{"id":137193,"date":"2021-10-27T20:34:39","date_gmt":"2021-10-27T20:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137193"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:20:38","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:20:38","slug":"il-mio-matrimonio-e-finito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-matrimonio-e-finito\/","title":{"rendered":"Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito? 32 segnali di allarme di un'unione coniugale infelice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage might just be the most sacred relationship of all. You love someone so much that you&#8217;re prepared to vow that you&#8217;ll belong to them for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When we start doubting the vows we&#8217;ve once made, it seems like the whole world is crashing down around us. We may even start believing that no love will ever last.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Quando \u00e8 andato tutto storto e perch\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito? Come posso rimediare?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se desiderate trovare le vostre risposte ed essere in grado di riconoscere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/17-segni-di-un-matrimonio-infelice-e-come-risolverlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">segni di un cattivo matrimonio<\/a>, do read on. I\u2019m sure that by the end of this article, you&#8217;ll know exactly what to do.<\/p>\n<h2>Come capire quando il matrimonio \u00e8 finito? 32 segni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137195 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Come fate a sapere quando i problemi tra voi e il vostro coniuge hanno raggiunto il punto di non ritorno?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c8 possibile riconoscere quando il vostro matrimonio non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 salvabile?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, even when you&#8217;re aware of the answers, it&#8217;s difficult to admit to yourself that the life you&#8217;ve built with someone might soon break up. But, since you&#8217;re here, you might be ready to finally face the facts.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how you can know if your marriage is breaking up:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Non vi piacete pi\u00f9.<\/h3>\n<p>Uno dei pi\u00f9 evidenti<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-che-il-vostro-matrimonio-finira-con-un-divorzio\/\"> segni di un matrimonio fallito<\/a> is when you don&#8217;t enjoy each other for who you are anymore. <strong>Tutte le caratteristiche che vi hanno spinto a sposarli prima sono diventate poco attraenti e irritanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Forse li amate ancora profondamente, ma non riuscite a farveli piacere. Questi due sentimenti non sono comunque correlati.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you care about someone&#8217;s well-being and would do anything for them doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that you like them as a person.<\/p>\n<h3>2. You don&#8217;t spend a lot of time together.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Avete notato che siete sempre meno in compagnia del vostro coniuge? Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, potrebbe esserci un problema.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not always our desire to be away from them. Sometimes, other things get in the way. For instance, if you work constantly, you&#8217;ll naturally be dedicated to your job.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D'altra parte, se avete molto tempo libero eppure non ne trovate per il vostro coniuge, questo potrebbe essere uno dei motivi per cui il vostro matrimonio non \u00e8 ancora finito. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-un-matrimonio-senza-amore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">segni di un matrimonio infelice e senza amore<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Non importa quale sia il motivo, alla fine la mancanza di tempo di qualit\u00e0 insieme porta alla distruzione del matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Il ritorno a casa \u00e8 un incubo.<\/h3>\n<p>A volte, passare del tempo lontano da casa pu\u00f2 farci sentire benedetti, perch\u00e9 ogni volta che si arriva ci si sente male.<\/p>\n<p>There doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be an actual issue at hand, but you sense that something is terribly wrong. Things just aren&#8217;t what they once were.<\/p>\n<p>Forse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-mi-rivolta-tutto-contro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vostro marito vi rivolta contro tutto<\/a>, or you\u2019re dealing with what\u2019s known as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-modi-efficaci\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201ccrazy wife\u201d syndrome<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You both feel it, but you can&#8217;t quite put your finger on it. Simply put \u2013 the connection you once felt seems to have perished.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Avete paura di tornare a casa perch\u00e9 vi fa capire quanto siete infelici, quindi trovate sempre dei motivi per stare lontani.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Si combatte sempre.