2019s an important thing to acknowledge to yourself. But that doesn\u2019t mean that it won\u2019t end, that it won\u2019t get better. Because it will.\u201d \u2014 John Green<\/p>\n

8. \u201cOnly people who are capable of loving strongly can also suffer great sorrow, but this same necessity of loving serves to counteract their grief and heals them.\u201d \u2014 Leo Tolstoy<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. \u201cWithout you in my arms, I feel an emptiness in my soul. I find myself searching the crowds for your face \u2014 I know it’s an impossibility, but I cannot help myself.\u201d \u2014 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n

10. \u201cWell, everyone can master a grief but he that has it.\u201d \u2014 William Shakespeare<\/p>\n

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11. \u201cYou will lose someone you can\u2019t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn\u2019t seal back up. And you come through. It\u2019s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly \u2013 that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.\u201d \u2014 Anne Lamott<\/p>\n

12. \u201cEvery one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That\u2019s part of what it means to be alive.\u201d \u2014 Haruki Murakami<\/p>\n

13. \u201cGive sorrow words; the grief that does not speak knits up the o-er wrought heart and bids it break.\u201d \u2014 William Shakespeare<\/p>\n

14. \u201cGrief can’t be shared. Everyone carries it alone; his own burden in his own way.\u201d \u2014 Anne Morrow Lindbergh<\/p>\n

15. \u201cGrief is a most peculiar thing; we\u2019re so helpless in the face of it. It\u2019s like a window that will simply open of its own accord. The room grows cold, and we can do nothing but shiver. But it opens a little less each time, and a little less, and one day, we wonder what has become of it.\u201d \u2014 Arthur Golden<\/strong><\/p>\n

16. \u201cIt’s so curious: one can resist tears and ‘behave’ very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer… and everything collapses.\u201d \u2014 Colette<\/p>\n

17. \u201cThere is no point treating a persona depressa<\/a> as though she were just feeling sad, saying, ‘There now, hang on, you’ll get over it.’ Sadness is more or less like a head cold \u2013 with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.\u201d \u2015 Barbara Kingsolver, The Bean Trees<\/p>\n

18. \u201dSee, as much as you want to hold on to the bitter sore memory that someone has left this world, you are still in it. And the very act of living is a tide: at first, it seems to make no difference at all, and then one day you look down and see how much pain has eroded.\u201d \u2015 Jodi Picoult<\/p>\n

19. \u201dGrief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy, you must have somebody to divide it with.\u201d \u2015 Mark Twain<\/p>\n

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20. \u201cIn times of grief and sorrow, I will hold you and rock you and take your grief and make it my own. When you cry, I cry, and when you hurt, I hurt. And together, we will try to hold back the floods to tears and despair and make it through the potholed street of life.\u201d \u2014 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n

21. \u201cWhen it is darkest, we can see the stars.\u201d \u2014 Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/strong><\/p>\n

22. \u201cThere are nessun lieto fine<\/a>; endings are the saddest part. So just give me a happy middle, and a very happy start.\u201d \u2014 Shel Silverstein<\/p>\n

23. \u201cStop punishing yourself for being someone with a heart. You cannot protect yourself from suffering. To live is to grieve. You are not protecting yourself by shutting yourself off from the world. You are limiting yourself.\u201d \u2015 Leigh Bardugo, King of Scars<\/p>\n

24. \u201cEveryone grieves in different ways. For some, it could take longer or shorter. I do know it never disappears. An ember still smolders inside me. Most days, I don\u2019t notice it, but, out of the blue, it\u2019ll flare to life.\u201d \u2015 Maria V. Snyder, Storm Glass<\/strong><\/p>\n

25. \u201cThe trauma said, \u2018Don\u2019t write these poems. Nobody wants to hear you cry about the grief inside your bones.\u2019\u201d \u2015 Andrea Gibson, The Madness Vase<\/p>\n

