{"id":13557,"date":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13557"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","slug":"potrebbe-incasinare-qualcuno-che-amera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/potrebbe-incasinare-qualcuno-che-amera\/","title":{"rendered":"Potresti essere un disastro, ma qualcuno ti amer\u00e0 per questo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Probabilmente avete l'abitudine di guardarvi allo specchio e chiedervi se meritate di essere amati.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente fate sempre questo tipo di cose.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente vi direte come you\u2019re not good enough<\/a>, how everyone else is doing well and you can\u2019t seem to get out of your own mess.<\/p>\n

All you see when you look at yourself are your flaws. All you see are the reasons why you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

It started with some small imperfections and now it\u2019s so widespread that you can\u2019t get rid of it.<\/p>\n

God knows when the last time was that you looked at yourself in the mirror and told yourself how pretty you are or how well you\u2019re doing in life.<\/p>\n

Lei dice you\u2019re a mess<\/a> and how you’re lost and I say: \u201cSo what?\u201d <\/strong>E allora?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t stay a mess forever. You won’t be lost forever. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you feel like you can\u2019t get your head straight now, even if you feel stuck and that everyone is ahead of you, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a lost cause. Because you\u2019re not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might think you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. You might think that nobody will ever love you the way you are now.<\/p>\n

Che nessuno si prender\u00e0 la briga di guardare oltre il tuo disordine o di cercare di vederti per quello che sei veramente.<\/p>\n

That nobody will care to see that you can be better than you are or think that you have a bright future. But you\u2019re wrong once again.<\/p>\n

See, the truth is you\u2019re only capable of seeing yourself as a mess now. You only see your flaws and you have this feeling like everyone is doing better than you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

But the truth is we are all a bit of a mess. We\u2019re all a bit messed up, too. And we\u2019re all destined to find love despite this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sar\u00e0 qualcuno che vorr\u00e0 sentire le cose che ti passano per la testa.<\/p>\n

There will be someone who will want to listen to all the stories about why you\u2019re a mess and what\u2019s going on with you.<\/p>\n

There will be someone who\u2019ll see you like everything that person was looking for. Mark these words.<\/p>\n

When you look in the mirror, you think: \u201cWho will ever fall for me?\u201d You keep wondering how come you had to turn out that way.<\/p>\n

How is it possible that it\u2019s you that has to fight for everything and how is it that you never got anything easy in life?<\/p>\n

Often you feel like losing it, you feel like you\u2019ve had enough and how you can\u2019t do it anymore.<\/p>\n

But be that as it may, you\u2019re are non \u00e8 una persona che si arrende.<\/a> Lei \u00e8 un combattente. Altrimenti come avresti fatto ad arrivare cos\u00ec lontano nella vita?<\/p>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Some days you thought you were done. That you can\u2019t do it anymore and how you\u2019re going to lose it.<\/p>\n

But yet, here you are. Well and alive\u2014in your messy life, with your messy head but standing firmly on the ground.<\/p>\n

La cosa migliore \u00e8 che qualcuno verr\u00e0 a vedere tutto questo. Qualcuno vedr\u00e0 tutte le vostre battaglie, tutte le vostre lotte e tutte le volte che siete caduti, ma vi siete rialzati.<\/p>\n

Someone won\u2019t see you as a disaster but as someone who fights with all her strength to keep her head above the water.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno vi ammirer\u00e0<\/a> dal profondo del suo cuore. Qualcuno amer\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 che odiate di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno vedr\u00e0 le tue cicatrici e decider\u00e0 di baciarle. Qualcuno vedr\u00e0 tutto il tuo disordine e decider\u00e0 di restare.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t try to change you. He won\u2019t try to unmess you or solve your problems. He won\u2019t try to save you.<\/p>\n

He will  just be there to hold your hand, to show you he loves you despite what you think, to show you that you\u2019re an amazing human being despite the things you keep telling yourself.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Qualcuno entrer\u00e0 nella vostra vita, vedr\u00e0 il vostro disordine e rester\u00e0. Guarda il tuo disordine e ringrazia Dio per averti mandato a modo suo cos\u00ec come sei. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Qualcuno amer\u00e0 il vostro disordine pi\u00f9 di quanto qualcuno amerebbe le vostre perfezioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quel qualcuno aspetter\u00e0 fino a quando non ti sarai smascherato. Accetter\u00e0 i tuoi lati brutti con la stessa gioia con cui accetta i tuoi lati belli.<\/p>\n

And it doesn\u2019t matter if it takes you a lifetime to unmess yourself. It doesn\u2019t matter if you never unmess yourself.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll sign up for it, for all of it. He\u2019ll love you for it, for all of it.<\/p>\n

You will be loved just the way you are\u2014the lost you, the messy you, the you that even you don\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

Tutti i vostri difetti saranno amati, tutte le vostre cicatrici saranno baciate, tutte le vostre battaglie saranno ammirate.<\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s how we all deserve to be loved. You too, even if you have a hard time believing it at the moment.<\/p>\n

\"Potresti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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