<\/h3>\n<p>Il conflitto \u00e8 un evento normale. I problemi sorgono solo quando diventano troppo frequenti.<\/p>\n<p><em>Litigate con il vostro coniuge quasi ogni giorno?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ogni cosa \u00e8 un motivo per urlare?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If so, that&#8217;s a warning sign.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>In healthy relationships, people pick up on problems together in order to solve them. That&#8217;s the main goal \u2013 to find a solution.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But, if all you do is fight, there might be a much bigger problem hiding underneath. You\u2019re slowly but surely entering the zone of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-affrontare-un-coniuge-negativo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Affrontare un coniuge negativo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>5. You don&#8217;t fight at all.<\/h3>\n<p>Fighting every day may be unhealthy, but so is the lack of it. You might be surprised by this sign, but it&#8217;s actually a rather important one.<\/p>\n<p><em>Perch\u00e9? Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito quando si arriva a questo punto?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, il fatto di non voler avere alcun tipo di discussione con il proprio coniuge indica una mancanza di interesse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about it. When two people care about each other, they eventually want to work through their issues. Even if there&#8217;s a period of silence, they come back to each other. Not their pride nor any problem in existence takes precedence over their spouse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro caso \u00e8 diverso, voi e il vostro partner potreste non essere pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec interessati l'uno all'altro.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Ci si arrabbia solo a guardarli.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Il vostro coniuge vi irrita per il solo fatto di esistere?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ogni parola che esce dalla loro bocca \u00e8 esasperante?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Vi sentite come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/marito-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Suo marito \u00e8 cattivo con lei<\/a> 24\/7? O che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/odio-mia-moglie\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">odi tua moglie<\/a> (senza alcun motivo apparente)?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you see your spouse this way for no particular reason, that&#8217;s a sign. It could be that you&#8217;ve bottled up your emotions for years, and they&#8217;ve started manifesting this way.<\/p>\n<p>Even when it seems like there&#8217;s no reason for how you feel, there always is. Whatever yours is, the bottom line is that you&#8217;re not satisfied with your marriage. Contemplate your reasons, and act accordingly.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Rifiutate le scuse.<\/h3>\n<p>Refusing to say that you&#8217;re sorry for your actions might stem from two things: emotional immaturity and lack of respect.<\/p>\n<p>Some people truly are incapable of comprehending that sometimes it&#8217;s their fault. They constantly perceive themselves as the victim. If this is either you or your spouse, you might consider seeking professional help, e.g., couples counseling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>However, if you ARE aware that you&#8217;re the one at fault and are still not ready to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/a>Questo dimostra solo quanto poco vi importa del vostro partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando si ama veramente qualcuno, il proprio ego non vincer\u00e0 mai, almeno non in casi gravi come questo.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Tutti i bei tempi sono svaniti.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Quando pensate al vostro matrimonio, vi vengono in mente solo brutti ricordi?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tutti i buoni hanno perso il loro significato?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If the answer is yes, that&#8217;s another sign <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lista-di-controllo-per-il-divorzio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">potresti prendere in considerazione l'idea di smettere di lavorare<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, we&#8217;re going to have all kinds of experiences, each of those equally valuable. The problems we&#8217;ve gone through will help us improve as a couple, and the marvelous times will serve as a reminder that the marriage really is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se non riuscite pi\u00f9 a vedere quest'ultimo aspetto, potreste non considerare pi\u00f9 voi e il vostro partner una coppia perfetta.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You aren&#8217;t friends anymore.<\/h3>\n<p>As Laura Hendricks once said: &#8221;Love is friendship set on fire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>Cosa pensate che vi rimanga quando perdete l'amicizia?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Il romanticismo \u00e8 sufficiente a tenere in piedi il matrimonio? E se anche questo scompare?