15 citazioni motivazionali sul lutto<\/h2>\n

When you’re grieving, you need someone to tell you that there is a point behind your pain. Most importantly: you need someone to promise you that someday, you’ll be okay. These quotes will do exactly that:<\/p>\n

1. \u201cI don\u2019t think of all the misery but of all the beauty that remains.\u201d \u2015 Anne Frank<\/p>\n

2. \u201cLife is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.\u201d \u2015 Orson Scott Card, L'ombra del gigante<\/em><\/p>\n

3. \u201cAs far as you can avoid it, do not give grief to anyone. Never inflict your rage on another. If you hope for eternal rest, feel the pain yourself; but don\u2019t hurt others.\u201d \u2015 Omar Khayy\u00e1m, Quartine<\/em><\/p>\n

4. \u201cGrief is so human, and it hits everyone at one point or another, at least, in their lives. If you love, you will grieve, and that\u2019s just given.\u201d \u2015 Kay Redfield Jamison<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. \u201dGrief is the last act of love we can give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love.\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

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6. \u201cFire tests gold. Suffering tests brave men.\u201d \u2015 Seneca<\/p>\n

7. \u201cTears are the silent language of grief.\u201d \u2015 Voltaire<\/p>\n

8. \u201dSome things in life cannot be fixed. They can only be carried.\u201d \u2015 Megan Devine<\/p>\n

9. \u201cNever let the salt of your tears be tasteless in grief.\u201d \u2015 Munia Khan<\/p>\n

10. \u201cI know now that we never get over great losses; we absorb them, and they carve us into different, often kinder, creatures…We tell the story to get them back, to capture the traces of footfalls through the snow.\u201d \u2015 Gail Caldwell, Let’s Take the Long Way Home: A Memoir of Friendship<\/em><\/p>\n

11. \u201cWe remember shooting stars for their shine, not the darkness of the night. Trying to wish away grief, extinguishes those memories that glow so bright.\u201d \u2015 Julie Abe, Eva Evergreen, strega semi-magica<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

12. \u201cWhen grief overtakes us, we lose all interest, reason, and sense of belongingness. But it is equally true that life doesn’t stop.” \u2015 Sushant Changotra, Ora ti conosco<\/em><\/p>\n

13. \u201cNever compare your grief. You \u2013 and only you walk your path.\u201d \u2015 Nathalie Himmelrich, Genitori in lutto: Sopravvivere alla perdita come coppia<\/em><\/p>\n

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14. \u201cGrief, I\u2019ve learned, is really just love. It\u2019s all the love you want to give but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.\u201d \u2015 Jamie Anderson<\/p>\n

15. \u201cGrief is a step towards strength because it allows you to be porous and take everything in and have it transform you. What will sit within you is despairing, but at least, it\u2019s feeling. You\u2019re not numb. Grief is sort of the allowance of feeling.\u201d \u2015 Carrie Brownstein<\/strong><\/p>\n

15 Citazioni sul lutto che guarisce<\/h2>\n

While you’re surrounded by sadness, you’re in an abyss. For you, healing seems like an task. Well, the following quotes will change your mind:<\/p>\n

1. \u201cGrief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life\u2019s search for love and wisdom.\u201d \u2014 Rumi<\/p>\n

2. \u201cGrief can be a burden but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.\u201d \u2014 Sarah Dessen<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. \u201cYou will survive, and you will find purpose in the chaos. Moving on doesn’t mean lasciarsi andare<\/a>.\u201d \u2014 Mary VanHaute<\/p>\n

4. \u201cThey say il tempo guarisce tutte le ferite<\/a>, but that presumes the source of the grief is finite\u201d \u2015 Cassandra Clare, Il Principe a orologeria<\/em><\/p>\n

5. \u201cAnd perhaps, there is a limit to the grieving that the human heart can do. As when one adds salt to a tumbler of water, there comes a point where simply no more will be absorbed.\u201d \u2015 Sarah Waters, Il piccolo straniero<\/em><\/p>\n

