{"id":137220,"date":"2021-10-27T17:59:42","date_gmt":"2021-10-27T17:59:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137220"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:24:05","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:24:05","slug":"baciarsi-al-primo-appuntamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/baciarsi-al-primo-appuntamento\/","title":{"rendered":"Bisogna baciarsi al primo appuntamento? 10 s\u00ec e no spiegati"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re getting ready for the primo incontro<\/a> Se vi vedete con un nuovo ragazzo o una nuova ragazza, decine di domande vi frullano per la testa. Di cosa parlerete? Ti piaceranno?<\/p>\n

Saranno come te<\/a>? E se ci fosse silenzio imbarazzante<\/a>? What if they don’t show up? What should you do to make a good first impression?<\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, I know. Well, the truth is that we’ve all been there.<\/p>\n

E a tutto questo si aggiunge la domanda finale: Dovrebbe <\/b>si baciano al primo appuntamento<\/b>? The fact is that some people do, some don\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

But is it obligatory to smooch when you first meet someone? What if you don’t like them enough? Or is it better to wait and see <\/b>se ci sar\u00e0 un <\/b>secondo appuntamento<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, luckily for your love life, your troubles have come to an end. I’m here to give you some dating tips to help you resolve this dilemma.<\/p>\n

Not only that \u2013 some daters will also share their experience with you \u2013 to help you get a broader perspective on things.<\/p>\n

5 motivi per baciarsi al primo appuntamento<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

For starters, here are some reasons why people kiss on first dates. You don’t know \u2013 maybe one of these pros is exactly what you need to head in the right direction.<\/p>\n

1. Il sovrappensiero \u00e8 sopravvalutato<\/h3>\n

Is it okay to kiss on the first date? What if this is the last time you see each other? What if they get the impression that you’re crazy for them?<\/p>\n

E se perdono interesse dopo che le hai baciate? E se ti vedono solo come un'avventura, ma tu vuoi qualcosa di pi\u00f9?<\/p>\n

Yes, you could be racking your brain with all of these questions. But what’s the point?<\/p>\n

Will overthinking help you with the outcome? It most certainly won’t. In fact, it’s more likely to destroy your relationship before it even starts.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s exactly why it’s much better to do your best and turn off your brain and follow your gut. I’m not saying that you should make reckless decisions, but hey, did one kiss ever really harm anyone?<\/p>\n

I don’t think so. Just go with the flow and see where the night takes you!<\/p>\n

2. C'\u00e8 molta chimica<\/h3>\n

A volte si entra in sintonia con l'altra persona fin dall'inizio. Sarebbe eccessivo definirlo amore a prima vista<\/a>, but it’s definitely chemistry at first sight.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 un sacco di tempo prolungato <\/b>contatto visivo<\/b>, “accidental” physical contact, and all the other non-verbal signs that you’re both into each other. Don’t pretend like the tension between you two isn’t real.<\/b><\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 molto da ragionare. Si sente la chimica e si ha voglia di baciarsi.<\/p>\n

So, why wouldn’t you do exactly that? Wait until your date is over or just start kissing right there. What’s the worst that could happen?<\/p>\n

3. You’re testing the waters<\/h3>\n

Have you ever been in a situation where you’re not sure se il tuo appuntamento ti piace o no<\/a>? Maybe you’ve met them on an <\/b>app di incontri online<\/b>,<\/b> e le cose sono in qualche modo diverse ora che le si vede di persona.<\/b><\/p>\n

Or maybe you just have mixed feelings about them. Don’t worry, that’s perfectly normal, and it happens to everyone.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, the first smooch is exactly what you need. It will help you test the waters and realize whether there’s enough chemistry for you to even consider a second one.<\/p>\n

4. Non esiste un segnale non verbale migliore<\/h3>\n

If you’re not much into talking and hate dire a qualcuno quanto gli piace<\/a>baciare \u00e8 il modo migliore per dimostrare i propri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to come up with a un mucchio di complimenti<\/a>, and you don’t have to worry about finding the right words \u2013 your lips will do all the talking for you.<\/p>\n

Trust me \u2013 sometimes, it’s easier (and more effective) to express yourself with <\/b>linguaggio del corpo<\/b> segni piuttosto che verbalmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

5. Si ha la sensazione che<\/h3>\n

At the end of the day, do you really need a reason for kissing? You just feel like it, and that’s reason enough.<\/p>\n

Of course, what matters here is mutual consent. It’s crucial to <\/b>prestare attenzione<\/b> to the other person’s non-verbal signals before making a move.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si tratter\u00e0 di un semplice scambio di labbra o di un appassionato bacio alla francese? Che ne sar\u00e0 del vostro posizionamento delle mani<\/a>? Will it be just a kiss, or will it end up in making out? It’s only up to you two!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come confermare un appuntamento: 9 consigli ed esempi di testo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

