We’ve been taught through media, movies and the stories we’ve heard our whole lives that ‘the one’ will come and that all we need to do is be ready to receive love.<\/p>\n
Everyone has their ‘one’ and that’s what is so wrong about it because no relationship advice should sound like ‘just be patient, the one will come’.<\/p>\n
What? Does he really fly right out of the sky to be your one and only true love? I’d like to tell you that you’ve probably met someone who was a potential life partner for you.<\/p>\n
You must be thinking that I’m going out of my mind, but it’s the truth.<\/p>\n
When we look for the right guy, we think that that position could only be taken by one person in particular, but the truth is that there a lot of guys out there to whom you’re attracted and have the right behavior that you’d like to see in your husband to be.<\/p>\n
C'\u00e8 una storia che ci incasina la mente su come incontreremo qualcuno: lo incontreremo un giorno e il tempo si fermer\u00e0. Pensiamo che saremo immediatamente travolti dai sentimenti.<\/p>\n
It’ll be like we’re the only two people in the entire world. But that’s so wrong. Le relazioni richiedono molto lavoro<\/a>, impegno e fiducia.<\/p>\n Because of that, we’re giving you 7 things that you need to know before finding your right guy:<\/p>\n All'inizio della relazione, sarete travolti da incredibili sensazioni di gioia e felicit\u00e0, come se non ci fosse nulla che possa separarvi.<\/p>\n Ma quante volte vi \u00e8 capitato? Lo incontrate e tutto va a gonfie vele, ma pi\u00f9 avanti nella relazione inizia a fare lo stronzo e non potete fare altro che rompere tutto.<\/p>\n La fase del cucciolo d'amore \u00e8 il tipo di amore superficiale per i primi mesi, quando tutto va alla grande, ma dovete essere consapevoli che arriveranno momenti difficili e voi due dovete trovare il modo di superarli.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, this one I’ve learned the hard way. I would get into a fight with my boyfriend and in an instant, I would break up the relationship because I thought that there was nothing I could do.<\/p>\n I thought that I would never fight with my true love and I’ve been suffering because of that\u2014a lot. I am not telling you that insulting your partner or screaming and yelling is OK.<\/p>\n But arguments that happen along the way aren’t worthy of throwing in the towel.<\/p>\n Meaning passion and lust. Lust isn’t something that creates a lasting and loving relationship. It’s just an explosion of chemistry between you two.<\/p>\n That doesn’t bring long-term happiness. Healthy relationships aren’t built on that but rather on communication and deep connection.<\/p>\n Una relazione sana ha anche un sesso appassionato, ma va di pari passo con un legame emotivo e mentale.<\/p>\n This goes together with the past point. I’m not telling you that you need to discuss the origin of the Universe but talking about your emotions and thoughts is very important.<\/p>\n Aprirsi al proprio partner \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante (anche pi\u00f9 del sesso). Parlare del vostro futuro insieme \u00e8 come creare un percorso che vi conduca ad una relazione sana e di successo<\/a>.<\/p>\n I mean, if he doesn’t want kids and you do and there is quite a chance that none of you want to change your mind, so why would you want to spend your energy on that. But how would you know if you didn’t talk it through?<\/p>\n If you’ve been through a lot in your past relationships, if you’ve been unappreciated by your parents, there is a chance that you are now trying to make it all better by putting all your broken pieces into someone else’s hands and expecting them to rebuild you.<\/p>\n That’s not really effective and it can cause you too much pain if your expectations aren’t met. Rather, put in some time and effort to fix your own self before you start a new relationship.<\/p>\n Solo voi sapete come incollare i vostri pezzi.<\/strong><\/p>\n A differenza del tipo di relazione malsana, quella sana inizia lentamente, con interessi e attrazione reciproci piuttosto che con la lussuria e l'esplosione di emozioni.<\/p>\n La costruzione di relazioni sane richiede tempo. Cercate di fare le cose con calma e di usare la testa. So che pu\u00f2 essere difficile, ma cercate di usare la testa prima del cuore, almeno all'inizio.<\/p>\n Your mind doesn’t operate according to reason and rationality. So, try to understand your thought process that goes with the relationship and take your time.<\/p>\n Women come to me complaining about how they’re treated in a relationship, about how the man isn’t the right one for them or how they simply don’t feel loved anymore.<\/p>\n1. The puppy love stage can’t last forever<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. A fight doesn’t equal a break up<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Recognize the ‘unhealthy’ connection<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Le conversazioni profonde sono fondamentali<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Don’t expect him to heal you<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Le relazioni sane si costruiscono nel tempo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Osservate le qualit\u00e0 che fanno di lui un custode<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n