{"id":134520,"date":"2021-08-30T21:27:42","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T21:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=134520"},"modified":"2022-12-07T11:29:33","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T11:29:33","slug":"relazione-aperta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-aperta\/","title":{"rendered":"10 s\u00ec e no per una relazione aperta"},"content":{"rendered":"

I saw my friend’s boyfriend with another woman a while back. I was shocked and convinced that la tradiva<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After I weighed all the pros and cons of telling her everything, I decided to get it off my chest. But she wasn’t the shocked one here.<\/p>\n

It’s not just that she didn’t mind him kissing another girl in public \u2013 she was perfectly aware of what was going on.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, mi ha detto che da un po' di tempo hanno una relazione aperta di successo. Quindi, naturalmente, ho voluto sapere tutto.<\/p>\n

All'inizio, mi ha detto di leggere il libro La puttana etica<\/i>: Una guida alle infinite possibilit\u00e0 sessuali<\/i> pubblicato nel 1997, e cos\u00ec ho fatto. And yes, I\u2019ve obviously heard about <\/b>relazioni non monogame<\/b> before (it’s not like I’m living under a rock), but I was eager to find out everything first-hand.<\/b><\/p>\n

Come funziona? Quali sono le <\/b>regole di base<\/b>? \u00c8 possibile per un <\/b>relazione a lungo termine<\/b><\/a> essere non monogami? Che cosa <\/b>sulla gelosia<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Per mia fortuna, \u00e8 stata molto paziente. Ha risposto a tutte le mie domande ed \u00e8 stata cos\u00ec generosa da darmi tutte le informazioni di cui avevo bisogno. Ecco svelati tutti i segreti della non-monogamia:<\/p>\n

Being In An Open Relationship \u2013 Meaning<\/h2>\n

\"unChe cos'\u00e8 una relazione aperta? \u00c8 un imbroglio<\/a>? Does it mean that you\u2019re Mantenere aperte le opzioni<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Beh, secondo il pi\u00f9 semplice relazione aperta<\/b> definition, it’s a <\/b>relazione romantica<\/b> che non \u00e8 monogama.<\/b><\/p>\n

In pratica, a entrambi i partner \u00e8 permesso avere relazioni sessuali o frequentare altre persone al di fuori della loro relazione principale. \u00c8 l'esatto contrario di una relazione monogama in cui due persone frequentarsi in modo esclusivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s important to differenziare <\/b>non-monogamia consensuale<\/b> da <\/b>essere infedele<\/b><\/a>. In questo caso, l'intimit\u00e0 con altre persone non \u00e8 un tradimento perch\u00e9 avviene con il permesso del partner principale e non alle sue spalle.<\/p>\n

Tipi di relazioni aperte<\/h3>\n

Let’s make one thing clear as well: there are numerous different tipi di relazioni<\/b> che possono rientrare nel termine di relazione aperta. Ecco i pi\u00f9 comuni:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Polygamy<\/h4>\n

Polygamy means that you’re sposato con pi\u00f9 di una persona contemporaneamente<\/b>. Le forme pi\u00f9 comuni di poligamia sono due: poliginia<\/b> (pi\u00f9 mogli sposate con un solo marito) e poliandria<\/b> (pi\u00f9 mariti condividono una moglie).<\/p>\n

\u2022 Swingers<\/h4>\n

\"unL'oscillazione \u00e8 un'attivit\u00e0 che comprende Scambio di partner durante il sesso<\/b>. Di solito viene praticato tra numerose coppie che si dedicano al sesso di gruppo o si scambiano semplicemente i partner.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Polyfidelity<\/h4>\n

When you practice polyfidelity, you’re completely faithful to all the people you’re in a relationship with, and there is no fooling around outside your romance(s)<\/b>.<\/p>\n

It’s also non-monogamous because it includes a group of people (three or more), but it’s different from an open relationship because it forbids any kind of sexual or emotional connection outside the primary relationship(s).<\/p>\n

\u2022 Monogamish<\/h4>\n

Le relazioni monogame distinguono tra fedelt\u00e0 emotiva e sessuale. Fondamentalmente, c'\u00e8 emozionale <\/b>esclusivit\u00e0,<\/b> ma entrambi i partner sono autorizzati a fare sesso senza senso con altre persone. <\/b>\u2013 as long as they don’t develop feelings.<\/p>\n