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you pretended to be someone you&#8217;re not for them to like you at the beginning of the relationship. But, you can&#8217;t pretend forever because, eventually, you get tired.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s one way of losing your friendship \u2013 revealing your true nature. No matter how you lost it, though, it&#8217;s a crucial element in any relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Ascoltate ci\u00f2 che vi dice il vostro corpo.<\/h3>\n<p>Your marriage might be over if your body is telling you it&#8217;s over.<\/p>\n<p><em>Non sorridete pi\u00f9 in presenza del vostro partner?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Do you tremble every time you see them because you know they&#8217;ll start a fight?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, your body is sending you messages that you&#8217;re having a hard time receiving. Listen to what it has to say.<strong> Se non vi sentite pi\u00f9 a vostro agio e non fate pi\u00f9 battute davanti a loro, il legame potrebbe essere ormai lontano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t even laugh at those hilarious <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/45-battute-esilaranti-su-marito-e-moglie\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">barzellette tra marito e moglie<\/a>, then you know something\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n<h3>11. You don&#8217;t care about each other&#8217;s problems.<\/h3>\n<p>When your partner has no desire to hear you vent nor the desire to help you solve your problem, that&#8217;s a clear sign that they don&#8217;t hold you in high regard.<\/p>\n<p><em>Allora il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>La mancanza di un sistema di supporto emotivo pu\u00f2 persino farvi soccombere a una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fasi-delle-vicende-emotive\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">relazione emotiva<\/a>. Since your partner can&#8217;t provide you with what you signed up for, you desperately look for it elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Know that there&#8217;s no need for any <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-si-intende-per-imbroglio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tipo di infedelt\u00e0<\/a>. If you&#8217;re unhappy and you think your wife or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-dolorosi-che-il-marito-non-ama\/\">husband doesn&#8217;t love you<\/a>\u00a0pi\u00f9, andatevene.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00ec, \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec semplice perch\u00e9 a volte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tagliare-fuori-le-persone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tagliare fuori le persone dalla propria vita<\/a> \u00e8 l'unica cosa ragionevole da fare. Continuare a vivere una vita insoddisfacente porta solo a un'altra vita uguale.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. You&#8217;re not each other&#8217;s priority.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Avete notato che il vostro coniuge non vi ascolta mai quando parlate?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Tutto il resto \u00e8 in qualche modo pi\u00f9 rilevante?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se cos\u00ec fosse, potrebbe essere un segno che il vostro matrimonio sta andando in pezzi. <strong>If you don&#8217;t have a spouse that not only pays attention to your words but also excitedly anticipates them, you&#8217;re bound to feel alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, if you notice that something as irrelevant as a video game is continuously more important to them than a conversation with you, that&#8217;s yet another red flag, but beware that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-ultimatum-nelle-relazioni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dare ultimatum<\/a> non \u00e8 un'opzione.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Non avete pi\u00f9 interessi comuni.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>You don&#8217;t really have to have a lot in common to be compatible with someone. But, there still have to be some similarities that allow you to co-exist in love and curiosity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If your free time activities differ greatly, so much so that you don&#8217;t know what to talk about anymore, that may be a sign.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, not every marriage will be ruined by such a trivial thing. However, if you&#8217;re the type of person that really cares about this, it&#8217;s not so trivial at all. Only you know your idea of a good marriage.<\/p>\n<h3>14. You&#8217;re sad all the time.<\/h3>\n<p><em>What&#8217;s a more obvious sign of an unhappy union than being constantly sad?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you notice that you don&#8217;t have even a moment of peace, whether it&#8217;s due to arguments or lack of communication altogether, it might be time to do something about it.<\/p>\n<p>Talk it out with your spouse, but if you never seem to agree, perhaps it&#8217;s time for a more drastic change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Just make sure you don&#8217;t stay in the cycle of grief because time is flying by, and we don&#8217;t live forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>15. You&#8217;re in love with someone else.