{"id":13611,"date":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13611"},"modified":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","slug":"succede-che-la-brava-ragazza-venga-presa-in-giro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/succede-che-la-brava-ragazza-venga-presa-in-giro\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco cosa succede quando una brava ragazza viene presa in giro"},"content":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s generous and kind and caring and always there for those who need her. Even though she has a lot going on in her life, she\u2019s manages to be there for the people whom she loves no matter what.<\/p>\n

She never gives up on people and no matter what happens or how low someone falls, she\u2019ll be there, still, like the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s special, you know? She\u2019s one of those who love wholeheartedly. When she falls in love, she falls with her body, mind, and soul. She gives herself completely to the person she loves.<\/p>\n

Even though she\u2019s aware of the little imperfections and flaws, she always chooses to see the good in people and love them just the way they are.<\/p>\n

Essere come \u00e8, essere una brava ragazza<\/a>\u00e8 qualcosa che le viene naturale.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in her blood and it\u2019s something very hard to get rid of. It\u2019s not like she ever planned. But people often take it for granted.<\/p>\n

They use her kindness as if it will never get worn out. They call her in their lives when they need her, and they leave her alone when they no longer have any use of her\u2014until the next time.<\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t happen only once. People keep taking and taking without ever giving anything in return to her. And she doesn\u2019t mind because she\u2019s selfless. And because she\u2019s used to it.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 sopportare molte cose. Ma alcune di queste persone, a poco a poco, le spezzano il cuore.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She can\u2019t bear having someone giocare con lei<\/a> heart. She can\u2019t bear being someone\u2019s last resort<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t used to being let down by people she loves. She isn\u2019t used to hearing promises someone has no intentions to keep.<\/p>\n

There are people who aren\u2019t good to her no matter how much she gives to them.<\/p>\n

There are people who only use her and play with her and her feelings. And she can\u2019t draw the line between them\u2014, actually she\u2019s unable to do so because of the way she is.<\/p>\n

So they continue playing with her. They continue stretching her to the breaking point. And once they\u2019ve played her, everyone is at a loss.<\/p>\n

Quando una brava ragazza viene presa in giro, anche i suoi sentimenti vengono presi in giro.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che sentiva diventa cos\u00ec strano per lei. Qualsiasi cosa o persona avesse nel suo cuore diventa troppo dolorosa da tenere dentro e inizia a cancellare tutto.<\/p>\n

Comincia a chiudere i suoi sentimenti, perch\u00e9 provare qualcosa significa provare tutto, compreso il dolore. Lei lo chiude e basta.<\/p>\n

La sua fiducia viene meno.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'idea che le persone saranno buone con lei perch\u00e9 non vuole far loro del male inizia ad abbandonarla lentamente.<\/p>\n

L'idea che ci sia del buono in ognuno inizia a svanire.<\/p>\n

And when she decides to welcome someone new, to give that someone her trust, she can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

La sua bont\u00e0 le viene rubata.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she wanted to lose it. It\u2019s not like she had problems being the way she is. But obviously someone else did.<\/p>\n

Someone else didn\u2019t care how she feels or what happens to and with her.<\/p>\n

L'hanno presa in giro fino a farle perdere tutto il buono che c'era in lei.<\/p>\n

Cambia.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Everything in her shifts. She realizes she can\u2019t always be the one who ends up pulling the shorter end of the stick.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one giving and not getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one getting broken, and used and played in a relationship just because she\u2019s a good person.<\/p>\n

Inizia a costruire muri intorno a s\u00e9.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto quello che le \u00e8 successo, non sa pi\u00f9 di chi fidarsi.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t know whom she can let in her life and she\u2019s scared to make the same mistakes she did before.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she starts pushing everyone away. That\u2019s why she lifts her walls high and never lets anyone in.<\/p>\n

Diventa inavvicinabile.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Because of all the pain she\u2019s going through, she doesn\u2019t think straight. She hates herself for being so naive and for allowing people to use her as it pleases them.<\/p>\n

In tutto questo casino, diventa difficile parlare con lei.<\/p>\n

Her kind words are replaced with sarcastic comments and she just doesn\u2019t listen. Even those who try to approach her with their hearts in their hands can\u2019t come close to her.<\/p>\n

Tutti la perdono.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even those who were good to her lose her because she doesn\u2019t know who\u2019s good and who\u2019s bad.<\/p>\n

Credeva che tutti fossero buoni e questo le \u00e8 costato molto.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, per allontanarsi da quelli cattivi, sacrifica anche coloro che le vogliono bene.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>7 cose che succedono quando si perde una brava ragazza<\/a><\/p>\n

Inizia a essere l'eroe di se stessa.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Prima si affrettava sempre ad aiutare gli altri. Era sempre l\u00ec per salvare chi aveva bisogno e ora, quando li ha cancellati dalla sua vita, non ha pi\u00f9 nessuno da salvare.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she could save anyone when she\u2019s feels broken, too. She needs to save herself first.<\/p>\n

Tutta la bont\u00e0 che ha dato agli altri inizia a conservarla per s\u00e9.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Instead of giving it to those who\u2019d just use it and darlo per scontato<\/a>decide di essere buona con se stessa. Decide di fare cose per s\u00e9, di fare cose che la rendono felice e che la aiutano a crescere.<\/p>\n

A poco a poco inizia a imparare come comportarsi bene con se stessa.<\/p>\n

Impara alcune lezioni nel modo pi\u00f9 difficile.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even though she didn\u2019t sign up for these life classes, even though she didn\u2019t want to know, life showed her how life can be hard sometimes and how not all people are good.<\/p>\n

Forse le \u00e8 stata insegnata la strada pi\u00f9 difficile, ma almeno le lezioni che ha imparato saranno ben ricordate.<\/p>\n

Impara che compiacere tutti non le servir\u00e0 a nulla.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Essere buona l'ha resa felice, ma compiacere tutti gli altri alla fine non fa che prosciugarla fisicamente ed emotivamente.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 la gente non smette mai di prendere e lei non sa mai quando smettere di dare. Alla fine impara che compiacere tutti non le lascia il tempo di compiacere se stessa.<\/p>\n

Impara che deve farsi valere.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Those people won\u2019t be as good for her as she is for them.<\/p>\n

Che a volte ha bisogno di prendersi cura di se stessa prima di prendersi cura degli altri.<\/p>\n

She learns that it\u2019s okay to have an opinion that doesn\u2019t agree with everyone else\u2019s and that it\u2019s okay to say it out loud.<\/p>\n

Impara che non tutti sono buoni.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Just because she wouldn\u2019t play with other people\u2019s feelings, it doesn\u2019t mean that they wouldn\u2019t play with hers.<\/p>\n

Just because she\u2019d never hurt anyone deliberately, it doesn\u2019t mean they wouldn\u2019t hurt her.<\/p>\n

Non tutti sono buoni e le ci \u00e8 voluto un po' per accettarlo.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

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