5 motivi per non baciarsi al primo appuntamento<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve covered the fors, it’s time to pay attention to the reasons kissing on the first date is not the best idea in the world.<\/p>\n

1. You don’t feel ready<\/h3>\n

It’s okay not to feel ready to kiss someone on the first date or just not to be in the mood for it. Your personal boundaries are important, and please, don’t allow anyone to cross them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t do anything just because you feel forced to do it. You’re still allowed to like the other person without having the need to kiss them \u2013 that’s your right.<\/b><\/p>\n

Finally, keep in mind that you don’t need to justify your actions to anyone. If they make the first move, step back or politely tell them that you want to wait \u2013 without any guilt trips included.<\/p>\n

2. You don’t want to send the wrong message<\/h3>\n

You have a feeling that this guy or girl you’ve started seeing will be special. And you don’t want to ruin things by rushing anything.<\/p>\n

Volete che vi prendano sul serio e preferite aspettare che il vostro <\/b>primo bacio<\/b> essere speciale e romantico.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s also a valid reason not to kiss on the <\/b>primo appuntamento<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

3. Un abbraccio \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che sufficiente<\/h3>\n

A volte, un semplice abbraccio<\/a> can be more intimate than an actual kiss. Or you just feel like that’s too intimate for your first encounter.<\/p>\n

In that case, be the one to lean in for a hug when you’re saying goodbye before you give them a chance to try and kiss you. Of course, there are <\/b>diversi tipi di abbracci<\/b><\/a> \u2013 you should hold them a bit tighter and a bit longer, so they get the message.<\/b><\/p>\n

You’ll show them that you like them and that you’re comfortable with being physically close to them. At the same time, you’ll send a message that you want to wait a bit longer for the first kiss to happen.<\/p>\n

4. You’re afraid of rejection<\/h3>\n

Making the first move takes a lot of courage, and don’t let anyone tell you differently. If you want to kiss the other person, but you’re not sure if they want the same, I would always advise you to go for it.<\/p>\n

At least, you’ll know you tried and went after what you wanted.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, if you’re insecure about doing it and have trouble reading their non-verbal signals, it may be better to wait for a better opportunity. Maybe next time you’ll feel more confident, or they’ll show you more signs that <\/b>vogliono baciare<\/b><\/a> ti restituisce.<\/b><\/p>\n

5. It’s too intimate<\/h3>\n

For many, kissing is not such a big deal. But for you, it’s an intimate act, and you don’t enjoy locking lips with guys or girls who are practically strangers.<\/p>\n

In that case, the answer to the question of, \u201cShould you kiss on the first date?\u201d is definitely no. Aspettate di conoscere meglio l'altra persona e di sentirvi a vostro agio. <\/b>sbaciucchiamento<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Cosa scrivere a un ragazzo dopo il primo appuntamento: i 70 migliori esempi di testo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi baciate al primo appuntamento?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

To get the right picture, I’ve asked a couple of daters (both men and women) to talk to me about their habits and experience regarding first dates and first kisses. Here is what they’ve revealed:<\/p>\n

Il secondo appuntamento \u00e8 un incanto<\/h3>\n

“Personally, Penso che il <\/b>primo appuntamento<\/b> \u00e8 troppo presto.<\/b> Maybe it’s just me, but I wouldn’t feel comfortable kissing a stranger.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, in base alla mia esperienza, la maggior parte dei ragazzi ti apprezzer\u00e0 di pi\u00f9 se fai la difficile all'inizio.<\/p>\n

Ma raramente aspetto il <\/b>terzo appuntamento<\/b> because, let’s face it, a guy could get the impression I don’t like him until then.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s why I think that the bacio al secondo appuntamento<\/a> is perfect. Not too soon, not too late!”<\/p>\n

– Julia, 33<\/i><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 no?<\/h3>\n

“Doesn’t everyone kiss on the first date? Well, at the end of the date, if nothing else :chuckles:<\/p>\n

If you ask me: should you kiss on the first date? \u2013 I ask you: why shouldn’t you? <\/b>That is, if you feel like it, of course. After all, what is there to lose?”<\/p>\n

– Amy, 29<\/i><\/p>\n

Tutto dipende<\/h3>\n

“Well, I can’t really give you a concrete answer. You see, it’s one thing if I went out with a guy I met on an <\/b>app di incontri online<\/b> and haven’t had the chance to talk too much before the date.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, I probably won’t kiss him.<\/b><\/p>\n