<\/h3>\n<p><em>L'amore per il vostro partner \u00e8 svanito? Aspettate, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/34-segni-non-ama-piu\/\">il vostro partner vi ricambia<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Avete sviluppato sentimenti per qualcuno al di fuori del vostro matrimonio?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Se lo avete fatto, questo potrebbe causare una grave frattura nella vostra relazione. Il fatto che vi siate rivolti emotivamente a un'altra persona dimostra che non vi sentite pi\u00f9 legati al vostro partner o viceversa.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro partner \u00e8 freddo nei vostri confronti, potreste cercare conforto altrove.<\/p>\n<h3>16. You&#8217;d be fine with your spouse finding someone else.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Vi capita mai di immaginare il vostro coniuge tra le braccia di qualcun altro?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>L'idea non vi disturba?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If so, that&#8217;s a major sign that you&#8217;re no longer romantically interested in them. <strong>The mere fact that you have these ideas indicates that you feel trapped in your marriage. You\u2019re seeking escape through your imagination.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow yourself to stay in a loveless marriage. If you really want to, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-togliersi-dalla-testa-qualcuno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">andare avanti<\/a>. Dopo tutto, abbiamo una sola vita.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Having kids isn&#8217;t a mutual desire.<\/h3>\n<p>The wish to have kids or lack thereof can be a sign you and your spouse aren&#8217;t so compatible after all. Perhaps they aren\u2019t too enthusiastic about being a parental figure, whereas you see no greater joy.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t possibly imagine a home without children roaming around. On the other hand, your spouse almost sees them as a burden, simply wishing for some peace and quiet. That can be one of the reasons you or your wife\/<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-vuole-il-divorzio-ma-io-lo-amo-ancora\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">il marito vuole il divorzio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While you shouldn&#8217;t force them into having the same opinion, you can&#8217;t wait for them to change either. In the end, you&#8217;ll have to make a choice: them or your ideal life? Can you even have an ideal life without them?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Solo voi potete rispondere a questa domanda.<\/p>\n<h3>18. I metodi di educazione dei figli sono diversi.<\/h3>\n<p>Forse non siete assolutamente d'accordo sul modo in cui il vostro coniuge vuole crescere i vostri figli e lo vedete come una bandiera rossa. Forse il vostro coniuge vuole disciplinare i figli e costringerli all'obbedienza, mentre voi volete gestire con delicatezza i loro comportamenti sbagliati.<\/p>\n<p>Or, maybe their treatment of children depends on whether it&#8217;s a girl or boy, and you don&#8217;t want your kids to grow up in a sexist household.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste considerare di rivolgervi a un terapeuta familiare.<\/p>\n<p><em>Questo pu\u00f2 essere un segno o meno, come tutto il resto. Alla fine, conta solo l'importanza che una cosa ha per VOI.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>19. Manca l'entusiasmo per il futuro.<\/h3>\n<p>Di solito entriamo in un'unione matrimoniale perch\u00e9 speriamo che ogni giorno con il nostro coniuge porti una felicit\u00e0 perpetua. Scegliamo un certo partner perch\u00e9 crediamo sinceramente di poterlo raggiungere con lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, quando si inizia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-cose-da-fare-se-vi-manca-di-rispetto-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sentirsi non rispettati<\/a> e non amati, la prospettiva di un'unione felice cambia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you start feeling like every day is absolute torture, and you cease to have any hope for the future, that&#8217;s a telltale sign of an unhappy marriage life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You start accepting that this is it, and it&#8217;s not going to get any better. The excitement you had at the beginning has completely vanished.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Avete una vita familiare complessivamente infelice.<\/h3>\n<p>It could be that you&#8217;ve moved to your husband&#8217;s family home, and you utterly dislike his family members, or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-sceglie-la-sua-famiglia-invece-di-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sceglie la sua famiglia invece di te<\/a>. You can&#8217;t stand that her son is always on her side, even when she&#8217;s obviously mistreating you.<\/p>\n<p>Or, perhaps you&#8217;re unable to have children, which disrupted your primary plans, and now you&#8217;re not quite sure what to do.<\/p>\n<p><em>Qualunque sia la vostra situazione, il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che avere una vita familiare senza gioia \u00e8 un problema serio. Quindi, assicuratevi di non reprimere i vostri sentimenti.