{"id":13692,"date":"2020-09-02T08:37:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-02T08:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13692"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:02:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:02:10","slug":"ha-dato-molto-tempo-fa-ora-girare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-dato-molto-tempo-fa-ora-girare\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti sei arreso molto tempo fa - ora tocca a me"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hai rinunciato a me quando didn\u2019t put me as your prior<\/a><\/strong>it\u00e0<\/a> pi\u00f9.<\/strong> Quando non ero pi\u00f9 importante per te.<\/p>\n

When everything else came before me. When you didn\u2019t care where I was or what I was doing.<\/p>\n

Quando altre persone erano pi\u00f9 in alto di me nella tua lista di priorit\u00e0. Io ero quello che avrebbe dovuto essere in cima alla tua lista e in qualche modo continuavo ad essere l'ultimo.<\/p>\n

Hai rinunciato a me quando hai permesso che il tuo amore svanisse.<\/strong> When you got bored, when you didn\u2019t want to try new things.<\/p>\n

When you counted on that love we got in the very beginning to stay there forever and that you didn\u2019t have to do anything about it anymore.<\/p>\n

Continuavo a trovare nuovi motivi per innamorarmi di te e nuovi modi per dimostrartelo. Hai scelto di vivere nella gloria della tua vecchia fama.<\/p>\n

Hai rinunciato a me quando si \u00e8 rifiutato di impegnarsi concretamente<\/a> nella nostra relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era pi\u00f9 divertente stare a casa che uscire. Era pi\u00f9 interessante ordinare a casa che cucinare insieme.<\/p>\n

Era sempre pi\u00f9 interessante passare del tempo con gli altri che pensare a come passare del tempo di qualit\u00e0 da soli con me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Why bother doing anything when we\u2019re already together?<\/p>\n

Niente pi\u00f9 fiori, niente pi\u00f9 sms di buongiorno, niente pi\u00f9 baci della buonanotte, niente pi\u00f9 seduzione. Ci hai permesso di cadere nella routine delle vecchie coppie quando eravamo tutt'altro che vecchi.<\/p>\n

Hai rinunciato a me quando \u00e8 diventato irrilevante per te perdermi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When nothing I did was important to you anymore. When you didn\u2019t care where I was, whom I was with or how much I was hurting.<\/p>\n

When you didn\u2019t care if I stayed or if I left. You gave up on me in such a way that it made me wonder if I was ever really important to you.<\/p>\n

Ho fatto di tutto per tenerci insieme.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ho lottato a lungo e ho lottato fino a quando non ho avuto pi\u00f9 aria nei polmoni, non ho avuto pi\u00f9 forza per rialzarmi, fino a quando sono diventata troppo stanca anche solo per formare una frase nella mia testa.<\/p>\n

E anche allora i miei polmoni continuavano a respirare per te, le mie gambe correvano verso di te, le mie braccia erano aperte solo per te e l'unica persona che avevo in testa eri tu.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ti ho sempre pensato, ho cercato di escogitare nuovi modi per farmi vedere da te, per farti notare quanto mi stessi impegnando e quanto ci tenessi.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t appreciate me. <\/strong><\/span>You didn\u2019t care that I was always there for you. My efforts meant nothing to you.<\/p>\n

Nothing I ever did was important and nothing I did could wake the old you. It\u2019s like that guy I fell for was long-lost, only I was too blind to see it.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t care less if I was happy or miserable. <\/strong><\/span>Tutto ci\u00f2 che stava accadendo mi stava aprendo il cuore.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t care if I was miserable or how much I was hurting or every time I saw that I didn\u2019t matter to you as much as I did before.<\/p>\n

That I didn\u2019t mean to you half as much as you meant to me.<\/p>\n

Ti sei stufato di tutto cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

E tu non hai fatto nulla al riguardo. Hai lasciato andare tutto come se nulla fosse sacro per te, come se quello che avevamo passato non significasse nulla per te.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno si mette in tasca una pietra, dopo un po' di tempo finisce per crescere nel suo cuore, ma non con voi.<\/p>\n

Tutto \u00e8 qualsiasi cosa per voi, tutto \u00e8 temporaneo e dopo un po' non diverte pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t have that luxury, you know.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Because I\u2019m different. And when I love, I love all the way. I don\u2019t allow myself to get tired, I don\u2019t let myself get bored and I never give up.<\/p>\n

Continuo a lottare finch\u00e9 c'\u00e8 qualcosa per cui lottare. Finch\u00e9 avr\u00e0 un senso. Ho lottato disperatamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ho lottato per te come se la mia vita dipendesse da questo. Ho provato e ho continuato a provare.<\/p>\n

Ho continuato a trovare speranza dove nessuno pensava di guardare, sono rimasto al tuo fianco quando chiunque altro se ne sarebbe andato molto tempo fa.<\/p>\n

I refused to believe that your love came with an expiration date. But I\u2019m done being so blind.<\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize I shouldn\u2019t fight for a man who\u2019s already got one leg out of the door.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Non mi hai abbandonato perch\u00e9 ho fatto qualcosa di sbagliato. Non mi hai abbandonato perch\u00e9 ero troppo appiccicoso o perch\u00e9 ti avevo deluso.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Vi stavate arrendendo perch\u00e9 impegnarsi con una sola persona significa impegnarsi ogni singolo giorno per mantenere vivo l'amore. E questo \u00e8 troppo per te.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s my turn to give up.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay, I understand. You got bored, you didn\u2019t want to try anymore, you saw what I brought to the table and you hoped things would be great even when you stopped trying.<\/p>\n

And when they weren\u2019t, instead of waking up, avete deciso di arrendervi.<\/a><\/p>\n

Now it\u2019s my turn to give up<\/a>. Now it\u2019s my turn smettere di combattere<\/a> for someone who doesn\u2019t want to stay, for someone who doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on my daily task of being the only one who actually cares. Now it\u2019s my turn to do to you exactly what you did to me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll just save my efforts for someone who will notice them. I\u2019ll just save my love for those who won\u2019t take it for granted.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ll fight for someone who won\u2019t give up on me so easily.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>Ecco come si arrender\u00e0 con voi<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You gave up on me when you didn\u2019t put me as your priority anymore. When I was no longer important to you. When everything else came before me. When you didn\u2019t care where I was or what I was doing. When other people were higher on your priority list than me. I was the one…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120067,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/You-Gave-Up-A-Long-Time-Ago-Now-Its-My-Turn-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13692"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120067"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}