6. \u201cHealing from trauma is not an intellectual exercise. You cannot simply think your way out of it. Your healing requires your full participation: spirit, heart, mind, and body.\u201d \u2015 Thema Bryant-Davis<\/p>\n

7. \u201cIt has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’<\/a> I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.\u201d \u2015 Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. \u201cBut pain’s like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There’s no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface.\u201d \u2015 Katie Kacvinsky<\/p>\n

9. \u201cHistory dressed up in the glow of love\u2019s kiss turned grief into beauty.\u201d \u2015 Aberjhani, Il fiume dei sogni alati<\/em><\/p>\n

10. \"Dolore emotivo<\/a> cannot kill you, but running from it can. Allow. Embrace. Let yourself feel. Let yourself heal.\u201d \u2015 Vironika Tugaleva<\/strong><\/p>\n

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11. \u201cWe heal up through being loved and through loving others. We don’t heal by forming a secret society of one \u2013 by assessing about the only other ‘one’ we might admit, and being doomed to disappointment.\u201d \u2015 Jeanette Winterson, Perch\u00e9 essere felici quando si pu\u00f2 essere normali?<\/em><\/p>\n

12. \u201cBefore you heal someone, ask him if he\u2019s willing to give up the things that made him sick.\u201d \u2015 Hippocrates<\/p>\n

13. \u201cYou must let the pain visit. You must allow it to teach you. You must not allow it overstay.\u201d \u2015 Ijeoma Umebinyuo<\/p>\n

14. \u201cHolding onto an experience we had in the past is like dragging a corpse around.\u201d \u2015 Joseph Goldstein<\/strong><\/p>\n

15. \u201dIt\u2019s not all about healing yourself; it\u2019s just as importantly about Lasciarsi guarire<\/a>.\u201d \u2015 Terri Guillemets<\/p>\n

10 citazioni di conforto sul lutto<\/h2>\n

I know you feel like you’re at the bottom. Nevertheless, if you read on, you’ll see that you actually have the strength to rise from the ashes.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cSad hurts, but it’s a healthy feeling. It is a necessary thing to feel. Depression is very different.\u201d \u2015 J.K. Rowling<\/p>\n

2. \u201cI will not say: Do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.\u201d \u2015 J.R.R. Tolkien<\/p>\n

3. \u201cTears shed for another person are not a sign of weakness. They are a segno di un cuore puro<\/a>.\u201d \u2014 Jose N. Harris<\/p>\n

4. \u201cThe only people who think there’s a time limit for grief have never lost a piece of their heart\u201d \u2014 Unknown<\/p>\n

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5. “Tears have a wisdom all their own. They come when a person has relaxed enough to let go and work through his sorrow. They are the natural bleeding of an emotional wound, carrying the poison out of the system. Here lies the road to recovery.” \u2014 F. Alexander Magoun<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. \u201cThe darker the night, the brighter the stars. The deeper the grief, the closer is God!\u201d \u2014 Fyodor Dostoevsky<\/p>\n

7. \u201cIt amazes me what humans can do, even when streams are flowing down their faces, and they stagger on, coughing and searching, and finding.\u201d \u2015 Markus Zusak, Il ladro di libri<\/em><\/p>\n

8. \u201cShe heard him mutter, ‘Can you take away this grief?’
\n‘I’m sorry,’ she replied. ‘Everyone asks me. And I would not do so even if I knew how. It belongs to you. Only time and tears take away grief; that is what they are for.\u201d \u2015 Terry Pratchett, Indosser\u00f2 la mezzanotte<\/em><\/p>\n

9. \u201cThe good news: it is possible to use suffering as a call for wider awakening in the world.\u201d \u2015 Eckhart Tolle<\/p>\n