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>21. You&#8217;ve suffered domestic violence.<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon to experience physical abuse by your spouse. You may feel helpless, like there&#8217;s no possible way out, especially if you depend on them financially.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, se il vostro coniuge vi sminuisce continuamente, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gaslighting-8-esempi-di-abuso-mentale-brutale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">che ti illumina a gas<\/a>e facendo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-senti-come-se-non-fossi-abbastanza-bravo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you feel like you&#8217;re not good enough<\/a>Questo costituisce un abuso emotivo e potrebbe avere gravi conseguenze sulla vostra salute mentale.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se riconoscete qualche segno di comportamento dannoso nel vostro matrimonio, potreste voler contattare un avvocato divorzista.<\/strong> It might be hard to be all on your own, especially if you have kids, but it&#8217;s not impossible to find an alternative. Don&#8217;t you deserve a better life than this?<\/p>\n<h3>22. You&#8217;re too different.<\/h3>\n<p>You often hear people say that the ideal couple is one where the partners are complete opposites. If you talk too much, it attracts you that they&#8217;re quiet. If you always visit the same places, you&#8217;re intrigued by someone with an adventurous spirit.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t entirely inaccurate.<strong> Potreste sentirvi incuriositi da una persona cos\u00ec diversa da voi. Tuttavia, passare una vita con lui \u00e8 un'altra cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/28-segni-che-dimostrano-che-sei-un-romantico-senza-speranza\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you&#8217;re a hopeless romantic<\/a> che desidera costantemente trascorrere del tempo nella natura e fare picnic, avere un coniuge freddo che preferisce cene eleganti potrebbe non soddisfare i vostri ideali.<\/p>\n<p>Anche in questo caso, le persone sono capaci di compromessi e ogni situazione \u00e8 diversa. Questo segno potrebbe o non potrebbe applicarsi a voi.<\/p>\n<h3>23. Avete una vita sessuale insoddisfacente.<\/h3>\n<p>Un altro segno di un matrimonio infelice potrebbe essere un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nessuna-intimita-nel-matrimonio-da-parte-della-moglie\/\">mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/a>. Il vostro coniuge non riesce pi\u00f9 a soddisfarvi, oppure il rapporto d'amore \u00e8 del tutto inesistente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, we are sexual beings, and the desire for sexual intercourse is engraved in almost all of us. If your spouse isn&#8217;t able to fulfill that desire, that might be a problem for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Ma si pu\u00f2 superare? Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito quando si tratta di questo?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, not if you decide that it isn&#8217;t. However, if you aren&#8217;t prepared to solve it together as a couple, that&#8217;s where the real issue comes in.<\/p>\n<h3>24. Uno di voi \u00e8 infedele.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>La mancanza di sesso pu\u00f2 anche indicare che una delle due parti sta soddisfacendo i propri bisogni sessuali altrove.<\/strong> La relazione potrebbe anche essere di tipo emotivo. In ogni caso, se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-catturare-un-traditore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">il vostro coniuge \u00e8 infedele,<\/a> there&#8217;s no greater sign that it&#8217;s time to let them go.<\/p>\n<p>Some people may be prepared to work through their issues, even if it&#8217;s as grave as this.<\/p>\n<p><em>However, if you find that you&#8217;re unable to forgive, don&#8217;t stay with them only for the sake of marriage. That will only increase your resentment as well as the overall unhappiness of your relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>25. Avete grandi aspettative l'uno nei confronti dell'altro.<\/h3>\n<p>Non sopporta che suo marito non sia un principe delle favole?<\/p>\n<p>Non gli va a genio che lei sia troppo autoritaria?<\/p>\n<p>Qualsiasi aspettativa abbiate l'uno per l'altro, sta rovinando tutto il bene che potreste avere se solo imparaste a lasciarla andare.<\/p>\n<p>What you need to do is realize that you&#8217;re both human, and we are bound to be flawed. <strong>Reject the idea of a perfect individual because it doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/aspettative-in-una-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Stabilire aspettative sane<\/a> e amatevi cos\u00ec come siete.<\/p>\n<h3>26. You feel like you&#8217;re suffocating.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Ogni giorno \u00e8 pi\u00f9 infelice di quello precedente?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Non sopportate pi\u00f9 tutto ci\u00f2 che il vostro coniuge rappresenta?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Onestamente, se nessuna delle due parti riesce pi\u00f9 a essere se stessa, forse \u00e8 il caso di ripensare al proprio matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, you&#8217;ve pledged your love to this person. It&#8217;s supposed to be &#8221;till death do us part,&#8221; right?