{"id":13711,"date":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13711"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","slug":"il-ragazzo-7-cose-non-se-ne-frega","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-7-cose-non-se-ne-frega\/","title":{"rendered":"Se il vostro uomo fa queste 7 cose, non gliene frega niente di voi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nel profondo, tutti noi desideriamo l'amore. Vogliamo essere amati perch\u00e9 non siamo stati progettati per essere soli.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 un bisogno insaziabile che dobbiamo soddisfare, un bisogno di amore e di compagnia.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s hard to be alone, but believe me, it is better being alone than in an unhappy relationship, pretending that you are happy.<\/p>\n<p>No one deserves to be someone\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-verita-rifiuta-il-piano-di-riserva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">piano di backup<\/a> perch\u00e9 ognuno di noi ha la sua corrispondenza e deve trovarla.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t settle and don\u2019t be blind on purpose to avoid being alone.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him fool you by pretending to love you. That is not love, that is nothing but the pain you will feel at some point. Believe me, you\u2019re better off alone.<\/p>\n<p>Meritate qualcuno che vi dimostri che vi ama. Meritate qualcuno che sostenga le sue parole e non le lanci in aria senza senso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/preferisco-rimanere-single-scegliere-di-accontentarmi-meno-di-meritare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Preferisco rimanere single piuttosto che scegliere di accontentarmi di meno di quello che mi merito<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Se pensate di non essere la sua prima scelta, leggete questi segnali per essere sicuri e scaricate il suo culo dispiaciuto:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Vi mette in imbarazzo in pubblico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che mette in imbarazzo la sua ragazza in pubblico\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you have a situation in public and he is there with you. If he doesn\u2019t take your side and stick up for you, his feelings for you are not real.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to defend someone he allegedly loves, there is something wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Or if he does something to embarrass you, tells a joke at your expense or wants to look like a big shot in front of his friends by making snarky comments about you, he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente si tratta di qualcosa di secondario, per ammazzare il tempo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lascia-un-uomo-che-non-ti-merita\/\">Lasciatelo immediatamente<\/a> perch\u00e9 vi meritate molto di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<h2>2. He doesn\u2019t bother to kiss and make up after a fight<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che usa il telefono di notte mentre \u00e8 sdraiata sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sei tu quella che fa sempre la prima mossa? Immagino che tu prenda sempre il telefono per prima e gli mandi un messaggio o lo chiami dopo esserti calmata.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, it\u2019s completely normal that couples fight, but if you are always the one who makes it all better, then something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>It can\u2019t be that he is that stubborn that he doesn\u2019t want to be the one to say sorry first.<\/p>\n<p>To test if he is just stubborn or he couldn\u2019t care less if you make up or not, next time you have a fight, don\u2019t touch your phone after you cool off.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che sia lui a fare la prima mossa e vedete quanto tempo ci metter\u00e0 e se si prender\u00e0 la briga di rispondere al telefono o di presentarsi per primo.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t, there\u2019s your reason to dump the bastard who only wastes your time.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Vuole che cambiate il vostro aspetto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded.jpg\" alt=\"Un uomo e una donna sono in piedi, separatamente, con le braccia conserte.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you what to wear and what not to wear.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you how to do your make-up, or whether it is too much or not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete avere il controllo della vostra vita e prendere le decisioni che vi riguardano.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to wear revealing clothes or clothes that cover you up, there shouldn\u2019t be anyone who has the power to stop you. If he does these things to you, you don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Vi presenta come un amico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo sorridente di amici seduti su una panchina del parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, questa \u00e8 un'enorme bandiera rossa! Quando ti porta fuori e ti presenta alla sua famiglia o ai suoi amici con il tuo nome o, peggio ancora, come sua amica, sicuramente non sei la sua ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably embarrassed of you, your behavior or the way you look, but the most common reason is that he is just terrified of commitment and you don\u2019t need that. You need a real man who will be proud of having you as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n<h2>5. \u00c8 violento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92125\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta a tavola che discute\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nessuno ha il diritto di farvi del male in alcun modo, soprattutto fisicamente o emotivamente.<\/p>\n<p>Alcuni uomini sono dei veri e propri codardi e si nascondono dietro un'apparenza da duri, mentre la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che sono cos\u00ec deboli e insicuri.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, dimostrano la loro forza scagliandosi contro coloro che ritengono pi\u00f9 deboli di loro. Se vi mette le mani addosso, lasciatelo subito.<\/p>\n<p>You mustn\u2019t endure violence\u2014no one should. You shouldn\u2019t be afraid of anyone, let alone a wuss like him.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Non c'\u00e8 mai per te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che si ignora nel salotto di casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have no support whatsoever. When something is bothering you and you\u2019re feeling down, he should be there for you to make you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t even have to say anything, it\u2019s enough that he is by your side. He should next to you and listen to what you want to get off your chest.<\/p>\n<p>If he disappears in the times when you need him the most, then sorry, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you or your problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-e-mai-stato-necessario-andarsene\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Me ne vado perch\u00e9 non c'eri mai quando avevo bisogno di te<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. Evita di parlare del futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92127\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"coppia uomo e donna seduti sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti i fobici dell'impegno lo fanno. Li spaventa parlare del vostro futuro insieme perch\u00e9 non vi vedono nel loro.<\/p>\n<p>For now, you are something casual and he doesn\u2019t want to be too attached.<\/p>\n<p>Se si parla del vostro futuro insieme, lui eviter\u00e0 di parlarne o cambier\u00e0 argomento. Se continuate a insistere, si infastidisce e si arrabbia.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro uomo lo fa spesso, allora non fa per voi. Lasciatelo e datevi un'altra possibilit\u00e0 di amare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92117\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se il vostro uomo fa queste 7 cose, non gliene frega niente di voi\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deep inside, we all crave love. We all want to be loved because we weren\u2019t designed to be alone. There is this insatiable need that we have to satisfy, a need for love and company. It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":92118,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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