At the beginning everything is easy. You are blinded by infatuation and the sexual chemistry is too strong to see what is really going on or what your partner is truly like. We all give the best of ourselves to impress whoever we are dating. Most of us hide our imperfections, but that is completely understandable if you don\u2019t have anything serious to hide.<\/p>\n
Il vero problema sorge quando ci si imbatte in qualcuno che \u00e8 tossico. Naturalmente, nasconder\u00e0 questo lato di s\u00e9 perch\u00e9 vuole attirarvi. Si presenter\u00e0 come perfetto e impeccabile finch\u00e9 non vi allenterete un po' e inizierete a fidarvi di lui.<\/p>\n
When the honeymoon phase is over, the masks drop and you are finally able to see the true face of your loved one. The problem is that most of us get comfortable and we put down our guards. That\u2019s when the toxic behaviors start emerging.<\/p>\n
There doesn\u2019t have to be anything big at first. Actually, there never is. Toxic behaviors are disclosed bit by bit until they cause a great explosion of emotions and finally a catastrophe.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n To prevent becoming a victim of toxic behavior, it\u2019s best not to give in to the passion completely at the beginning. Try to look at things with a different pair of eyes, like it\u2019s happening to someone else.<\/p>\n Cercate di essere obiettivi e prudenti. Forse allora vedrete tutti gli allarmi rossi che vi stanno gridando di uscire da quell'ambiente tossico.<\/p>\n Questi sono i comportamenti tossici che presenta e che faranno andare a rotoli la vostra relazione:<\/p>\n Quando c'\u00e8 un problema nella vostra relazione che vi rende infelici e quando lo affrontate, lui si arrabbia. Qualsiasi cosa diciate, qualsiasi critica gli facciate, lui reagisce in modo esagerato.<\/p>\n You think that after some time you\u2019ve been together, he will realize that you don\u2019t want to put him down but help him become better by showing him his mistakes and things he did that hurt you. But, he doesn\u2019t get it that way.<\/p>\n He thinks you are out to get him and humiliate him. Therefore, any overreaction by him as feedback on something you\u2019ve got to say is clearly showing disrespect to you.<\/p>\n By doing this, he is telling you he doesn\u2019t want to hear what you\u2019ve got to say. He doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let this happen to you. No one has the right to control your life or to see you submissive to him. If you are feeling unhappy, you have the right to talk about it.<\/p>\n If he denies you this, then it\u2019s better to leave than to deal with much greater consequences that will follow.<\/p>\n Your self-respect is highly important and if he doesn\u2019t respect you, it\u2019s only a matter of time when you will stop rispettare se stessi.<\/a> E poi, c'\u00e8 un problema.<\/p>\n Trust is the most important ingredient of a successful relationship. It\u2019s the ground on which you build your future life with the one you love. If you are not honest with each other, your relationship will fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t know if he is lying to you at the beginning, but he won\u2019t be able to withhold the truth for so long. It will eventually come out in the open.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t deserve to be treated like this. Just remember that there are plenty of guys out there who would treat you like their princess, who would never lie to you because they simply trust you.<\/p>\n Sanno che li aiuterete e li capirete senza giudicare.<\/p>\n This is pretty much the same as ignoring someone. He won\u2019t even acknowledge your presence.<\/p>\n Se state parlando con lui e cercate di spiegargli come vi sentite o di risolvere un problema, vi ignorer\u00e0 completamente e fisser\u00e0 il suo telefono o abbandoner\u00e0 la conversazione senza annunciarlo.<\/p>\n Why? Simply, because he doesn\u2019t give a damn. This is not healthy behavior. By stonewalling your partner, the two of you can only grow more apart even if there was a chance to solve your problems.<\/p>\n Avete il diritto di essere ascoltati. La vostra voce deve essere ascoltata. Anche se non avete ragione, avete il diritto di dire ci\u00f2 che volete. Nessuno pu\u00f2 o deve impedirvi di farlo.<\/p>\n1. He can\u2019t stand criticism<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Vi sta nascondendo qualcosa<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Vi sta ostacolando<\/span><\/h2>\n