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Those pledges aren&#8217;t worth anything if you have to conceal any part of yourselves, especially when you have to do it for YEARS. That&#8217;s a major deal-breaker.<\/p>\n<h3>27. Tutto il lavoro ricade su di voi.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Do you always do the housework even though you&#8217;re employed as well?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Siete obbligati a prendere da soli tutte le decisioni importanti per la vostra vita?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If so, it&#8217;s understandable you feel exhausted. Reciprocity is one of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/principali-regole-di-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">le principali regole di relazione<\/a> per un'unione sana. Tutto il lavoro va diviso equamente, quindi cercate di comunicare le vostre opinioni al coniuge.<\/p>\n<p>If they&#8217;re unable to understand, or if they don&#8217;t even try to, that&#8217;s your cue. <strong>Trust me \u2013 you don&#8217;t want someone who doesn&#8217;t care enough to make things a little bit easier for you.<\/strong> You don&#8217;t have to carry the whole world on your shoulders.<\/p>\n<h3>28. Nascondete al mondo la vostra infelicit\u00e0.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Postate costantemente foto su Facebook in cui sembrate entrambi felici?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Vi vantate di quanto siete fortunati ad aver incontrato il vostro coniuge?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you do, that might be your way of convincing not others but yourself that you aren&#8217;t as unhappy as you really are.<\/p>\n<p>You refuse to let your true emotions out because you don&#8217;t know how to deal with them. But, you truly must because suppression will only make things worse for both you and your partner.<\/p>\n<h3>29. You don&#8217;t work as a team.<\/h3>\n<p>Non si inizia mai una relazione per unirsi completamente a un'altra persona. Naturalmente, vi sentite legati a loro. Potreste persino sentirvi come se le vostre anime fossero congiunte.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you&#8217;re individuals who&#8217;ve come together to form something unique while still belonging to yourself first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problems only arise when the bond you&#8217;ve formed ceases to exist, and you remain nothing but two people who secretly resent each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito quando questo accade?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Non necessariamente, ma lavorare in squadra e rispettarsi reciprocamente \u00e8 il modo in cui dovrebbe funzionare un matrimonio di successo. Anche, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-efficaci-per-riportare-la-vecchia-scintilla-nel-vostro-matrimonio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Riportare la vecchia scintilla nel vostro matrimonio<\/a> dovrebbe essere la vostra priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h3>30. Portate i quattro cavalieri a giocare.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Beh, se si coinvolge uno dei quattro cavalieri in un conflitto, potrebbe non essere un buon segno.<\/p>\n<p>Che cosa sono, innanzitutto? <strong>Ebbene, a questo gruppo appartengono queste tecniche: la critica, il disprezzo, la difensiva e il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lostruzionismo-e-un-metodo-di-trattamento-silenzioso-perfetto-per-i-narcisisti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ostruzionismo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If any of these are present in place of mutual understanding and empathy, you&#8217;re doing it all wrong.<\/p>\n<h3>31. Pensate spesso a una vita senza di loro.<\/h3>\n<p>The dissatisfaction with your marriage may have gotten to the point where you\u2019ve started thinking of a future that doesn&#8217;t include your husband or wife.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You picture yourself living your best life in solitude, with your kids, or with another partner. The bottom line is your spouse is excluded entirely because you simply don&#8217;t think you could ever <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/che-cose-la-vera-felicita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sperimentare la vera felicit\u00e0<\/a> con loro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget that your imagination plays a key role. After all, it&#8217;s your wishes we&#8217;re talking about here. If you can no longer find joy in your marriage, perhaps it&#8217;s best to part ways.<\/p>\n<h3>32. You&#8217;ve thoroughly planned your departure.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>You don\u2019t just imagine a new life anymore. You&#8217;ve actually thought of leaving. That&#8217;s why you&#8217;re here, reading this. An elaborate plan to escape your current situation has already been made.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you&#8217;ve spoken to your family, and they&#8217;ve told you that you could come and stay with them. Or, you&#8217;ve gotten a job, and you&#8217;re saving money until you eventually have enough to leave.