Regole delle relazioni aperte<\/h2>\n

\"unOgni La relazione sentimentale deve avere delle regole<\/a> \u2013 what’s okay and what’s not acceptable under any terms.<\/p>\n

Ma questo \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 significativo in una relazione aperta. Both you and your partner have to agree on things you’re ready to tolerate \u2013 that is, if you don’t want to turn this into one big mess that is doomed to fail.<\/b><\/p>\n

Anche se ogni coppia \u00e8 una storia a s\u00e9, ecco alcune regole fondamentali per far funzionare questo tipo di relazione.<\/p>\n

Consenso<\/h3>\n

Let’s start with the most obvious and, at the same time, most important ground rule: Entrambe le parti devono essere sicure al 100% che questo sia ci\u00f2 che desiderano.<\/b>. Don’t worry \u2013 nobody will think that you’re a prude for not being okay with this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

Some people are perfectly happy with being monogamous, and that’s something they should always be clear about. So, if your romantic partner suggests an open relationship or essere in un matrimonio semiaperto<\/a>, and you don’t think it’s something you could handle \u2013 please, be honest about it.<\/p>\n

If there is no mutual consent, then it’s basically cheating.<\/b> Non ha senso avere questo tipo di relazione se una delle due persone ne soffre.<\/p>\n

Limiti sessuali<\/h3>\n

\"unConsensual non-monogamy can’t be possible without both partners setting some basic boundaries regarding their sexual activities with other people. What is acceptable and what is not?<\/p>\n

Of course, you have to start with the premise that you’ll both be completely honest and stick to the deal. So if you and your partner agree that there is no, let\u2019s say, bringing other people into your bed, doing exactly that, and remaining quiet about it is not cool.<\/p>\n

Some couples agree that kissing, cuddling, or oral sex are off the table. On the other hand, some don’t allow penetration to happen at all.<\/b><\/p>\n

This all depends on what you and your partner want and can handle. What’s crucial here is to talk things through in detail before engaging in any sex practices with other people.<\/p>\n

\u200bSafe sex<\/h3>\n

Quando si ha una vita sessuale attiva (soprattutto cos\u00ec attiva), il sesso sicuro \u00e8 un must. Questo \u00e8 anche un aspetto che deve essere discusso prima di intraprendere qualsiasi attivit\u00e0 al di fuori della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Remember \u2013 you’re not responsible only for your health here \u2013 you’re also responsible for your partner’s.<\/b><\/p>\n

La prima cosa da concordare \u00e8 la protezione.<\/b> Alcuni usano il preservativo ogni volta che vanno a letto con una terza persona, mentre altri fanno un passo avanti e chiedono che tutti coloro che fanno parte di questa relazione siano sottoposti a un test per le infezioni sessualmente trasmissibili.<\/p>\n

\u200bYou might think that this is too much, but if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that the risk of STI is real, especially when you have multiple sexual partners. Either way, always put safety first, even before your sexual needs.<\/p>\n

Confini temporali<\/h3>\n

Una delle regole delle relazioni aperte riguarda anche i limiti di tempo. It’s important to set up the amount of time you’ll both spend with your <\/b>nuovi partner<\/b> as well as the amount of time you’ll spend with each other.<\/b><\/p>\n

Keep in mind that your primary partner should always come first. Therefore, you shouldn’t, by any means, neglect them just because you like someone else more at one point.<\/p>\n

That’s why it is good to agree on regolare <\/b>check-in<\/b> con il vostro SO primario<\/b>. Anche se andate in viaggio con un'altra persona (se \u00e8 consentito), inviate un messaggio o parlate con il vostro partner e concordate la frequenza di questi controlli.<\/p>\n

Vi avverto: queste cose accadranno. Incontrate un nuovo partner e tutto ci\u00f2 che lo circonda diventa eccitante.<\/p>\n

You want to discover all parts of their personality, and you would spend most of your time with them rather than go back home where everything is familiar and comfortable. This doesn’t mean you don’t love your primary romantic partner<\/a> \u2013 it’s just a sign that you’re a human being.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if this is an urge you’re unable to control, maybe you should reconsider your decision of being in an open relationship. Remember that your new relationship can never endanger your primary romantic relationship.<\/p>\n