10. \u201cGiven the choice between the experience of pain and nothing, I would choose pain.\u201d \u2015 William Faulkner<\/strong><\/p>\n

15 Citazioni sulla perdita e sul dolore<\/h2>\n

Gestire il lutto e la perdita nel modo giusto \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 difficili della vita. Purtroppo, tutti noi dobbiamo affrontare questo processo di lutto<\/a> prima o poi.<\/p>\n

Quando sentire la mancanza di qualcuno in cielo<\/a>, that’s a whole different type of heartbreak.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cAnd when great souls die, after a period, peace blooms, slowly and always irregularly. Spaces fill with a kind of soothing electric vibration. Our senses, restored, never to be the same, whisper to us. They existed. We can be. Be and be better. For they existed.\u201d \u2014 Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

2. \u201cSome people, they can\u2019t just move on<\/a>, you know, mourn and cry and be done with it. Or at least seem to be. But for me\u2026 I don\u2019t know. I didn\u2019t want to fix it, to forget. It wasn\u2019t something that was broken. It\u2019s just\u2026something that happened. And like that hole, I\u2019m just finding ways, every day, of working around it. Respecting and remembering and getting on at the same time.\u201d \u2015 Sarah Dessen<\/p>\n

3. \u201cIf there ever comes a day when we can\u2019t be together, keep me in your heart. I\u2019ll stay there forever.\u201d \u2014 A.A. Milne, Winnie the Pooh<\/em><\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhen someone you love dies, and you’re not expecting it, you don’t lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time \u2014 the way the mail stops coming, and her scent fades from the pillows and even from the clothes in her closet and drawers. Gradually, you accumulate the parts of her that are gone. Just when the day comes \u2014 when there’s a particular missing part that overwhelms you with the feeling that she’s gone, forever \u2014 there comes another day, and another specifically missing part.\u201d \u2014 John Irving<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. \u201cNow, there is one thing I can tell you: You will enjoy certain pleasures you would not fathom now. When you still had your mother, you often thought of the days when you would have her no longer. Now you will often think of days past when you had her. When you are used to this horrible thing that they will forever be cast into the past, then you will gently feel her revive, returning to take her place, her entire place, beside you. At the present time, this is not yet possible. Let yourself be inert; wait till the incomprehensible power \u2026 that has broken you restores you a little. I say a little, for henceforth, you will always keep something broken about you. Tell yourself this, too, for it is a kind of pleasure to know that you will never love less, that you will never be consoled, that you will constantly remember more and more.\u201d \u2014 Marcel Proust<\/p>\n

6. \u201cTo live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.\u201d \u2014 Thomas Campbell<\/strong><\/p>\n

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7. \u201cThere is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.\u201d \u2014 Washington Irving<\/p>\n

8. \u201dGrief is like the ocean; it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.\u201d \u2014 Vicki Harrison<\/p>\n

9. \u201cDo not stand at my grave and weep,
\nNon ci sono, non dormo.
\nSono in mezzo a mille venti che soffiano,
\nIo sono la neve che cade dolcemente.
\nIo sono la dolce pioggia,
\nSono i campi di grano che maturano.
\nSono nel silenzio del mattino,
\nSono nella corsa leggiadra
\nDi bellissimi uccelli in volo,
\nSono la luce delle stelle della notte.
\nSono nei fiori che sbocciano,
\nSono in una stanza tranquilla.
\nSono negli uccelli che cantano,
\nSono in ogni cosa bella.
\nNon stare davanti alla mia tomba con un senso di abbandono
\nI am not there. I have not left.\u201d
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10. \u201cThe whole world can become the enemy when you lose what you love.\u201d \u2015 Kristina McMorris, Ponte di foglie scarlatte<\/em><\/p>\n

11. \u201cYou attend the funeral. You bid the dead farewell. You grieve. Then you continue with your life. And at times, the fact of her absence will hit you like a blow to the chest, and you will weep. But this will happen less and less as time goes on. She is dead. You are alive. So live.\u201d \u2015 Neil Gaiman, Favole e riflessioni<\/em><\/p>\n

