{"id":13675,"date":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13675"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-non-si-riesce-a-trovare-lamore-nonostante-gli-sforzi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-non-si-riesce-a-trovare-lamore-nonostante-gli-sforzi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui non riuscite a trovare l'amore (anche se ci provate)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anche se essere single ha i suoi vantaggi e pu\u00f2 essere molto rassicurante, non siamo fatti per passare la nostra vita da soli. Siamo fatti per avere qualcuno al nostro fianco che ci aiuti quando ci sentiamo gi\u00f9 o con cui condividere i nostri momenti felici.<\/p>\n

Essere single<\/a> \u00e8 ottimo perch\u00e9 si pu\u00f2 usare quel tempo per dedicarsi a se stessi. Tutti noi dobbiamo trascorrere un certo periodo della nostra vita da soli. In quel periodo, vedremo chi siamo veramente e cosa vogliamo veramente.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re really trying to find love and it\u2019s not going the way you want, maybe there is something more to it. It\u2019s not you, you don\u2019t have to worry about that. You are lovable and you deserve to be loved, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that if you can\u2019t find love you will always be unable to find it. There is someone out there for you,waiting to be found. Maybe it just takes more time because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Take a look at why it\u2019s difficile per te trovare l'amore<\/a> non importa quanto ci si sforzi:<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re needy<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Vedete un uomo come qualcosa di cui avete davvero bisogno e gli uomini amano avere bisogno perch\u00e9 questo d\u00e0 loro un senso di importanza. Vogliono essere dei custodi, ma quando questo bisogno supera il limite, diventa eccessivo.<\/p>\n

You have to want a man and not need one. You\u2019re perfectly capable of being on your own and taking care of yourself and you don\u2019t have to have a man to fill that void you feel.<\/p>\n

A man will sense that and run away because he won\u2019t want to be tied down and restricted like that.<\/p>\n

Dovete rispettarvi di pi\u00f9 e avere pi\u00f9 autostima. Dovete sapere che tutto parte da voi. Se vi sentite uno schifo, invierete questo segnale e lo trasmetterete agli altri intorno a voi, che vi eviteranno.<\/p>\n

Se vi sentite meno degni, vi cercare una convalida<\/a> sotto forma di bisogno di qualcuno e gli uomini scapperanno da voi. Cercate di essere la versione migliore di voi stesse e il resto andr\u00e0 al suo posto.<\/p>\n

You fall for the ones you can\u2019t have<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you can\u2019t have them, it\u2019s that they are unavailable to you. Maybe they want to be with you, but something is in the way and the situation is far from ideal.<\/p>\n

Maybe they are still married, or they live far away from you. Whatever it is, don\u2019t force those kinds of relationships because you\u2019re going to end up hurt and alone.<\/p>\n

These kinds of men are the ones you can\u2019t have, so you might as well give up on them right now and save time. Focus on yourself and happiness will come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n

Siete insicuri<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti altri problemi che dovete risolvere da soli. Ci sono molte cose di voi che non sono chiare a voi, figuriamoci a qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

Avete ancora paura di fare una mossa, quindi vi chiudete in casa e sperate che qualcuno cada dal cielo solo per voi.<\/p>\n

Dovete uscire e trovare il coraggio di affrontare il mondo reale. Non appena abbatterete i vostri muri, vedrete la luce e tutto sar\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 facile.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to deal with rejection<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec ovvio: vi state sabotando da soli. Non appena le cose vanno per il verso giusto e trovate qualcuno che potreste amare, vi tirate indietro per qualche motivo inventato.<\/p>\n

You do this because you are afraid of getting hurt. You are afraid that he will reject you at some point. Well, look, all of it is a part of your life. Getting hurt is something we\u2019ve all been through and it made us stronger.<\/p>\n

It will make you stronger, too. It will turn you into the person you were supposed to be. So, don\u2019t be scared of rejection and open your heart because your heart is strong enough to take anything that life throws at it.<\/p>\n

Avete standard elevati<\/h2>\n

\"attraente<\/p>\n

Vi aspettate troppo dagli uomini. Devi capire che nessuno \u00e8 perfetto, n\u00e9 lui n\u00e9 tu. Lasciategli un po' di tregua perch\u00e9 se si sforza di conquistarvi, significa che ci tiene davvero a voi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t obsess over his flaws because you have flaws too and he finds a way to ignore them or look the other way. When you love someone, you love him because he is the way he is.<\/p>\n

He is not perfect and he doesn\u2019t have to be. He is unique, like you are. Therefore, lower your expectations and don\u2019t be so harsh.<\/p>\n

Prima di giudicare gli altri, guardate chi siete e come potete migliorare voi stessi.<\/p>\n

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