Confini emotivi<\/h3>\n

\"unLo stesso vale per i confini emotivi. It might sound silly for someone to tell you if you’re allowed to fall in love with another person or not.<\/b><\/p>\n

In most cases, this is something you can’t control as much as you might like to \u2013 at least, most people don’t have that ability. These guidelines are much harder to determine in contrast to sexual or time ones.<\/p>\n

How can you decide that you’ll like someone else but <\/b>won’t fall in love<\/b><\/a>? Dov'\u00e8 questo confine immaginario?<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi arrendete alla prima volta che sentite le farfalle? Siete emotivamente maturo<\/a> abbastanza da ammettere a voi stessi (e al vostro partner) che i vostri sentimenti stanno per superare il limite?<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 del tutto impossibile. That’s exactly why many couples decide whether it’s okay to have casual hookups (and how many times is one allowed to see this third person before it turns into some kind of a relationship) but put a veto on actual dating.<\/b><\/p>\n

Anche in questo caso, la scelta \u00e8 tutta vostra. Potete impostare la vostra dinamica relazionale in base alle vostre esigenze emotive e sessuali.<\/p>\n

La privacy<\/h3>\n

La maggior parte delle coppie adotta un metodo chiamato “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy<\/b>. Ci\u00f2 significa che tengono per s\u00e9 le attivit\u00e0 extra-relazionali.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, alcuni scelgono di tenere aggiornato il proprio partner<\/b> on who they’re seeing (and how often it happens). Many couples prefer this option because they feel like they have more control over what their SO is doing.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, we’re talking about basic info here only. There are no juicy details that might potentially bother the other person.<\/p>\n

Poi c'\u00e8 il terza opzione in cui si dice al proprio SO letteralmente tutto<\/b>. Alcune coppie lo trovano sessualmente eccitante e legame emotivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi dica una cosa: if you’re in the beginning of your <\/b>relazione aperta<\/b>, you won’t know what alternative suits you the best. <\/b>You’ll probably have to try all of them and see which one works for you.<\/p>\n

Stile relazionale<\/h3>\n

\"unYou can’t have a <\/b>relazione aperta di successo<\/b> finch\u00e9 non si decide quale <\/b>stile di relazione<\/b> preferisci. <\/b>Sar\u00e0 una relazione poliamorosa?<\/p>\n

Avrete rapporti sessuali solo al di fuori della vostra attuale relazione? Vi \u00e8 permesso di avere pi\u00f9 partner sessuali<\/a> alla volta?<\/p>\n

Sarete scambisti senza alcun attaccamento emotivo<\/a> coinvolto?<\/p>\n

Tempi di realizzazione<\/h4>\n

Dopo aver studiato tutti questi tipi di rapporto e aver concordato quello pi\u00f9 adatto a voi, dovrete discutere anche i tempi.<\/p>\n

Is this something you are both willing to just try out? Or is it a lifestyle you’re planning to pursue?<\/b><\/p>\n

Se avete intenzione di sposarvi, farete un matrimonio aperto? O sperimenterete fino a quando non pronuncerete le vostre promesse?<\/p>\n

I know that this is probably a lot to handle right now, and nobody is expecting you to have all the answers right away. Actually, I’m just trying to fill you in on every doubt and issue that will probably crop up throughout your journey.<\/p>\n

Comunicazione aperta<\/h3>\n

La comunicazione \u00e8 la chiave di ogni relazione sana<\/a> \u2013 no matter which romantic relationship we\u2019re talking about. Nevertheless, open communication is especially important for open relationships.<\/p>\n

Both you and your partner have to be 100% honest about your feelings, expectations, wishes, and demands. You have to be able to communicate everything you want and don’t want and be especially clear about your deal-breakers.<\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me \u2013 nothing will work out if you play giochi mentali tossici<\/a>. Inoltre, bisogna evitare di tirare a indovinare, fare supposizioni e leggere nel pensiero.<\/p>\n

Your SO can’t possibly know how you feel unless you speak out, and it goes both ways.<\/p>\n