12. \u201cI think perhaps I will always hold a candle for you \u2013 even until it burns my hand.
\nAnd when the light has long since gone \u2026 I will be there in the darkness holding what remains, quite simply because I cannot let go.\u201d \u2015 Ranata Suzuki<\/p>\n

13. \u201cSee, as much as you want to hold on to the bitter sore memory that someone has left this world, you are still in it. And the very act of living is a tide: at first, it seems to make no difference at all, and then one day, you look down and see how much pain has eroded.\u201d \u2015 Jodi Picoult, My Sister’s Keeper<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

14. \u201cWhen someone is mourning, there is absolutely nothing you could say to alleviate their pain.
\nJust sit with them, hold their hands, and be present and compassionate.\u201d \u2015 Anoir Ou-Chad<\/p>\n

15. \u201cI was scared of living a life not worth the living. Why did I deserve to live when my sister had died? I was responsible now for two lives, my sister’s and my own, and, damn, I’d better live well.\u201d \u2015 Nina Sankovitch, Tolstoj e la sedia viola: Il mio anno di lettura magica<\/em><\/p>\n

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15 Citazioni sul dolore per la tua mancanza<\/h2>\n

Si dice che la mancanza di qualcuno sia probabilmente il sentimento pi\u00f9 forte in assoluto. Ti consuma e ti travolge al punto da diventare l'unica cosa a cui riesci a pensare.<\/p>\n

Here are some inspirational lines about the desperation you’re going through.<\/p>\n

1. \u201dI should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone \u2013 you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence.\u201d \u2015 Alyson Noel<\/p>\n

2. \u201dI miss you. A little too much, a little too often, and a little bit more every day.\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

3. \u201dNo matter how long it\u2019s been, there are times when it suddenly becomes harder to breathe.\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhen you miss your loved one, remember the beautiful moments you\u2019ve had with them. And when your heart swells, cuddle your pillow and let your tears soothe the pain.\u201d \u2015 Anoir Ou-Chad<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. \u201cMi manchi<\/a> in ways that not even words can understand.\u201d \u2015 Gemma Tray<\/p>\n

6. \u201cIn French, you don\u2019t really say \u2018I miss you,\u2019 you say \u2018Tu me manques,\u2019 which means \u2018You are missing from me.\u2019\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

7. \u201cMi manchi<\/a> a little, I guess you could say, a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day.\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

8. \u201cMissing someone is a part of loving them. If you\u2019re never apart, you\u2019ll never really know how strong your love is.\u201d \u2015 Unknown<\/p>\n

9. \u201cI have late-night conversations with the moon. He tells me about the sun, and I tell him about you.\u201d \u2015 S.L. Gray<\/p>\n

10. “You can love someone so much…But you can never love people as much as si possono perdere<\/a>.” \u2014 John Green<\/strong><\/p>\n

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11. \u201cThat\u2019s the worst way to miss somebody. When they\u2019re right beside you, and you miss them anyway.\u201d \u2015 Pittacus Lore, Io sono il numero quattro<\/em><\/p>\n

12. \u201cYou\u2019re everywhere, except right here, and it hurts.\u201d \u2015 Rupi Kaur<\/p>\n

13. \u201cI miss you in waves, and tonight, I\u2019m drowning.\u201d \u2015 Denice Envall<\/p>\n

14. \u201cSometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.\u201d \u2015 Lamartine<\/p>\n

15. \u201cThe air I breathe in a room empty of you is unhealthy.\u201d \u2015 John Keats<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cosa dire a qualcuno che \u00e8 in lutto Citazioni<\/h2>\n

Saying condolences is never easy. You stand there, in front of the person whose world has just collapsed, and you’re trying to find un modo per confortarli.<\/a><\/p>\n

