{"id":13441,"date":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13441"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","slug":"priorita-non-opzione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/priorita-non-opzione\/","title":{"rendered":"Lei dovrebbe essere la vostra priorit\u00e0, non un'opzione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non giriamoci intorno e ammettiamo che in molti casi capita che un uomo, quando incontra una brava donna, non abbia idea di cosa fare con lei.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t know how to treat her, what to think or how to behave even to begin with.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, quando un uomo incontra una brava donna, sa subito che la vuole nella sua vita, ma in qualche modo incasina le cose.<\/p>\n<p>Capita spesso che inizi a pensare e ad analizzare in modo eccessivo ogni cosa, a partire dalla pi\u00f9 piccola situazione della sua vita, e che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-differenze-relazione-tossica-sana\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">finisce per essere tossico<\/a> per s\u00e9 e per la donna.<\/p>\n<p>At some point, it appears to him that it\u2019s too early to become serious about life, he is not ready or he is unwilling to settle down or to commit to a single woman, but he also doesn\u2019t want to miss out on this opportunity to tie an amazing woman to himself.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi trasciner\u00e0 questa brava donna in qualcosa che potrebbe essere una relazione, ma potrebbe anche non esserlo.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s just wrong. It\u2019s wrong on so many levels.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112952\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/mindful-woman-looking-through-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando incontrate una brava donna, e nella vostra testa c'\u00e8 una confusione, dovreste fare una delle due cose: o intensificare il vostro gioco o lasciarla andare. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You either tell yourself, \u201cThis is what I\u2019ve been waiting for my whole life,\u201d or you say, \u201cShe\u2019s amazing, but I\u2019m not on the same page, so I\u2019ll just let it go.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re unsure whether you want to commit or not, you don\u2019t make empty promises, you don\u2019t talk to her about the future and you don\u2019t plan things if you aren\u2019t ready to make them happen.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t drag a good woman into something that you yourself have no idea what it is.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t confuse her and you don\u2019t hold her next to you and make her wait until you\u2019re ready to commit.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, la vita ci fa divertire, ma altre volte.., <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-complicato-voluto-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">le cose non sono cos\u00ec complicate<\/a>, sai?<\/p>\n<p>La vita \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile quando sia la felicit\u00e0 che il dolore vengono condivisi con la persona giusta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112953\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di innamorati che si coccolano con il naso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/couple-in-love-cuddling-with-their-noses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So when you meet the right woman, you don\u2019t come up with excuses of how you\u2019re not ready or how now is not the time or God knows what. You either make it happen or you let her go.<\/p>\n<p>There are women who love wholeheartedly, laugh from the bottom of their hearts, cry out loud, don\u2019t play games and always tell the truth.<\/p>\n<p>There are women who make things happen for themselves, women who don\u2019t need men to complete them in life and who aren\u2019t scared to live their lives to the fullest; you know, the kind of women who your mother talked to you about and your father told you to marry?<\/p>\n<p>These kinds of women aren\u2019t afraid to commit to a single man.<\/p>\n<p>Non hanno paura di passare il resto della loro vita con un uomo single o di costruire una famiglia insieme a lui, per investire in lui e nella loro relazione.<\/p>\n<p>They aren\u2019t afraid to say, \u201cNo\u201d to other men and all the other possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di donna dovrebbe essere la vostra priorit\u00e0, non un'opzione.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112956\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This kind of a woman shouldn\u2019t be lied to, shouldn\u2019t be played or led to believe she has a future with you when you yourself are confused about what you want from your life.<\/p>\n<p>Vi meritate questo tipo di donna quando, e solo quando, saprete esattamente cosa volete da lei.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet a good woman, you forget all about why it couldn\u2019t work and you start thinking about what you could do to make it work.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t come up with excuses, but you step up your game and make it happen. You tell yourself this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and you don\u2019t let yourself miss it.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si incontra una brava donna, la si mette in cima alla lista delle priorit\u00e0. Non ci sono ma, non ci sono altre opzioni, non ci sono giochi.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si incontra una brava donna, ci si fa semplicemente uomini.<\/p>\n<p>Si inizia a costruire la propria vita, si inizia a costruire se stessi e si inizia a capire che la vita \u00e8 un'altra.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/shift-mind\/200910\/what-do-we-mean-commitment\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> cosa significa impegnarsi veramente con qualcuno.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You finally realize that you weren\u2019t born to wander through this life, but to find your other half and be happy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112957\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna calma e rilassante all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/calm-woman-relaxing-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ricordo le parole che mia madre disse a mio fratello quando la sua testa era incasinata: <strong>\u201cIf she respects you, if she&#8217;s loyal and generous, kind and smart, don\u2019t let her see any other man but you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> If she\u2019s a good woman, don\u2019t let her wait for you or give her space to doubt your intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You take her hand, you tell her how much she means to you and you put her at the top of your priority list.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If this isn\u2019t golden philosophy on how to treat women, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112951\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Should-Be-Your-Priority-Not-An-Option-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lei dovrebbe essere la vostra priorit\u00e0, non un&#039;opzione\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Should-Be-Your-Priority-Not-An-Option-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Should-Be-Your-Priority-Not-An-Option-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Should-Be-Your-Priority-Not-An-Option-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s not beat around the bush here and let\u2019s admit that it happens in many cases that when a man meets a good woman, he has no idea what to do with her. He doesn\u2019t know how to treat her, what to think or how to behave even to begin with. Sometimes, when a man&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":112958,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/She-Should-Be-Your-Priority-Not-An-Option-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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