Don’t jump to conclusions. Instead, always be straight with your SO, and you can expect the best.<\/p>\n

Onest\u00e0 con la terza persona<\/h3>\n

\"unAnche se la vostra attuale relazione \u00e8 la vostra priorit\u00e0 numero uno, the last thing you want is to break some hearts along the way while you’re trying to achieve emotional or <\/b>soddisfazione sessuale<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Che cosa significa? Dovete essere onesti al 100% con chi vi coinvolge nella vostra relazione aperta.<\/p>\n

Of course, your opening line doesn’t have to be a speech about your situation. Nevertheless, the moment you see that the flirting is crossing the line and that something more might happen, you have to tell them everything that’s going on.<\/p>\n

Tutte le persone coinvolte in questa situazione hanno il diritto di conoscere tutte le regole e le circostanze.<\/b> Otherwise, all hell might break loose, and I don’t even have to start about all the potential consequences.<\/p>\n

Yes, you’ll meet some people who are perfectly okay with the current setup. They’ll be content with the fact that your SO is familiar with everything and that you’re not cheating. Nothing else will bother them much.<\/p>\n

Ma attenzione: alcune persone amano solo la monogamia e sono alla ricerca di un relazione impegnata<\/a>. In that case, move on and look for someone else who’ll be willing to participate in your adventures.<\/p>\n

Le giuste ragioni<\/h3>\n

Bisogna chiedersi: Perch\u00e9 mi sto impegnando in questo tipo di relazione? <\/i>You see, if you do it for the wrong reasons, you can’t expect anything good to come out of it, can you?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 perch\u00e9 vi mancano le attivit\u00e0 sessuali con altre persone? \u00c8 perch\u00e9 volete rendere pi\u00f9 piccanti le cose a casa?<\/p>\n

\u00c8 perch\u00e9 voi e il vostro partner avete livelli di libido diversi? \u00c8 perch\u00e9 desiderate esplorare la vostra sessualit\u00e0 e migliorare la vita sessuale<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Oppure perch\u00e9 sentite di essere perfettamente in grado di amare altre persone senza che questo metta in pericolo la vostra relazione?<\/p>\n

Is it because you think that monogamy is nothing but a social concept that doesn’t suit your relationship, or maybe you consider it unnatural?<\/p>\n

Questi sono tutti i motivi pi\u00f9 comuni per cui le persone si impegnano in <\/b>non-monogamia consensuale<\/b>. E nessuno pu\u00f2 opporsi a nessuno di loro.<\/b><\/p>\n

But if you’re engaging in non-monogamy because you want to salvare la vostra relazione<\/a> that\u2019s doomed to fail, far ingelosire il partner<\/a>, or because you stopped loving them (or are no longer attracted to them), it probably won’t work out.<\/p>\n

Sentimenti di gelosia<\/h3>\n

\"unInfine, la domanda che tutti i monogami si pongono: Come si evita di essere gelosi in una relazione non<\/i>relazione monogama<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Look, you’re human. It’s natural that you’ll struggle with feelings of jealousy.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, we’re not all the same. If this is something you can fight off, open relationships are right for you.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, if your jealousy starts to overwhelm you and begins to impact your relationship, it’s a red flag that this isn’t for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Come combatterlo?<\/h4>\n

The first step in dealing with jealousy is acknowledging it. Accept it as something completely normal, and don’t accuse yourself of not being good at this right away.<\/p>\n

Dopodich\u00e9, siate onesti con il vostro partner riguardo ai vostri sentimenti. Ricordate: la comunicazione aperta \u00e8 la chiave.<\/p>\n

Il passo successivo \u00e8 fare del proprio meglio per esaminare la propria gelosia. Perch\u00e9 vi sentite cos\u00ec? Cercate di analizzarlo e di trovare la causa principale.<\/p>\n

Do you feel endangered by someone else in your SO’s life? Do you feel emotionally neglected?<\/p>\n

Talk things through and maybe set some new boundaries. If you’re not okay with only a few aspects of your partner’s activities, talk about the rules once again, and if necessary, change them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Poliamore vs. Relazione aperta<\/h2>\n

