{"id":13534,"date":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13534"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","slug":"uomo-7-cose-maltrattamento-domestico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-7-cose-maltrattamento-domestico\/","title":{"rendered":"Se il vostro uomo fa queste 7 cose, \u00e8 un maltrattatore domestico"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 risaputo che molte relazioni hanno alti e bassi e che a volte i partner litigano. Ma \u00e8 necessario distinguere un normale litigio da comportamento abusivo<\/a> e se vi accorgete che questo sta accadendo a voi, dovreste andarvene il prima possibile.<\/p>\n

You need to know that life with an abuser is not easy and that as long as you are with him, you won\u2019t be able to shine like you deserve. In fact, your life might be in danger if he decides to make a living hell out of your life.<\/p>\n

In case you have kids with a man like that, you should leave so they don\u2019t see and hear all the fighting because it can leave some serious marks on their emotions.<\/p>\n

For all those who are not quite sure if their relationship is abusive or for those who don\u2019t have the courage the leave a man like this, here are some things that could change your mind.<\/p>\n

1. Vi minaccia<\/span><\/h2>\n

Un uomo innamorato non minaccer\u00e0 mai la donna che ama. Al contrario, la amer\u00e0 e sar\u00e0 la pupilla dei suoi occhi. Al contrario, il maltrattatore \u00e8 una persona che render\u00e0 la vostra vita peggiore di quella che avevate prima di incontrarlo.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t like something that you do, he will be rough, calling you names and making you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

Se avete dei figli con lui, minaccer\u00e0 di portarveli via perch\u00e9 sa che cos\u00ec facendo vi ferir\u00e0 maggiormente.<\/p>\n

2. Sbatte le porte e rompe i piatti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00c8 una cosa che ogni maltrattatore domestico fa per farvi sentire impauriti e costringervi a fare tutto quello che vi dice di fare.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t do something the way he wants, he will get mad and start slamming doors to show you that he won\u2019t tolerate that kind of behavior anymore and that you might be someone he will hit next time he gets mad. He wants to freak you out totally and to brainwash you to do things that he wants you to do.<\/p>\n

Se sorprende il suo uomo a fare una cosa del genere, \u00e8 segno che si sta trasformando in un abusatore.<\/p>\n

3. Prende i vostri soldi e vuole che gliene chiediate un po'...<\/span><\/h2>\n

In this way, he wants to belittle you and even if you earn much more than him, he won\u2019t admit that.<\/p>\n

Vi chieder\u00e0 i soldi del vostro stipendio e poi vi far\u00e0 venire da lui per chiedergliene un po'.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, vuole che siate dipendenti da lui e che sia lui a decidere cosa fare e quando. Questo \u00e8 un altro segno di violenza domestica<\/a> e se avete la possibilit\u00e0 di lasciarlo, fatelo per salvarvi dall'agonia.<\/p>\n

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4. Vi intimidisce con coltelli o pistole<\/span><\/h2>\n

Quando un maltrattatore domestico vede che potreste scappare, user\u00e0 tutti i mezzi necessari per tenervi vicine. Ci\u00f2 include l'uso di pistole o coltelli per intimidirvi a restare con lui o per dirvi che vi uccider\u00e0 e poi uccider\u00e0 se stesso.<\/p>\n

Sta solo giocando con te e sa che resterai perch\u00e9 sei preoccupata per la tua vita.<\/p>\n

If you have kids with a man like this, make sure that they don\u2019t see or hear all that fighting because it can make them go through serious trauma.<\/p>\n

5. Vi schiaffeggia o vi colpisce<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se fa qualcosa che potrebbe ferirvi fisicamente, potete essere certi che quello che state vivendo non \u00e8 solo una fase negativa, ma che si tratta di un vero e proprio maltrattatore domestico.<\/p>\n

This is the worst thing that a man can do to a woman whom he loves, knowing that she can\u2019t do anything to defend herself. Also, don\u2019t trust him when he says that he won\u2019t do that again and that he made a mistake because if he hits you once, he will do it again.<\/p>\n

A man like this doesn\u2019t deserve your love, so don\u2019t be afraid to leave him because that is the only way you will find the right path.<\/p>\n

6. Gioca un ruolo di vittima<\/span><\/h2>\n

If he has a bad day or any other problem, he will blame you. As time passes by, his life expectations will be so high and you won\u2019t be able to fulfill them.<\/p>\n

And again, he will blame you but this time it won\u2019t stay only on that, but he will abuse you emotionally or even physically. He doesn\u2019t understand that you can\u2019t meet all his needs and that you have your needs as well.<\/p>\n

7. Dice che si uccider\u00e0 se lo lasciate.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno dei pi\u00f9 evidenti segnali di abuso domestico<\/a>. Dicendo questo, il vostro abusatore vuole che rimaniate vicini in modo da poter continuare a controllarvi<\/a> e di fare le cose nel modo in cui funziona bene per lui.<\/p>\n

So, in this case you are stuck between two fires\u2014on one side there is a man who wants to kill himself if you leave and on the other hand we are talking about your own life that will be destroyed if you stay with him.<\/p>\n

Tieni presente che devi sempre scegliere la tua vita prima della sua, perch\u00e9 lui si ama troppo per farsi del male.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 solo un trucco subdolo che sta usando per riportarti indietro.<\/p>\n

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