Missione impossibile, penserete. Come potrebbero le vostre parole cancellare il loro dolore?<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that nothing you say will magically wipe their hurt away. But that’s not the point. <\/strong>Il vostro intento \u00e8 solo quello di dimostrare loro che avete capito e che possono contare su di voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ecco i modi migliori per dirlo:<\/p>\n

1. I’m terribly sorry to hear about your loss, and I express my sincere sympathy to you and your family.<\/p>\n

2. I want you to know that you’re in my thoughts, prayers, and well-wishes during this dark time in your life.<\/p>\n

3. Che Dio li metta in un posto speciale dove potranno guardare noi, le persone che li hanno amati e custoditi!<\/p>\n

4. I’m aware that I can’t understand what you\u2019re going through at this moment, but I would like to offer my prayers and condolences.<\/p>\n

5. Quando si perde una persona cara qui sulla terra, si guadagna una angelo in cielo<\/a> che veglia su di voi. Le mie pi\u00f9 sincere condoglianze.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Quali sono le 5 fasi del lutto<\/h2>\n

As you might know, grief doesn’t just come and go. Instead, there are 5 stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.<\/p>\n

Rifiuto<\/h3>\n

This is your brain’s defense mechanism. You’re in shock, and the only way to cope with your loss is to deny it.<\/p>\n

Basically, you’re a walking mess, and your entire life is chaos.<\/p>\n

You don’t have the strength to accept what has happened, so you subconsciously choose to ignore it because facing the truth would be too much for you to handle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is a perfectly natural part of the grieving process. Nevertheless, the problem arises if this stage lasts too long. Sooner or later, you’ll have to face reality since it’s the only percorso di guarigione<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Rabbia<\/h3>\n

Let me reveal a little secret: anger is just a mask. You’re still not brave enough to embrace the sadness you’re actually feeling, so you try to replace it with anger.<\/p>\n

You’re angry at the person leaving you (yes, even if they’re in heaven \u2013 it doesn’t make much sense, I know), at yourself for not keeping them by your side, at life circumstances, at God…<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re looking for someone or something to blame for everything that has happened. Why? Because you’re looking for a reason.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once you accept that things were just meant to happen that way and that nobody is guilty, you’re ready for the next stage.<\/p>\n

Contrattazione<\/h3>\n

When you see that you’re losing someone, you’re ready to do whatever it takes just to keep them around. But now is too late for that kind of bargaining.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, in questa fase, you turn to “what ifs.” You think of different case scenarios and of things you could have done better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If we’re talking about grieving over someone who’s in heaven, you probably blame yourself for not reacting sooner. What if you made them go to the doctor sooner? What if they tried alternative medicine?<\/p>\n

Depressione<\/h3>\n

Anche se depression is extremely difficult, it’s one step towards healing. You’re slowly becoming aware of your loss. And that realization hurts like hell.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A questo punto, si ha la sensazione che la propria vita abbia perso tutto il suo significato e come se la propria il mondo sta cadendo a pezzi<\/a>. You’re empty, and you can\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

Accettazione<\/h3>\n

I’ll be completely honest here. Solo perch\u00e9 accettate la vostra perdita <\/a>doesn’t mean that you magically get over it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Simply put, you learn how to live with it. You embrace your sadness and realize it’s all a part of life.<\/p>\n

L'unica cura per il dolore \u00e8 il lutto<\/h2>\n

I don’t expect these grief quotes to heal you the moment you read them. Voglio che vi rendiate conto che il processo di elaborazione del lutto \u00e8 naturale e che la cosa peggiore che possiate fare \u00e8 fuggire da esso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prendetevi tutto il tempo necessario<\/a>, and don’t let anyone tell you how to grieve.<\/p>\n

One last tip: don’t forget that you’re allowed to be happy. Rebuilding your life doesn’t mean that you’ve forgotten<\/a> per la vostra perdita!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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