{"id":13688,"date":"2018-02-02T08:16:41","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T08:16:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13688"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:01","slug":"non-permettere-a-nessuno-di-rubare-il-tuono-del-viaggio-alla-scoperta-di-se-stessi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-permettere-a-nessuno-di-rubare-il-tuono-del-viaggio-alla-scoperta-di-se-stessi\/","title":{"rendered":"Non permettere a nessuno di rubarti il tuono - Un viaggio alla scoperta di se stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"

The teenage years are hard. Cliques and cliqu\u00e9s\u2014having to maintain a fa\u00e7ade of false confidence to fit in. Heaven forbid you say or do the wrong thing and your reputation is ruined. You spend a little more time primping in the bathroom and a little less time worrying about your studies.<\/p>\n

They are hard and for this reason: they leave a lasting impression that many women carry with them for the rest of their lives. Putting aside our true inner selves and morphing into what society wants becomes second nature. Only when we\u2019re alone in our car, behind closed doors, or otherwise sure we\u2019re alone do we dare focus on what\u2019s going on inside. Only when it\u2019s sicuro.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a tendency for women to get stuck in the same circles over and over again throughout the various stages of their lives. First, we try to blend in with the \u201ccool\u201d crowd. Then, it\u2019s the \u201cother cool crowd\u201d or \u201cparty crowd\u201d. After that, with a ring on our finger, it\u2019s the \u201cmarried crowd\u201d and post-baby, it\u2019s with the other moms. Women are social creatures by nature, and we\u2019re forever trying to define our social circles.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9?<\/strong> <\/em>Per allontanare i sentimenti negativi di distacco e di solitudine<\/a>. It can be terrifying to feel alone, misunderstood, or unacknowledged. It\u2019s much easier to be \u201ca part of\u201d than \u201capart from\u201d. This is a concept that\u2019s instilled in us early on in life, and unfortunately, oftentimes, it takes tragedy or an otherwise extreme life event to center us and bring us back to what matters most \u2013 noi stessi.<\/strong><\/em> For, it\u2019s amid tragedy that we\u2019re often made to realize who are true allies are or are forced into realizing that at the end of the day, siamo essenzialmente soli.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is why, although there is much devastation attached to tragedy, there can also be immense healing and self-discovery. Once you are propelled through a journey back to self, you\u2019ll never return to who you were before. Those who have completed the process feel \u2018full\u2019 for the first time, maybe ever. They feel courageous and complete, comfortable in their own skins.<\/p>\n

Of course, this evolution doesn\u2019t have to stem from a traumatic event. We can all choose to wake up one day and say Quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo.<\/strong><\/em> It\u2019s never too late to hit the restart button and choose to love ourselves. All we need is a little motivation to inspire us, and perhaps a few extra minutes of quiet time.<\/p>\n

Quando capiamo chi siamo e cosa ci fa scattare, iniziano ad accadere alcune cose meravigliose. Creiamo un effetto domino di energia positiva:<\/p>\n

Cominciamo a concentrarci su obiettivi allineati con ci\u00f2 che ci rende felici.<\/strong> <\/em>Maybe you love your mom\u2019s club, your book club, attending Toastmasters, and playing online trivia. Cool. These are things vuoi<\/strong> <\/em>in life\u2014not what others want for you. This is very important. Keep doing what you love and loving what you do, and this will be evident, so evident that\u2026<\/p>\n

Realizziamo la legge dell'attrazione.<\/strong><\/em> We become more positive when we\u2019re happy with ourselves and the journey we\u2019re on. And, this is evident to others. The law of attraction says that by focusing on positivity or negativity, we bring positive or negative experiences into our lives. Thus, point three\u2026<\/p>\n

Proiettiamo la felicit\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em>We\u2019re so filled with positive energy, that this energy almost visibility illuminates our steps. Everyone can\u2019t help but notice, so\u2026<\/p>\n

Attiriamo gli altri.<\/strong> <\/em>Positive energy is contagious, and people start asking how they can get in on your secret. It\u2019s hard not to notice you\u2019re killin\u2019 it, and they want what you\u2019re having.<\/p>\n

Attirando la positivit\u00e0, i nostri sogni diventano realt\u00e0.<\/strong> <\/em>Credere in se stessi<\/a> is the first step to fulfilling even your most fantastic goals. If you project confidence, others will see this, and they\u2019ll believe in you, too. When others believe in you, you are presented with opportunities. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

Choosing to start this journey is like choosing to embark on a positive, self-fulfilling prophecy, much as deciding to disengage from self and continue trying to \u201cfit in\u201d is like accepting a path of discontentment. We are all faced with decisions, large or small, throughout our lives. At the end of the day, the choice is yours.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0Sara E. Teller<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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