But if I’m going out on a date with a friend of a friend I’ve been texting for a while, then, yes, I wouldn’t mind kissing him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Inoltre, dipende dal tipo di data. Si tratta di una <\/b>appuntamento al caff\u00e8<\/b>? O siamo al cinema?<\/b><\/p>\n

And let’s not forget about body language. If there is some serious eye contact, and if he sends me the vibe of a good kisser, I’d definitely step up my game and take things to the next level.”<\/p>\n

– Nikkie, 22<\/i><\/p>\n

Cosa c'\u00e8 da aspettare?<\/h3>\n

“Absolutely! Niente mi eccita come un buon <\/b>Bacio alla francese<\/b> al <\/b>fine della notte<\/b>. Uscire con qualcuno sul <\/b>primo appuntamento significa<\/b> that you’re, if nothing else, attracted to them enough to kiss them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s my job to make the first move, but hey, if she isn’t down for a smooch, it’s no big deal. I’ll take it like a man and accept it as the end of the night without a problem.”<\/p>\n

– Steve, 38<\/i><\/p>\n

Sperimentare le acque \u00e8 il modo migliore per farlo<\/h3>\n

“Who doesn’t enjoy a good kiss, especially if it ends up with un po' di sesso<\/a> e pomiciare<\/a>? Io lo so.<\/p>\n

Allo stesso tempo, I also make sure to respect my date’s boundaries.<\/b> I pay attention to her body language signs and do my best to determine whether she’s down for it as well.<\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa che voglio \u00e8 mettere a disagio la situazione. <\/b>Trust me \u2013 there is nothing worse than leaning in for a kiss on the mouth and having a girl give you a bacio sulla guancia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But if that happens, what can you do? It certainly won’t discourage me. I get it: some girls are shy and have a strict policy of no kissing when they first meet on a date.”<\/p>\n

– Mark, 27<\/i><\/p>\n

Is it bad if you don’t kiss on the first date?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Some people prefer taking things slow, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. It doesn’t mean that they don’t like you if they don’t initiate the <\/b>primo bacio<\/b> sul <\/b>primo appuntamento<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tenete presente che questo \u00e8 solo l'inizio e che c'\u00e8 tutto il tempo per sviluppare un legame significativo che si concluder\u00e0 con un bacio.<\/p>\n

Un bacio al primo appuntamento \u00e8 un buon segno?<\/h2>\n

Un bacio (o qualsiasi altra forma di contatto fisico) al primo appuntamento non \u00e8 solo una un buon segno per piacere a qualcuno<\/a> \u2013 it’s a great sign. If they want to kiss you right after meeting you, it’s a signal that the attraction they feel for you is so strong that they can’t wait to see you again.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s definitely a sign that they like you and want something more. Of course, it’s up to both of you to take the wheel and drive this romance in the right direction.<\/p>\n

In quale data si dovrebbe baciare?<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

If you’re sure that there is mutual attraction and chimica fisica<\/a>, there is nothing wrong with kissing on the first date (keep in mind that most people wait for the end of the date). But if you need more time to decide whether this person is kissable, it’s perfectly okay to wait for the second date.<\/p>\n

Il <\/b>terzo appuntamento<\/b><\/a> \u00e8 probabilmente il momento in cui dovreste sapere se riuscite a vedervi baciare l'altra persona o meno. <\/b>If there is still not enough chemistry between you two at this point, I’m afraid to break it to you, but you should stay friends.<\/p>\n

Cosa non si deve fare al primo appuntamento?<\/h2>\n

I’m begging you not to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. Don’t do something just to please the other person or just because you think it’s expected from you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But besides this, there are some other things you should avoid the first time you go out with someone (or ever). So, don’t:<\/p>\n

    \n
  • Arrivare in ritardo<\/b><\/li>\n
  • Mettete gi\u00f9 il vostro appuntamento per sentirvi meglio<\/b><\/li>\n
  • Parlare troppo del proprio ex fidanzato\/ragazza<\/b><\/li>\n
  • Passare la notte al telefono<\/b><\/li>\n
  • Sembrano economici<\/b><\/li>\n
  • Essere troppo insistenti<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

    \"un<\/p>\n

    Tutti gli esperti di relazioni vi diranno pi\u00f9 o meno la stessa cosa: there is no right or wrong answer to the question, \u201cshould <\/b>you kiss on the first date?\u201d<\/b> This decision is all yours, so forget about some nonexistent dating rules that tell you what you’re allowed to do.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Sapete qual \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante? Baciare al primo appuntamento va bene. Anche aspettare di ricevere il primo bacio \u00e8 perfettamente accettabile.<\/p>\n

    The only thing that matters is that you and your date are both happy with the decision you’ve made. Forget about the norms and regulations!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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