{"id":13515,"date":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13515"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","slug":"non-lasciare-che-la-vita-sia-ascoltata-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lasciare-che-la-vita-sia-ascoltata-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Non fatelo rientrare nella vostra vita (perch\u00e9 avete gi\u00e0 sentito tutto)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don’t you have that feeling that the text he is sending you right now is so similar to those you have read before? That all he says feels like it has been already said? That all he does has been done before?<\/em> <\/p>\n

That’s because he saw what works on you and he is replaying the same scenario all over again.<\/p>\n

Sta cercando di ammorbidire il vostro cuore. Sa che provate dei sentimenti forti per lui, anche se vi ha deluso tante volte in passato.<\/p>\n

Fa affidamento sulla vostra buona natura per farvi capire, per farvi dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0, per perdonare ancora una volta. Sta usando tutto l'amore che avete per lui contro di voi.<\/p>\n

But what he doesn’t know is that you are stanco di perdonare.<\/a> Quando si vede il suo nome sullo schermo si ha la nausea, perch\u00e9 si pu\u00f2 gi\u00e0 intuire la storia di mezza tacca che ha creato.<\/p>\n

It’s always the same story. He didn’t mean it. He loves you. He knows you deserve more. He hopes that you can find it in your heart to forgive him.<\/p>\n

Alzi gli occhi, non te la bevi, eppure c'\u00e8 una parte di te che vuole credere che forse questa volta \u00e8 diverso. Forse questa volta \u00e8 sincero. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That part of you is so strong because it loves him deeply, even though he doesn’t deserve it. But he hasn\u2019t changed. He is still the same old pitiful excuse for a human being.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

This time is no different than those millions of previous times you heard the same words. And you just can’t handle going through the heartache one more time. He broke your heart one too many times and he would do it again.<\/p>\n

He is used to having his safe harbor in you. He relies on you to be there and to take him back no matter what. But there comes a point where there is no going back. When all the love you have for him just isn’t enough.<\/p>\n

Se ti amasse come lo amavi tu, non ti avrebbe mai ferito ripetutamente come fa. Quasi tutti possono avere una seconda possibilit\u00e0, ma qualcosa di pi\u00f9 \u00e8 troppo.<\/p>\n

Sai, perch\u00e9 gli hai dato innumerevoli possibilit\u00e0 e lui ti ha ferito ogni volta di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

So, don’t take him back, because you have heard it all before. You lived through it all before and this time won’t be any different no matter what he says or how he says it.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 lo stesso uomo che vi ha deluso tante volte in passato e non \u00e8 diverso adesso.<\/p>\n

Invece di dargli innumerevoli possibilit\u00e0, date una possibilit\u00e0 a voi stessi. Una possibilit\u00e0 di ricominciare. Una possibilit\u00e0 di scoprire chi siete senza che lui vi trascini sempre nello stesso pasticcio.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Potete fare molto di pi\u00f9. Potete essere molto di pi\u00f9. Potete essere felici.<\/p>\n

Ricordate a voi stessi che meritate il mondo. Questo siete pi\u00f9 forti di quanto pensiate<\/a> siete. Potete trovare la forza dentro di voi che vi rassicurer\u00e0 sul fatto che a volte dovete dimenticare ci\u00f2 che sentite e ricordare ci\u00f2 che meritate.<\/p>\n

He is not the one for you. He is just blocking the way and real love is not able to find you. And all that love you have for him would look a lot better if it was given to the right person\u2014 the one who is going to give all that love back.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quando vi dir\u00e0 che questa volta \u00e8 diverso, ditegli che lo sapete, perch\u00e9 questa volta state scegliendo voi stesse al posto suo. Questa volta state scegliendo la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

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