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, if you&#8217;re upset enough to have done this, then the wisest course of action would be to proceed with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-dio-sta-restaurando-il-vostro-matrimonio\/\">23 segni infallibili che Dio sta restaurando il vostro matrimonio<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Il mio matrimonio \u00e8 finito?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137196 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che firma i documenti per il divorzio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Non necessariamente.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Alla fine, solo voi potete conoscere la vera risposta. Tuttavia, a prescindere dalla gravit\u00e0 dei vostri problemi, potete sempre risolverli, se non da soli, con l'aiuto di un consulente matrimoniale.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dopo tutto, un matrimonio \u00e8 finito solo quando uno o entrambi i partner lo decidono.<\/strong> If you feel like that&#8217;s your case, there&#8217;s your answer. However, if you feel even the slightest bit of hope, that&#8217;s good news.<\/p>\n<p><em>Each married couple suffers their fair share of trials and tribulations. It&#8217;s only natural for it to feel like it&#8217;s going to end on a bad note sometimes. But, just because it feels that way at the moment doesn&#8217;t make it true.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Come risolvere un matrimonio infelice?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137197 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sul divano durante una consulenza matrimoniale\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-riparare-un-matrimonio-in-crisi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Risolvere un matrimonio in crisi<\/a> can indeed be a difficult task. However, it&#8217;s only up to you to determine whether the relationship is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p><em>Se sia voi che il vostro partner siete pronti a superare i problemi, questi diventano immediatamente pi\u00f9 piccoli di fronte all'amore e agli sforzi reciproci.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you feel hopeful and ready, here&#8217;s what&#8217;s best to do:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Comunicazione sana<\/h3>\n<p>Don&#8217;t hide your negative thoughts or talk about them with someone outside your marriage. Freely express your feelings to your partner. You will never resolve any problem with silence, so start practicing having honest conversations.<\/p>\n<h3>2. I confini<\/h3>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a crack in your marriage, that doesn&#8217;t mean it can&#8217;t be covered with hard work and mutual understanding.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/confini-nelle-relazioni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Stabilire limiti sani<\/a> and establish rules that each party has to honor. If you need some time apart, that&#8217;s fine too. Just beware that it doesn&#8217;t turn into complete isolation.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Consulenza matrimoniale<\/h3>\n<p>If you feel like you can&#8217;t solve your marital problems on your own, why not try <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consulenza-di-coppia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">terapia di coppia<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Scoprite la causa dei vostri litigi e fate tutto il necessario per far rivivere il matrimonio sano che c'era una volta.<\/p>\n<h2>Tutto in tutto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137198 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia triste sdraiata a letto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve come to the point where you\u2019re wondering, &#8221;Is my marriage over?&#8221;, I&#8217;ll tell you this much: an unhappy marriage doesn&#8217;t mean that it&#8217;s necessarily doomed.<\/p>\n<p>Cercate di esporre direttamente tutti i vostri problemi al coniuge. Tuttavia, se si rifiuta di collaborare, questo potrebbe essere un segnale d'allarme.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you can always fight for your marriage, but everyone has a breaking point. If you truly feel that there&#8217;s no way to get over your problems, then it&#8217;s best to finally leave.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nessuno \u00e8 obbligato a rimanere in un matrimonio senza amore per nessun motivo. La vostra felicit\u00e0 individuale viene prima di tutto.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage might just be the most sacred relationship of all. You love someone so much that you&#8217;re prepared to vow that you&#8217;ll belong to them for a lifetime. When we start doubting the vows we&#8217;ve once made, it seems like the whole world is crashing down around us. We may even start believing that no&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":137194,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623,29620],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage","category-relationships"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"},{"value":29620,"label":"RELATIONSHIPS"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Is-My-Marriage-Over-32-Warning-Signs-Of-An-Unhappy-Spousal-Union-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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