\"unaQuindi, sia le relazioni aperte che quelle poliamorose sono relazioni non monogame e includono la relazione con pi\u00f9 di una persona alla volta. If you haven’t dug too much into the matter, you might assume that these two words are synonyms that mean practically the same thing.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, si tratta di due diverse <\/b>stili di relazione<\/b>. <\/b>Ci sono alcune differenze tra il poliamore e un matrimonio o una relazione aperta: ecco le pi\u00f9 importanti:<\/p>\n

Soddisfazione sessuale vs. legame emotivo<\/h3>\n

La prima e pi\u00f9 importante differenza tra una relazione aperta e una relazione poliamorosa consiste nel the primary thing you’re looking to get out of this situation. <\/b>Nella maggior parte dei casi, le coppie che hanno una relazione aperta cercano solo la soddisfazione sessuale.<\/p>\n

Significa che queste attivit\u00e0 extra-relazionali sono per lo pi\u00f9 basate su incontri casuali (che a volte diventano pi\u00f9 di questo<\/a>) e il sesso senza senso. D'altra parte, il poliamore comprende legami emotivi<\/a> con altre persone oltre al partner.<\/p>\n

You’re not just sleeping with other people \u2013 you’re also in relationships with these people. You date them, see them in different social contexts, and alla fine si innamorano<\/a> con loro.<\/p>\n

Of course, it all happens with your first partner knowing and being okay with it. In fact, they’re doing the same thing.<\/p>\n

Everyone included knows what’s going on, and nobody is bothered by the situation.<\/p>\n

Nessuna gerarchia di relazioni<\/h3>\n

\"l'uomoAnother crucial contrast is that there is no relationship hierarchy. It means that there is no primary partner and primary relationship \u2013 everyone is equal.<\/p>\n

Se avete due (o pi\u00f9) relazioni separate, trattate entrambe le vostre GF o BF pi\u00f9 o meno allo stesso modo. <\/b>None of them is a sexual fling \u2013 they’re both your romantic partners.<\/p>\n

Fate del vostro meglio per dare loro la stessa quantit\u00e0 di amore, attenzione, regali e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if there are multiple people all in one relationship, they’re all equal parts of it.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, you’re expected to be faithful to all the people in the relationship, and if you do something outside of it, it’s considered cheating.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let’s put it this way: if a man has two wives, he’s a polygamist. But in this scenario, these two wives are not in a relationship with each other \u2013 they’re just co-wives who share the same husband.<\/p>\n

How is polyamory different? Well, if we have three people involved, all three of them are in a relationship with each other. If a man has two GFs, they’re also in a relationship with one another, and each of them is in a relationship with the guy.<\/p>\n

Celebrit\u00e0 con relazioni aperte<\/h2>\n

\"unYou’d be surprised by the fact that open relationships are actually more common than you might think \u2013 especially among famous people. Hollywood \u00e8 piena di coppie non monogame: ecco le pi\u00f9 famose:<\/b><\/p>\n

    \n
  • Megan Fox e Brian Austin Green<\/li>\n
  • Nico Tortorella e Bethany C. Meyers<\/li>\n
  • Gwyneth Paltrow e Chris Martin<\/li>\n
  • Will Smith e Jada Pinkett Smith<\/li>\n
  • Tom Ford e Richard Buckley<\/li>\n
  • Demi Moore e Bruce Wills<\/li>\n
  • Tilda Swinton e John Byrne<\/li>\n
  • Angelina Jolie e Brad Pitt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Una relazione aperta funziona?<\/h2>\n

    \"unIn fin dei conti, nessuno pu\u00f2 dare una risposta a questa domanda perch\u00e9 ogni caso \u00e8 unico. Una relazione aperta pu\u00f2 sicuramente funzionare (dopo tutto, ci sono tonnellate di esempi che dimostrano la mia tesi) ad alcune condizioni, la maggior parte delle quali sono state menzionate sopra.<\/p>\n

    Tuttavia, tutto dipende dalle vostre preferenze. Nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi che questo \u00e8 il modo giusto o sbagliato di vivere la vostra vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

    If it works for you, and you and your partner aren\u2019t harming anyone in the process \u2013 go for it, and forget about what other people say or think.<\/b><\/p>\n

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